Singles & Dating - 9 March 2007

Okay the problem is I am 21 and the guy I am in love wit is 26. We met in a class at our college. We started talking while I was in a relationship wit another guy. Me and the other guy broke up a few months after I met the 26 year old because my ex was abusive. After that relationship the 26 year old and I have been together for nearly a year now. We recently made things serious between the two of us.

The 26 year old has three kids by three different mothers. The kids are 7, 4, and 2. I have always felt like he was hiding stuff from me. He didnt tell about his last child until I confronted him about the child. Plus I found pics of him and another girl on his computer having sex. My mother, sister, and friends all dislike him and would rather we not be together. My question is should I allow myself to open up fully to him or wait or just leave him alone? I really am confused and need help!!!

2007-03-09 19:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by star4ever2004 1

yes i am...I am 18 and a Senior in HS but since 7th grade, i started liking guys because i did and i always dreamt to have a prince who could actually catch me!

in highschool until know, i have liked like 10 different guys...of course NOT at the same time...but it's weird how every class i go to, there's always a guy for me to like and get the same response: NOTHING!

I am desperate....i feel like it's one of my many goals before graduation...u know, just to fulfill it and that not be left out like those POPULAR people in school

i'm a very laid-back, studious type of person, and a LONER......is that the reason y i can't get one?

also, how can i meet a guy if my parents are TOO overprotective of me? whenever i wanna go to the mall, they always have to come with me; i have not gotten and freedom...

lastly, you think there's a way to have a boyfriend before graduation and what shall i do...i can not keep up like this...

btw,nobody i know thinks i'm pretty enough to have 1

2007-03-09 19:23:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a girl says this to her friend what is she saying about the guy the girl likes.

2007-03-09 19:22:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell ME

2007-03-09 19:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Happy 1

I recently started liking this guy so i dont know him much. His friend is going to ask me whether or not i like his friend. I want to say yes but without actually saying yes. eg. maybe - but something where he will know i said yes, not maybe where there is a chance i might not like him. PLZ answer!!

Thanx in advance!!!

2007-03-09 19:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

To know he is married. You know.. The crazy thing about all this is. I dont know where he came from but like a bolt of lightening he has made flourish inside.
We are not inmiate together because, I cant do it and neither can he. After always wondering if i would find him, we finally have each other and he feels exactly the same. Before he met me he thought his life was over, and thats the way his life should be ( i know ur thinking oh any old line) I know in my heart we are meant to be! I know im the horrible other woman but not! SO the question is, is the relationship doomed from the get go? Has anyone been here, is here or been there done that and OWNS the t-shirt? He has told me he is leaving his wife but obviously things take time, so he has his own 'deadline' and if its not met then we are over! Im nervous as anything, my heart is pulsing my brain is aching ! I truly love this man with every bone in my body! He Is the one!

2007-03-09 19:14:15 · 15 answers · asked by Lady Love 2

i felt this really really unexplainable connection for this guy ever since i met him..then i found out he likes me too..then we went out..everything was so fast..then i broke up with him cuz i was so confuse..then now we never speak to each other....but until now..i still feel this strong connection to him..does anyone know what's this? anyone who could explain this...i heard there's something about the frequency and stuff like that..i don't get it though..anyone please explain to me why i feel this way to him..it's very strong..like i can feel when he's around...when he's at my back and stuff...do u think he also feel this way bout me or what?

2007-03-09 19:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My crush has a friend smart mouths me and won't let me talk. She says he's just trying to build my head up big and that he doesn't mean anything he says to me. He corrects her on this point. She tries to dominate him and asks him why he even likes to be around me. I asked if he had a crush on her and he said NO so I believe him. He's a great guy and I believe him. But he could be omitting information like if he was sleeping with her. I thought he wanted to sleep with me...but who knows.

Three different ppl said the figure the two are sleeping together. One-a guy who was crushing on the girl. One-a boss. The last one-my grandma.

They call each other BOO. But he and I call each other BABY. He told her I was his baby. Several times!

Now here's the juice!
He tells me how to talk her down...put her in her place.
He tells me she has no right to tell me who are my friends.
He laughed in her face when I said I'm tired of her azz.

So are they involved or does he like me?

2007-03-09 19:13:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when a girl looks at you straight in the eye everytime you see each and she reacts oddly whenever im around.is it a sign that she likes me?i like her too so should i go for it?

2007-03-09 19:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by Ardon Jr T 1

2007-03-09 19:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by ranju 2

I know this guy for 3 years.We have been together on and off(but not as a couple).I know and always knew he doesn't love me and I've told him that I don't love him.The thing is.......we had sex.....Now we are not together at all (of curse).After 2-3 months of separation we met @ his cousin's house, he called me that same day and asked if I have or had some1 after him.I said no(which is true) but it clear for him that I don't want to c him.On Feb.14 I text him(today I want to tell you this 3 words- I HATE YOU)The next day he called and told me that his girlfriend read the msg,got my number and is going to call me.She did call me,I didn't anwer.She's still calling me........

2007-03-09 19:11:17 · 13 answers · asked by looser 1

Sometimes I feel like I can't make any changes in my life due to the fact that there is simply no time to make the changes and I am going through life as if I were a car on cruse control. Have you ever felt that way? Why did you feel that way?

2007-03-09 19:11:09 · 3 answers · asked by gimojore 2

Well i think my friend is in love with her brother but like thinks hes hot and all. ive told her its kind of gross to like ur brother. but ahe wanted me t give her advice but i dont have any for her. shes always like flirting with him and idk she lays in his bed while hes in bed and she just touches him all. ive told her not to do it but she attractive to him and she all so wants to know how can she like start making out with him? i mean this is so wrong in so many levels can you g ive her some advice?

2007-03-09 19:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this guy ,but he has a girl friend . I'm moving to Paris in 2 week. should i give him this note or go on living live and hope for the best in Paris .PS is you think i should change something just tell me Shanta






i want to let you in on a secret .I'm not who you think i am in fact my disguise is so thin I'm surprised you cant see right though me.I'm the girl of you dreams hiding as your best friend.some times i want to rip off this disguise like i did at the spring formal ,but i cant ,because you'll get scared and run a way again.so i decided that its better to live with the lie then expose my true fillings . my dad said there are two types of girls the ones you grow out off and the one you grow in too .i hope I'm the ladder i may not be the one you love to today ,but ill let you go for now and hopeing you'll fly back to me , because i think worth the wait .

2007-03-09 19:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so there is this girl i like.(im 13) but shes going out with this other guy. but she hangs out with me and writes notes back and forth and talks on the phone with me more than her bf?! and my friend is pretending to like her. (she knows its fake) just to piss off her bf. And she likes it when he POs her bf?! isn't it weird? and i write to her in notes every day. and she writes back too. when im on the bus she talks and does stuff with me and not her bf who is also riding the bus!!!!! WHAT SOULD I DO???!!

2007-03-09 19:08:29 · 1 answers · asked by storm Harding 1

I have something peculiar going on with me.When i go out I find girls staring at me.First I thought they like me.But,when it was going on for too long,i felt Maybe i m wierd or something.IF i m wierd why do only girls stare at me but not boys?Whats going on actually?

2007-03-09 19:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by him h 1

2007-03-09 19:02:12 · 2 answers · asked by Krin k 1

There's a female at work that I believe might be interested as we exchange glances and talk every once in a while and she seems to be sending out the right signals for me to ask her out. Also, I've casually asked her to lunch a few times with a polite no reply both times. And while I am getting glances it could be she is just friendly with everyone or wants to be friends. However, two things concern me regarding making a move. Not to brag, but I have had women find me cute but only to tell me they're not into me like that. See, I look much younger than I really am and I get the feeling the glances could be part of the same syndrome again. In other words, I could be attractive the way kids are seen as cute.

And I recently found out she has a boyfriend and I figure even if she's interested I shouldn't do anything because of that. What should I do as I really am interested and can't seem to move on?

2007-03-09 19:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if they crashed into one another during flight, over a very populated area, like directly above a large city in new york... like, what happens when all that stuff falls down from the sky?

2007-03-09 18:56:55 · 7 answers · asked by flyingdonkey2009 1

You know, something that puts her on the defensive about her career, her views, etc?

2007-03-09 18:55:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can you??

2007-03-09 18:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by storm Harding 1

Especially the ones who write out LOOOOOONNNNGGGGGGG stories when they could sum things up? How about the people who use all the abbreviations (half of which you can't make out)?

2007-03-09 18:54:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i like this guy but im pretty sure he just likes me as a friend..we're not like super good friends either..just friends. but i like him alot and i cant stand keeping it a secret...but the thing is im really overweight so im afraid he'll reject me and like feel weird around me and it would turn out really bad...wat should i do??

2007-03-09 18:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im really shy and everytime i talk to someone i dont know well, my voice is all low and sounds different and they cant really hear me kuz how low it is. if i get really nervous i studder or talk really fast. how do i get over this?

2007-03-09 18:51:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-09 18:49:26 · 16 answers · asked by comer 1

WHAT DO U THINK OF ME???? I HAVE MORE PICS....JUST ASK :) IM 20 YRS OLD..... LOVE ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING I CAN GET MY HANDS ON PRETTY MUCH...IS THERE ANYTHING IN MY PIC YOU LIKE ABOUT ME
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2007-03-09 18:48:53 · 3 answers · asked by morgan d 1

me and my bf broke up but we are going out again.. and he said this

ya but i want to be with u the nly reson i wanted to split was welll we dont do any stuff together of anything
..
what does that mean, and how can i change that?

2007-03-09 18:47:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyday's the same. nothing interesting ever happens. I wake up, eat... go online.. work... take a nap... eat again.. go online.. chat with this girl on msn.. go to bed..

the exact same thing tomorrow. why?

2007-03-09 18:46:45 · 10 answers · asked by flyingdonkey2009 1

It's hard enough for normal people to meet their compatible date. Let alone a foreigner asian guy, although I am US eduated, been here around 10 years, I consider myself attractive male; But I don't feel comfortable enough to hang out with normal americans young guys of my age, though I am attracted to all kinds of beautiful ladies. On the other hand, I felt dis-connected from my own people, not that I don't want to, it's just not naturally built in me to feel the root.

I just want to find some decent attractive girl to be my girlfriend, where can I find them?

2007-03-09 18:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by Happy Friday 1

how can i find the new one? A good man and a man who match with me??

2007-03-09 18:39:20 · 1 answers · asked by AB.Christ'91 2