Singles & Dating - 9 March 2007

So theres this girl I know I love, not like but love. I've known her for two years now and never once did my affections quit. Even though shes really beautiful I really love her for who she is. Now the problem is after a year of when I first met her...she got a boyfriend. And they have been dating now(to my continual torment) for almost a year. What makes me angry is that when I see a picture of them together, I dont get jealous because Im just glad shes happy. She doesn't know how I feel about her. But I know she likes me as a friend. Should I wait till they break up? Should I keep my love a secret and become more of a friend to her? Or should I just tell her and hope the cause wont hurt our friendship?
I've tried to just forget about her...but after months of trying I only failed. Trust me I know there are plenty of fish out there in this ocean but for me there is only one that caries the keys to my heart.
Last couple of details, She said to her friend that Im cute and cool.

2007-03-09 19:50:21 · 5 answers · asked by Robert L 2

2007-03-09 19:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by chan l 1

I am 5'11 and I always hate it whenever a guy chooses someone half my height just because I am either as tall as him or just a little shorter. Do guys just ignore girls who are tall completely? I mean come on! People I meet tell me how pretty and beautiful I am but yet I can't seem to get the guys I want. But this may be just a high school phase. I guess high school guys are still trying to mature...

2007-03-09 19:48:24 · 20 answers · asked by Cool_Tall_One 3

Well, I'm a pretty different person.

First off- you should know I'm a 14 year old high school sophomore. I like to think of myself as responsible and trustworthy. I am a Christian.

I've liked this guy for a year and a half... he's fantastic.
But what this question is really about is that I think sometimes he gets frustrated cause he always tries to tell me I'm pretty and not fat (I think I am... I'm 5'7'' and weigh 140 lbs...) but do guys get annoyed and frustrated when girls refuse to take compliments?

2007-03-09 19:47:46 · 17 answers · asked by Lauren 2

Heres the deal - broke up with this two timing jackass a few months back. His girl or her friends keep calling just to harrass or threaten me - at work no less. I have attempted to talk to him about this but he refuses to retrn calls or emails. Would it be to vengefull if I drop off his underwear & sex toys in a clear bag to work or home? Im tired of the B.S.! I just need to get my point across.

2007-03-09 19:47:24 · 3 answers · asked by caasi2004 1

i have been dating him for only a couple of days but his birthday is in like 3 days

2007-03-09 19:47:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I'm confused with the term "asking out". See, this guy has finally asked me out on a date, and everything seems fine. You know, he does things a boyfriend would do for me. Thing is, if a guy asks you out, does that automatically make you his girlfriend? Because the way he acts and what he does, it certainly does seem that way.

2007-03-09 19:47:19 · 3 answers · asked by Hummingbird 2

I moved home recently. I didnt want to but had to take care of my sick Mom.
She's better now and I want to move to th eplace I originally had planned to.
But I have a big worry/concern.
I had been iming a guy who lives in the town I moving to.
He knew that I almost moved there also.
Well we met recently and he was pretty awful in person. Great looking but utterly shallow. He rejected me because I am size 10 and not a 4 (Im actually getting down that size for me - so his loss) To show his displeasure he actually made me pay half the date plus asked me to buy him drinks.
Anyway things are awkward online and I dont think I should chat online with him or let him know I am moving nearby.
Should I tell him ahead of time or just ignore him from now on ?
He's already so arrogant & don't want him to think I moved there cause his lame pretyt boy self lives there.

2007-03-09 19:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by merryme 1

2007-03-09 19:44:13 · 2 answers · asked by a random person 1

actually my problem is that i get frosted when i with her because generally i use to talk less but she wants that i should talk continue which i can't but as i love her too much i have to talk. talking to her is not my problem actually i don't know to talk in proper manner. when we have gossip she get angry because don't know what my mouths says.. hope u have understud my problem main thing is that i always want to keep her happy an d smiling.. please suggest me some tips to get up from this silly problem..

2007-03-09 19:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by soul mate 1

2007-03-09 19:43:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently my girlfriend has been telling me that she is going to go out with her friends to a party.I tell her ok she can go, but i dont want her home late. I also tell her to call me when she gets home. I dont know if i should be feeling like this, because i dont even know why she is going out in the first place. I think this because i dont really think she has any business over there at a party becasue she already had me. Everytime i confront her we end up in a fight. I try to come up with compromises but she dont want none except for her to go out and have me waiting like the good little doggy. I told her that when she goes out i would go out to and she didnt like this idea that much. I told her it was only fair, because i hate to be home waiting for her to call me when she gets home, so id rather be out having my own good time not worrying like the good doggy she wants me to be. Does anyone agree with me on the offers i gave her?

2007-03-09 19:39:52 · 12 answers · asked by Teen Reslover.. 1

what does this mean??

A guy gives you a valentines, and tells someone that knows you hes interested in you....he tries to run into you for weeks...cos you dont see him ...finally he gets your number and aks you out and you accept...the day you wanna go out he has to stay back at work.....and the next day he doesnt contact you....

does he like me or what??
you think hes serious

2007-03-09 19:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3

And it was so hard to have a communication with him just because of the language?

2007-03-09 19:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 2

if she thinks shes in love what should she do, how is she suppose to choose one of them & how does she know who she loves (likes) more.

2007-03-09 19:37:37 · 18 answers · asked by Shadows of thousand 1

-nearly 6 fit tall
-thin, slender built
-long straight hair
-a smell of fragrant

what comes up in your mind?

2007-03-09 19:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by rachel 3

ok i been going and seeing this band for about a month now well a guy in the band has been chatting with me alot lately i gave him my email and he emailed me i dont know what is running thru his head he tells me he misses me when i dont go to one of the shows and wanted to know if i was gonna celebrate my birthday with the band still anyone at all here can tell me what is going on?

2007-03-09 19:34:40 · 10 answers · asked by poohbear27 2

my friend got with an underage girl. they where introduced by the girls brother. would all these people get in trouble

2007-03-09 19:34:05 · 6 answers · asked by Mark P 2

what quality characteristics in a man should i be looking for? and do you know any cool spots where grown singles meet? in L.A.

2007-03-09 19:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by life 1

What can i do o attract a man's attention? I fell so lonely because i'm after break up

2007-03-09 19:32:18 · 3 answers · asked by AB.Christ'91 2

first off i will give you a short back history. i am married with three kids. i love my husband. but he dosent pay attention to me . he is more into video games and reading than in me. we may have sex once a month and some times up to once on three months. i found cyber sex by accident . ( i wasnt looking i just got an offer and happened to except it) i found that i really like it . there is one guy that i do it with quite often, we also talk casually and , would like to try in person. and take it to the next level.

my question is this. i feel really bad because i am married, but on the other hand my husband dosent pay any attention to me like that anymore. what should i do.

further info i am only 23, and internet guy lives close. should i go for it?

2007-03-09 19:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of three and a half months and I broke up on Wednesday. During our breakup conversation I told him it would probably not be a good idea to join my friends and I (about 15 of us) on a luncheon for my birthday on Saturday. I re-invited him the next day over email and told him that it would nice to see him there. He said he'd love to come, but only if it was okay with me.

So...I'm not sure how to read this. I know he was very interested in maintaining a friendship after this breakup (to be honest, I don't feel like this was a full-fledged breakup), but I'm not sure if this means that he's still interested in trying to make something work...

2007-03-09 19:31:08 · 12 answers · asked by Tangent Lines 1

i want to write a love letter to my girl friend

2007-03-09 19:31:04 · 17 answers · asked by ambi a 1

im 15 and jelouse cause she pregnet she cant even finish her freshman year. oh ya i still really like my ex and hes getting ready to be a dad. im screwed.

2007-03-09 19:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by jojo 1

I'm not trolling, i really want to know...If you claim religious reasons, then what if you got pregnant via premarital sex? That's a sin too, why pick an choose your beliefs on this issue? If your raped or incest, then why do you think that victim should be forced to have that monster's child?

2007-03-09 19:28:55 · 2 answers · asked by allanackerman07 1

What should I say?
How should I act?
What should I not say?
How can I make her laugh?
EVERYTHING!

2007-03-09 19:28:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I decided to stop dating for the next 2-3 months.
Im 30 yars old and got out of a long term relationship 6 months ago.
Since the I have dated 3 guys. All tall, dark, handsome and completely weirdos. 1st wanted to 'pretend' rape me, 2nd guy had dragon breath and wouldnt believe me & the third guy rejected me because I was size 10 instead of size 4.
And what hurts about third guy is he was very good friend & now he won't speak to me because I wasnt thin enough in person.
So Im trying to take time off to get myself in great shape (for me) to figure out why I keep being attracted to guys who are bastards and to just enjoy my own life being single.
Problem is I feel horribly depressed & like a loser to be single with no prospects. All my friends are happily married or coupled up.
How can I deal with just dating me for a while ?

2007-03-09 19:28:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a 17yr0mth male teen and im in love with this 20yr5mth girl.

What do other people make of this? now and in the long run, eg when in 21 and shes 24yrs5mths

2007-03-09 19:28:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

To start off with, does anyone have any good tips on keeping my relationship fresh. My biggest problem is that I miss those old days. Ok well, things between me and my girlfriend are not the same anymore. For example, we dont stay up talking on the phone anymore. Also, I feel that she doesnt want to see me anymore. For example, sometimes she is soo happy to see me and other times she just doesnt want me around. Anyone know of any good tips to help me figure out what to do? I just want her to love me like she used to?

2007-03-09 19:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by Teen Reslover.. 1

i have an average penis. to girls, what is the "average" size? i have never been dissed, in fact i have been wanted more after ward. on here, you tell them but they seem to want to see more or something. girls, if you saw their penis before hand then would you still go home with them? or would you still like it the same? most guys (unless in the porn you look at) (which is cool as hell if you do) most of them can *** buckets or have a penis as long as my leg. any way, why is it an issue online? you want to see a penis that big but when you see the average one you leave. give a guy a break here. we only give what we can. again, if you met us in a bar and went home with us, you would NEVER leave!!! i am just speaking for us that do it and you like it. what's the big deal? let's just have some freakin fun!!!

2007-03-09 19:24:32 · 2 answers · asked by djb0036 1