im 15 and jelouse cause she pregnet she cant even finish her freshman year. oh ya i still really like my ex and hes getting ready to be a dad. im screwed.
2007-03-09 19:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl don't be jealous, think of it this way both of them have to take care a baby now and put their life and dreams on hold, but u can go on with your life and dreams but they cant they have to put all that away, so girl go live your life, and try to move on i know it's gonna be hard but when u see how hard it is to take care a child when your a child u would be over him and wont be jealous of her u know, just live your life try to get a new boyfriend,and u wont even think about your ex trust me it works that's what i had to do one time and i got over him.
2007-03-09 19:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by THE 1 AND ONLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have had a lucky escape.
You still have the opportunity to finish High School, go to College & have a great career before settling down to family life. Your future is full of choices whereas her choices have all now been made for her (for the next 16 years or so anyway).
This girl, on the other hand, has just ensured that what should have been the best years of her life are now going to be filled with bottles, diapers, etc. Even after her child is grown she will still end up going nowhere because of hwer lack of education.
So no, you should not feel jealous. You should feel releived at the luck escape you have had.
2007-03-10 03:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, she's the one who is "screwed" and you're fortunate that you're not. Here she is pregnant and can't finish the year out cause she has a kid on the way. What kind of life is that? Not only should you not feel jealous but you should feel relieved. Unless you happen to think having a kid to raise at that age is glamorous you are badly mistaken. The situation they are in is totally messed up and so is your thought process if you think that's what it takes to be happy. You think that this ex that you like so much is in any position to be a dad? Don't bet on it! They're in for a rough road ahead. But all you seem to be concerned about is your own petty trivial desires. Better smarten up and snap out of it. This is no game you're playing around with here. Set you sights on a higher goal in life or you'll end up on the short end of the stick.
2007-03-10 03:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Love Don, No you are not screwed. It's best that you find out how he really is. That girl could of been you. Now the other girl will have to grow-up fast and take care of her baby and then get a job to help support her and her baby. You are the lucky one not her. Her life is the one that's screwed.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-10 03:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel jealous, you should be grateful it is not you, why would you want to be in her shoes? A teen with a baby has a hard time finishing highschool, let alone going on to college. You have a future to think of. Now go study and become successful!!
2007-03-10 04:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by missjax72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe you are actually considering being jealous what is obviously a girl with no moral standards simply because she got pregnant with your lowdown no-good boyfriend.
Be glad you are not the one in her shoes - the idiot that she is. What are being disgusted with your boyfriend and kicking him the hell out of you your life?
what you should be doing is thinking how you can get a better judgement to not end up like this girl or better still how to get a much much much better boyfriend.
Be thankful you are not pregnant at your age, be angry at your bum boyfriend and drive your passion in realising your tre potential in life - to be the best damn woman you can be - not a pregnat 15yo whose life can only get worse.... - not jealous.
2007-03-10 03:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by shyguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you are 15!! Let her ruin her life, there will be more guys, trust me. You do not want to be tied down to a man and a kid at 15, your still a baby yourself!
Go out have fun and be 15! That will get them were it hurts cause it reminds them that you are still free and happy!!
2007-03-10 03:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by jessica g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can be that easily swayed away, he's probably not someone you wanna be with. And are you really ready to be a mommy? I have 2 friends who got pregnant in high school, and it kind of ruined their lives. Don't get me wrong kids are great, but you loose a lot of life experiences.
2007-03-10 03:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be jealous. You are better off without him. They are the ones that screwed up and got pregnant. Just forget about them. You'll find a better boyfriend.
2007-03-10 03:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously??????? ur only 15 andf u want to get pregnant????????????? m not saying that starting a family is a bad thing. its a gr8 thing. but15???????? u still have 10 yrs to enjoy and make frnds and travel and learn.......... u ought to be happy that ur not wth that jerk of a guy. and u ought to pity that girl. im betting right now she is **** scared about how her futre is gonna b. she cant finish college........ she cant get a decent job. i mean is that wat u want? pain and suffery???? as of now u ought to concentrate on doing well in school go to college and settle down so that ur baby can live a happy life...
2007-03-10 03:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by kaustubh j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋