I moved home recently. I didnt want to but had to take care of my sick Mom.
She's better now and I want to move to th eplace I originally had planned to.
But I have a big worry/concern.
I had been iming a guy who lives in the town I moving to.
He knew that I almost moved there also.
Well we met recently and he was pretty awful in person. Great looking but utterly shallow. He rejected me because I am size 10 and not a 4 (Im actually getting down that size for me - so his loss) To show his displeasure he actually made me pay half the date plus asked me to buy him drinks.
Anyway things are awkward online and I dont think I should chat online with him or let him know I am moving nearby.
Should I tell him ahead of time or just ignore him from now on ?
He's already so arrogant & don't want him to think I moved there cause his lame pretyt boy self lives there.
2007-03-09 19:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by merryme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you still talk to him online at all if you're not interested in him anymore? You should forget about him and move wherever you want to move without giving him a second thought.
2007-03-09 20:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a stalker. You just want to live where you want to and there is nothing wrong with that. As for that self absorbed idiot you are so worried about you don't owe him anything so stop worrying and ignore him. Besides himself who else cares what he thinks anyways? You've already seen him for what he is and he isn't worth any further trouble. Like you say; his loss so keep it that way. Cease all contact with him and move on with your life. There are ones out there that are better for you than that pompous jerk. Guys like that are a dime a dozen and they are worth far less. So don't sell yourself short for the likes of someone like him who treats you so lousy. Demand to have respect and believe that you are worth having someone in your life that will give you a good and decent relationship that you know you deserve.
2007-03-09 20:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, since things didn't work out between the two of you, don't let him know you are moving in that area. However, before you do, maybe you should consider letting him know that he would probably agree with you, that it just did not work out between the two of you. So bye-bye. Then ignore his e mails, etc. Or, you could just ignore hiim from now on. Which ever way you decide is the best. Take care.
2007-03-09 19:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that shallow I'm not sure why you are asking if you should ignore him. Don't bother telling him you are moving there. Just flaunt your size 4 and when he sees you he'll see what he could have had. Ignore him.
2007-03-09 19:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are still talking to him, online or otherwise? Just ignore him. You don't need a guy like this in your life.
2007-03-09 19:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need people like that in your life. Just don't talk to him anymore. Ever. He doesn't need to know you are moving.
2007-03-09 19:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya let him go fast. ignore him. hes used to it by now
2007-03-09 20:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋