There's a female at work that I believe might be interested as we exchange glances and talk every once in a while and she seems to be sending out the right signals for me to ask her out. Also, I've casually asked her to lunch a few times with a polite no reply both times. And while I am getting glances it could be she is just friendly with everyone or wants to be friends. However, two things concern me regarding making a move. Not to brag, but I have had women find me cute but only to tell me they're not into me like that. See, I look much younger than I really am and I get the feeling the glances could be part of the same syndrome again. In other words, I could be attractive the way kids are seen as cute.
And I recently found out she has a boyfriend and I figure even if she's interested I shouldn't do anything because of that. What should I do as I really am interested and can't seem to move on?
2007-03-09 19:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I recently discovered that she usually works thru lunch or goes to gym, but still I agree the no raincheck I thought was odd if she felt something. (Although she did agree to lunch one time in a group setting.) With the whole BF thing, it seems she tells some guys that she's involved but I haven't gotten that response yet. I mean since it is work I can't blame her for being busy a lot which I am too so I decided to give it a rest. However, recently she revealed she is with someone but then the following week I started getting signals again where she even stops by or initiates conversations with me although she too seems shy or awkward about it.
2007-03-11 00:30:36 · update #1
you need to talk with her and try to shair some of these feelings to see where you both stand........
2007-03-09 19:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds exactly like this one girl i work with. some girls are just very friendly. you should ask other guys at work if they are getting the same glances, chances are you may not be the only one. hell, even ask the girls if they are getting glances. if a girl likes you, she will NEVER turn down an invitation, and if she does, she will take a rain check on it. i wouldnt get your hopes on it, anyways, relationships at work are always messy, its best to steer clear from them.
2007-03-10 03:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by skatesa207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have gone as far to ask her to lunch and she didnt even give you a reply there is your ansewr. A no would be better then no answer at all. Find the right one for you.
2007-03-10 03:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're reading too much into this. She has had ample time to convey her feelings to you, and you've gotten nothing. Be thankful you haven't moved yet and cut your losses. When and if her feelings for her current lover fade, she'll remember you.
2007-03-10 03:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just brag about yourslef ...you just confused about she likes you means she don't like you in actual fact
2007-03-10 03:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋