So theres this girl I know I love, not like but love. I've known her for two years now and never once did my affections quit. Even though shes really beautiful I really love her for who she is. Now the problem is after a year of when I first met her...she got a boyfriend. And they have been dating now(to my continual torment) for almost a year. What makes me angry is that when I see a picture of them together, I dont get jealous because Im just glad shes happy. She doesn't know how I feel about her. But I know she likes me as a friend. Should I wait till they break up? Should I keep my love a secret and become more of a friend to her? Or should I just tell her and hope the cause wont hurt our friendship?
I've tried to just forget about her...but after months of trying I only failed. Trust me I know there are plenty of fish out there in this ocean but for me there is only one that caries the keys to my heart.
Last couple of details, She said to her friend that Im cute and cool.
2007-03-09 19:50:21 · 5 answers · asked by Robert L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her boyfriend likes me, she said she trusts me, her friends like me, its easy for me to make her laugh, her mother likes me, ...
2007-03-09 19:51:51 · update #1
Forget her and move on.
2007-03-09 19:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I am totally feeling you on this one. I totally had this problem like half a year ago. Ok well it was the same thing with me i had this friend that i knew for 2 years and her mom liked me. For some odd reason her bf at the time trusted me too. I know you hurt when you wonder why she isnt with you but with that other guy. My best advice for you would to just find another girlfriend. I know, i know...you really love this girl and you want to tell her how you feel. But face the facts, if she wanted you as much as you wanted her, she would be with you right now instead of her current bf. Sorry if this hurts but its the plain truth. I recently got me a good gf that i love and it made me forget about that other girl. Its going to take time to forget about your friend like that but the best thing to do is cut off all communications. Trust me with a new girl by your side you wont even care that that other girl is with someone else. Watch, if u get a new girl, ur friend will be calling you, asking why u dont call her anymore and things like that. At that moment thats when u tell her how u feel about her. If this advice dont work well then I'm sorry, but if u do what i told u then it should. You will have that other girl in ur grasp in less than 2 months. The hardest thing is cutting off all communication. You have to be strong. Take it from me, im Sixteen and i have had this problem since i was 14.Later!Good Luck! BE STRONG!
2007-03-09 20:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Teen Reslover.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,Robert,i've been in the same situation as what are you in now..the only thing is i did't love her soooo much but amazingly she dump her boyfriend and said that she fall on me..now let me advice you..the policy is honesty,it pays you at the end,trust me..just tell your 'angel' that you had a crush on her since the first day you met her,then tell her all your feelings bro..tell her that you've planned to love her but after you've found out that she has a bf,you feel like you want to sacrifice your love,bla,bla..and if she finally said the 's' word,i mean SORRY..just find another girl..a better one.
2007-03-09 20:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your foot in the door. give it time. hang out with her all. that you can. have a lot of fun with her . show her a good time
2007-03-09 20:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must love her this is what i would do what until they brake up then don't what GO FOR HER!!!
2007-03-09 19:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋