if she thinks shes in love what should she do, how is she suppose to choose one of them & how does she know who she loves (likes) more.
2007-03-09 19:37:37 · 18 answers · asked by Shadows of thousand 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes she can and it's very difficult. I'm not sure how you find out who you love more but the best thing I can think is to stop seeing both of them. It will only cause more pain for everyone.
2007-03-09 19:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If she thinks she's in love what should she do?"
-No one should even "think" they are in love. If somebody truly loved someone they would know immediatly. Love is a very powerful thing, some of us sometimes get confused between love,lust, & or just another crush. Lust, is desire. A crush is just a first impression, but -Love- that is something way beyond any feelings. Yes, we all have our oppinions on the true defintion of love. Every bodies different. But in MY oppinion I think that if some body love some one they wouldn't have to think about it. but that's just me...
"How is she suppose to choose one of the two guys?"
I believe some one can love two,three, fifty people. You can't help for who you have feelings for, simple as that. In this situation you must choose who you love most. This is a question you need to ask yourself. Every one of these answers can be wrong, it's just our oppinion. Instead of asking others. Why not, sit down in a quiet place...& just think "Who do I truly love more?" Think until it hurts your head! Ha-ha, well I sappose you don't have to go that far but hopefully you see my point. :)
"How does she know who she loves (likes) more?"
loves (likes) ??? You seem to be confused as to how you feel about these guys. Ok, here's what you should recommend doing... Having some alone time & just get your head straight...Think about every little detail about each significant other...Ponder who you want more...None of us can help you....You can only help yourself....We don't know about your life...Especially not by such a short question as this. Who are you going to lisen to...We who give our oppinion? Or you,,,you knows you?
Just think about....
2007-03-09 19:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No question about it and that's bad news. Loving more than one guy does not multiply her chances for anything beyond losing an opportunity with either of them. No one wants to be a second choice.
I hope this doesn't sound mean (because I certianly don't intend for it to) but if my wife didn't come to be my best friend to the exclusion of all others, I would prefer that she didn't bother coming at all.
Good luck.
2007-03-09 19:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl shouldn't be given the chance to fall in love with two guys at the same time. simply she loves one and has a lust for the other, or she simply thinks she loves them both.
2007-03-09 19:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girL.can faLL in love w/ as many guys that Catch Her attention. but then she proves how LoyaL she is by her acTions.She has to make a Choice.Take time off from Both of Them and Sooner or Later She'LL reaLize which one She reaLLy wants.0r better Yet.take a soulmate online quiz on www.quiz.com^^
2007-03-09 19:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by xShiereen Karjadix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for a girl,or anyone to have a crush/interest on two guys, but if you mean TRUE LOVE, no...
If she's truly in love, she would eventually find out who's meant for her,hope you get what I mean. No one should mistaken crush for love...
2007-03-09 19:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually if someone is in love with two guys she does not have her head on straight. How could you ever have the same passion of your body and mind for 2 people is just plain ole having your cake and eating it too MMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!. I think she thinks she is in love but in fact she is really IN LIKE
2007-03-09 19:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it happened to me ***ashamed***
it is possible that many people win her heart at once; with different methods and personality
e.g. one guy is tall dark and humorous; not really good looking. the other is decent-looking, serious, sensible.
its hard to choose but that is not love; just minor, like a crush. i don't think it is bad at all; unless you really hurt people badly.
2007-03-09 19:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Piper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do but in different ways. Different kind of love.
2007-03-09 19:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is definitely one guy who will overtake by a little. listen to your heartbeat more closely and see which one is the one.
2007-03-09 19:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋