To start off with, does anyone have any good tips on keeping my relationship fresh. My biggest problem is that I miss those old days. Ok well, things between me and my girlfriend are not the same anymore. For example, we dont stay up talking on the phone anymore. Also, I feel that she doesnt want to see me anymore. For example, sometimes she is soo happy to see me and other times she just doesnt want me around. Anyone know of any good tips to help me figure out what to do? I just want her to love me like she used to?
2007-03-09 19:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by Teen Reslover.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, do you know what makes her happy? If you don't know that for sure, than you need to find out.
2007-03-09 19:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She still loves, but sometimes when relationship been a while, it looses its magic, and becomes an every day regular thing. You have to intrigue each other. And most important, you have to give each other space. You need time for other person to miss you. Go out with your friends, and tell her to do the same. Next time she sees you she will be as exited as you are. The phone thing, sorry to say that, but forget it, it only happens in the beginning of relationship.
2007-03-10 03:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buddy, speaking as a fellow male - you will be trying the impossible if you try to understand women and you will be really foolish to think you have figured them out. Perhaps that is one thaing that makes females so alluring - they are all unpredictable - and that is good in the long run. However, that does not mean a guy cannot try to do this. I totally feel for you and can suggest that if you really love this girl sincerely and want to have a long future with her - perhaps try to not just think about her relative to you but about her for her sake. Love isnt just all night cute phone talks or always having your loved one by your side or feeling good that someone loves you and shows it. Love is also about letting someone be whatever they want to be and be supportive rather then critical. Give her some space, if she loves you she will soon realise that maybe she needs to do things she has stopped with you. In love, we all aim to please the other one - sometimes however,, we start taking things for granted but that does not mean the love has died.
Maybe try not to call her all the time or drop in all the time but make sure she is fully aware that you know she needs her space and you are trying to help by giving it but you are always there. You dont always have to be visible to be in someone's life. Let he know you care and love her and also let her know about your insecurities. Tell her - perhaps she is unaware that you feel neglected and left out. Dont think she knows everything.
Love is not easy and that is the best about it. YOu will always have times of joy and times of strife - hang on, be patient, supportive and if there is real love, you will get your rewards... all the best.
2007-03-10 03:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by shyguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Dont understand,
If she acts like she doesn't want to see you any more, then dump her and find some body who is more interested in you. That will get her attention. She needs to treat you right or you'll go elsewhere.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-03-10 03:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, date someone who's not a flake. If she's blowing you off, then she doesn't respect you or your time. You're letting her know that you care more about her than your own happiness. Just do what you've been thinking about doing, and move on.
2007-03-10 03:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Waddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. recall and start being exactly how you used to be with her.
2. make sure you give her space
3. dont be over possessive
4. if things dont work even after trying these move on and
learn to forget
2007-03-10 03:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be romantic.be spontaneous. do something that you never did before. give her a present she always wanted. call her just to say hi. basicaLLy, do something that she would have never thought of, surprise her.make her say 'wow.'
2007-03-10 03:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by xShiereen Karjadix 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋