Singles & Dating - 9 March 2007

Ok ive known this girl for a couple years now. Just recently ive started to develope feelings for her. Ive recently tried asking her out but i have a feeling shes not having it. For example the first time i asked she said she didnt feel like it and asked if i wanted to go another time and i told her ok yeh whenever u want to (so i pretty much put the ball in her court but she hasnt responded to it yet) and the second time she said she was sick (which i feel is just a way around it). But my main problem is she still acts really friendly towards me whenever i see her. So how should i take this? should i keep going or just drop it all togethere.

2007-03-09 11:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by scott c 1

It seems like everytime I invite him to hang out with us he'll make up some excuse not to. I invited him to play pool, go bowling, sporting events, lake tahoe....but he always says no whenever I mention it's my friends and I. At first I didn't take it so personal but now its pissing me off! We've been dating about 7 months now. Is this not a good sign, what could it be? Or what should I do?

2007-03-09 11:26:41 · 1 answers · asked by a1980 3

well i've been going out w/ this guy for a week and a day and i like him sooo much but hes so annoying. like whenever we're at a game he follows me around EVERY WHERE! Its so annoying!
And everytime i talk to him hes always like r u gonna brake up w/ me and like asking if im mad at him.
OMG its so annoying
Wut should i do??

2007-03-09 11:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been dared by my friend to go out for 62 months, which is 5 years and one month, so far we been going out for almost three months. our relationship is strong when something bothers us we can tell each other and this has been thee best relationship i`ve been in, what do you think , will we make it,(if we do we most likely get married then )

2007-03-09 11:24:55 · 31 answers · asked by Loving_This_Time_Around 3

2007-03-09 11:24:50 · 24 answers · asked by ShogiO 2

I'm 14 and i weigh 114 and I'm only 5'1! how can i loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends. Even though most of the time its not even my friends who call me fat! Its mostly some boyz and former friends who i still thought were my friends!
Thank You

2007-03-09 11:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by baby gurl 2

Me and my girlfriend use to always talk about having a threesome while having sex, and afterwards use to feel a bit sicken of it due to jelousy and all of that, now afterwards we just talk about which guy or girl should we get for our threesome, does this mean we are ready?

2007-03-09 11:21:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hold the magic stick.....he came rite up to u and said that. and lets say u know this person for a while or u have met him before. how would u react and what would u say and what would u do?

2007-03-09 11:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Olivia♥ 4

2007-03-09 11:21:08 · 19 answers · asked by Grant C 2

i was talking to him about how i wanted a close relationship and he said that he'd be that for me if we hadn't lived so far apart currently

does this mean he has interest in me? or is it nothing to be excited about

2007-03-09 11:20:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now. She asked me how far i would go with her recently and i said i would go the full way with you but its not a thing we have to do but i wouldnt say no. She said the same thing but said she wanted to wait a while? I then asked her and i said i dunno ill just wait untill you're ready? :S

2007-03-09 11:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy and he has made it very clear that he doesn't want a relationship and he gets really ticked off when I get jealous of the girls he talks to. Then the other day he called me and he found out I was talking to another guy and he was all "what are you cheatng on me?" I'm like "last time I checked we weren't together" He was like "I thought we were". Annd he was serious. I just don't know what he wants.

2007-03-09 11:18:38 · 30 answers · asked by mmmhmmm_oic 1

how many times do you put up with being kicked to the side? my girl has done it AGAIN to me. this time she was going to check to see if our friends were ready to go out to eat. well i asked her if she would be coming right back or staying for a bit, so i knew to either wait, or go kick-it until she was ready. she said coming right back....& of course it wasnt. left me hanging while waiting for her. the other time i went to her work b/c she wanted me to hang out with her, so i said sure. not even 10 mins there a co-worker asks her to go on a break with him, she gets up, grabs her coat, & out the door.... there are a couple more issues that has happened with that. i put the world on hold when im with her, yet with her, everyone else comes first, & then when no one needs her attention, she comes to me. like when she went away for a couple of days, i didnt talk to her b/c SHE was too busy. but when im gone, i take time out - lose sleep - etc. to talk with her. am i legit in my anger?

2007-03-09 11:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by brianju 2

2007-03-09 11:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm seventeen and I met this guy at work. But he's almost 21. He knows how old I am and he understands that I can't just tell my mom I'm going to his house.
I don't have much freedom at all. And sure, there are other guys out there. Maybe even one my parents would like. But I really don't want to let this go.
I've never dated before and this is the first guy that has really persisted and wants to persue something. I don't have trouble meeting guys. I have trouble meeting guys that I actually like!
If something did start between us, I want the relationship to be as normal as possible. I know we can't just go out anywhere we want. So I wanted to know if any of you had any advice at all.
My Mom is kind of mean. I have to come home right after school and she wouldn't even let me join the christian bible study group. I could work out the weekends and tell her I'm going to dinner or to the movies with people from work. I don't know what else I could do.

2007-03-09 11:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I really like. I've liked him for over a month now, and I think we have something "going." kinda. One time, in the school library, I was just sitting and researching for my social studies project, and I stared at him and he smiled/WINKED/stared, but good news. I smiled back as well! We also bump into each other alot, and before he used to sit in lunch with his back facing me, 3 tables down from where I sit, and now he sits at the opposite end and the opposite direction. I did the same thing and yes, we have caught each other staring, but I shyly looked away. As I was walking up to social studies, he asked me if we had class in the library, I replied, "yes" and looked away shyly. He also walked faster than usual, almost looking like he wanted to catch up with me. I don't believe he has a girlfriend, but I think we might like each other. Does he like me?

2007-03-09 11:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

at school he spends way to much time with me, its annoying, im one who agrees with the saying the more your apart the bigger your heart grows or sumthin like that, but yeah anyways how do i say in a nice way that i dont wanna spend all my time with him? plz give me advice! and have u ever been in my situation b4?

2007-03-09 11:15:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some times I fantise about two men you know what I mean?
What do you think about that!

2007-03-09 11:15:45 · 7 answers · asked by curious 2

2007-03-09 11:15:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were togather from the summer but two weeks ago I was standing front of my class and One girl came she was startng to touching my hair and then my girlfriend saw that and she got mad now she don't talk to me, she thinks I like that girl but I don't I just like her and I love her so much. I tried to talk her she didn't answer me but she just says, "leave me alone". Even she doesn't like anyone accept me. I want her close anyway. tell me guys what can i do?

2007-03-09 11:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by Partap 1

been just over a month since she ended it though i find myself still thinking of her and missing her.
She told me she didnt love me no more and was going off me for ages ( which is bull ) think her mates had influence alot.

anyhow we met up few times after she ended it,I told her i wanted her back. she started messing with me and stringing me along, my family were saying forget her yet I couldnt. found out she started seeing this bloke 5 days after we broke. i think its her rebound.

problem Im finding is we were together 2 years- and the last 3 months ( where she said she going off me) i started being really ditance towards her, not wanting to see her etc. I had alot on my plate and at one point found myself not even wanting sex with her as the thought disgusted me.

So why the hell am i missing her so much? There were alot of factors that made me unhappy- yet all i can think about are the good memorys (yes there was alot) Ive been trying to get on with my life yet i miss her.

2007-03-09 11:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If u love him but he didn,t feel the same-any ideas how can u win him over?

2007-03-09 11:11:59 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3

You love that person. Please advise. What would you do?

2007-03-09 11:10:33 · 27 answers · asked by ? 6

I have a new boyfriend and he wants me to do this. He is a huge Star Wars fan and owns the stormtrooper suit. I think its wierd but he says all his girlfriends do it and he only goes out with girls who fit into the suit. Should I do it?

2007-03-09 11:10:30 · 28 answers · asked by Lisa Chosen 2

Me and my boyfriend are so in love. But i cant see him because im on punishment and i hardly talk to him. I dont want to keep him locked down while i am, because hes faithful, but it's alot of girls that wanna get wit him and its hard not being able to see me. Should I take a break with him unti li get off punishment? He said we would get back together

2007-03-09 11:10:12 · 15 answers · asked by tryn2findloveinallthewrongplaces 1

my bf has been divorced for 4 yrs with 2 sons with his exwife.as soon as she sees my bf she comes running over to chit chat with him for the whole game(which is 2-3 times a week).she will even follow us out to the car.the problem is she hates me and i am well aware of what she says behind my back,i would like us not to sit with her at these games at all.we tryed this once and all it did was pissed her off and then she came over anyways.she feels my bf should sit with her at theses games since its their children playing.

2007-03-09 11:09:58 · 1 answers · asked by karenmarlku89 1

and you let him go first and he said I just asked this girl out from the next town over and she said yes! then he said what did you want to tell me? And you stood there saying Congradulations! Oh, umm never mind. Because you were going to ask him out but then he found out that you were going to ask him out... what would you do?


Also, this kid at school is weird, but hey we all are in our own way, and he follows me around school, he followed me half way around the school today to my locker! What would you do, I am NOT interested at all in him and I heard he was telling people that i shoved him my breasts when I haven't, the worst part is is that he lives across the street from me!

What would you do in both of these situations, please, guys and girls perspectives please :-)

P.S. I am 14 and am in High School

2007-03-09 11:09:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go there regularly but am worried it might make things awkward if she says no. I can't tell if she's interested or not. What to do!? :P

2007-03-09 11:09:03 · 18 answers · asked by Darp_L 1

She lives in Texas, you both live together in Illinois. She is married with children & has a jealous husband she's hiding the friendship with your man from. She sends your man a Zippo lighter with his initials engraved on one side & his lucky number on the other for Valentines Day. What do you think of this gesture? Figuring... $30 for the whole thing, was it too much for just a friend you've been talking to on a personal level for a month? He's never talked to her with you in the house. He told you about her, and her husband. You accept this gift, though you don't like it. He asked me to pick up lighter fluid for it, and I said, "You're not planning on bringing it out at the poker game! Are you?" He knows you don't want him to (people are going to be there who already know it's a gift from another girl for V-Day), he does any way, and uses it as his lucky charm on top of his poker hand all night. What's the proper reaction from me to this action? What would you think?

2007-03-09 11:09:03 · 16 answers · asked by lisalikes70scheese 3

2007-03-09 11:07:13 · 15 answers · asked by shirlee_stalls 1