Recently my girlfriend has been telling me that she is going to go out with her friends to a party.I tell her ok she can go, but i dont want her home late. I also tell her to call me when she gets home. I dont know if i should be feeling like this, because i dont even know why she is going out in the first place. I think this because i dont really think she has any business over there at a party becasue she already had me. Everytime i confront her we end up in a fight. I try to come up with compromises but she dont want none except for her to go out and have me waiting like the good little doggy. I told her that when she goes out i would go out to and she didnt like this idea that much. I told her it was only fair, because i hate to be home waiting for her to call me when she gets home, so id rather be out having my own good time not worrying like the good doggy she wants me to be. Does anyone agree with me on the offers i gave her?
2007-03-09 19:39:52 · 12 answers · asked by Teen Reslover.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well thanks for your opinon people. Some of you think that it is not right for her to call me when she gets home or asking me to go out. I forgot to add that she never asks me to go out. She goes on her own. Also that i would just like a simple phone call from her, just to know that she got home safe so i dont stay worried.Its not that she has to report to me or i dont trust her its just that i want to know if she is home safe.
2007-03-09 19:54:07 · update #1
You should go together. If she says no then you go out with your friends. Maybe stop by the party. Maybe she just wants a night out with the girls or maybe she is looking for someone new. I guess it depends on how much you trust her. Don't confront her, talk to her like an adult. Fighting solves nothing.
2007-03-09 19:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a person is going to a party doesn't mean that they are trying to hook up with somebody. Maybe it will help her job (networking) or maybe she just wants to hang out with her friends. I can bet that if you act jealous she probably won't like it. Call you when she gets home? Are you her DAD?
Ok that being said, if she never wants to go out with you, then maybe you should think about this relationship and see if it's really a healthy one.
2007-03-10 03:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For starters you shouldn't let her go out, you aren't her father and if she wants to go out she should be able to, as should you. Just because she has you doesn't mean she has to stay away from her friends and the same with you. All couples need time apart with their friends and should be entitled to it. No one has the right to LET them go out,stop acting like you's are married and have some space with your friends and enjoy it. When you's are married you's can argue over this crap.
2007-03-10 03:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dont understand,
Dang!!!! You are being used dude. Dump that b1tch!!!!
If she acts like she doesn't want to see you any more, then dump her and find some body who is more interested in you. It's too late for her. She's already screwing around on you.
Again, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-03-10 03:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do agree wit you on the issue of her not being happy wit u goin out aswell but i dont agree on her havin to ask u can she go out and to ring you wen she gets home just answer yourself one question do u trust her if u do let her no it by not minding her goin to the party if you dont trust her then you no were tats heading you cant keep a non trusting relationship goin for long or someone is goin to really get hurt
2007-03-10 03:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question. Is this a 'Girls night out?' or its actually a regular party? If its a girls night out your paranoid, maybe... if its a regular party your girl friend is way out of line. How about you and her go party together? Also, how often does she party? Every weekend?
2007-03-10 03:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jumpy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might think this has nothing to do with a lack of trust but it does. let her go out with friends and spend a night out with the girls. if she loves you, then you have nothing to worry about.
2007-03-10 03:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are not at fault. you are doing whats best for your girlfriend because you care so much for her. if she doesn't respects your actions, well, maybe, it's hard but try to find another girl who acknowledges your care and concern
2007-03-10 03:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Piper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you maybe her BF but she doesn't need your permission to do anything. instead of being worried, go with her, make it fun, see why she wants to go. don't try to control her, you'll lose her.
2007-03-10 03:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you can party if you want. If you don't want just tell her the reason.
2007-03-10 03:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋