ok so i like this guy but im pretty sure he just likes me as a friend..we're not like super good friends either..just friends. but i like him alot and i cant stand keeping it a secret...but the thing is im really overweight so im afraid he'll reject me and like feel weird around me and it would turn out really bad...wat should i do??
2007-03-09 18:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to avoid the heartache of him making fun or your weight then just keep it a secret. If you know for sure that he only adores you as a friend, just leave it like that. Some guys think that when girls like them, but they don't like them back that they are such studs. He'll probably make fun of you and brag to his friends that you're into him, but he's totally not into you. Just find someone else that will appreciate you for yourself. I think that overweight girls are the most sensitive and deserve way better than stupid studs that will just shiot all over you. I used to be that girl and now, they all want me back.
2007-03-09 20:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad that you are overweight, soaps and magazines keep you from realizing how beautiful you really are.
So, here's what you do: it's important to hang out with him alone; some guys will put girls down in front of their friends (we don't want that!). Be playful AND reserved at the same time and before long you won't have to tell him. It will just happen.
2007-03-10 03:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Achaa is he that much of handsome to reject u just because of u r overweigth, than dont say u will become a joke.
2007-03-10 03:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should definitely tell him.
I know it's easier to say than to do, but nothing is worse than wondering "what if?".
The wors thing that can happen is that things get uncomfortable for a while.
The best thing that can happen is that you find someone to live a wonderful experience with.
That's no contest.
2007-03-10 02:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out and see if hes free first. then you will have your answer. read tips on flirting and dating to help you better on this site
2007-03-10 03:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rejected be brave my girl i like you
2007-03-10 02:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋