2007-03-09 18:49:26 · 16 answers · asked by comer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all in the mind. You don't beg and persuade, you expect.
2007-03-09 18:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chicks need "chemistry" - which is not a rational process per se
That chemistry subsconciously directs them toward males most clearly fitting an optimal norm of evolutionary genetic survival
Obviously items such as strength, height, looks (representing health and fertility), and intelligence - are important
However other factors are even more important such as controlling behavior, cheating (nonmonogamy) and deception, and sometimes (with certain chicks) a touch of restrained violence (nothing unlawful of course) - also turn them on - because those also were highly beneficial over for man's survial over the first 3 to 5 million year of evolution
Alpha males created new hiers by spreading their seed widely, controlling women, being deceptive, and using physical force where necessary - and in turn females were naturally attracted to these males - who in turn who help the chicks's genes to move forward in time
The point is seed spreading lying controlling "jerks" have certain advantages in the mating game as women's DNA in effect designates such males as increasing the chicks' chances of genetic survival
Most chicks, especially hot chicks, crave bad guys, and they get turned on by being told what to do
Sincere, monogamous, honest "nice guys" are their in-between fillers - who listen to their endless stories about their latest jerk problems - up until the time Jerk # 2 shows up - who the chick then invariably is screwing
The bottom line is one has to be enough of a jerk for women to love
2007-03-10 03:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Comer, No one should have to beg for sex. If the girl doesn't want to have sex with you,you must honor what she has said. Just wait until the right girl comes along. Then you will have sex without begging for it.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-10 02:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to beg them then evidently they're not in the mood to have sex. Try asking some female friends their opinions and see what they say you're doing right or wrong. Usually that works for insight purposes.
2007-03-10 02:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Shakiki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you beg. Begging is the left overs like a dog gets.
2007-03-10 02:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by daboss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty pathetic that you have to beg. Get some self respect and find yourself a woman and take her to bed after you get to know her a bit.
2007-03-10 02:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by modesdepetite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi comer,
Your present technique isn't working for you,is it? It's time to change and find out what does work.
You need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-03-10 03:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, you should keep the begging to a minimum. Us girls find it unnattractive to see a male practically cry over pleasure.
2007-03-10 02:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sumo Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because dude, it's ALWAYS, always ALWAYS about YOU and your dic&!!! Get over yourself and your NEED cuz it's makin you look ugly! Why can't you get in to HER??!! That, my friend is the secret! Make yourself into a sex-toy she can never do without! Word will get around that you know how to please women, and they'll be LINING UP at your door!
2007-03-10 02:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't like desperate men. Do women find you sexy? Women have to get a certain chemistry when they meet you. You have to be attractive to them on several levels.
2007-03-10 02:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋