I've been talking to this guy and he has made it very clear that he doesn't want a relationship and he gets really ticked off when I get jealous of the girls he talks to. Then the other day he called me and he found out I was talking to another guy and he was all "what are you cheatng on me?" I'm like "last time I checked we weren't together" He was like "I thought we were". Annd he was serious. I just don't know what he wants.
2007-03-09 11:18:38 · 30 answers · asked by mmmhmmm_oic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, honestly, I don't think he's worth it. He is a total hypocrite. How can he say that you and him aren't in a relationship and he gets jealous of other guys and say why are you cheating on me. He's like way out of line. Well, maybe you should talk to him and tell him the situation like you just told me. Exactly word for word. But if all this gets overdramatic and over the edge, then its not worth it at all.
2007-03-09 11:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he's playing games and you are now beating him at his own game. If he wants to be exclusive then the two of you need to sit and have a long talk about the things that you expect in a relationship and if he can't deal then move on. Guys always want to play games with girls but they can't handle it when it's on the other foot.
2007-03-09 11:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by vallanita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to be able to be with other people, but he doesn't want you to be able to do the same. Thus, it doesn't sound to me like he respects you. Either you are together and focused on each other or you're still getting to know each other and are okay with the other person talking to someone else. I would say wait for the guy who wants to focus his attention on you. You'll be glad you waited - and so will he.
2007-03-09 11:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...that sounds a little confusing. Tell him in order for you to be clear he needs to break it down on your relationship/friendship. Otherwise he shouldn't be surprised when you're hooking up elsewhere.
He snoozes he looses. You're a hot commodity and he's a fool for not understanding that.
2007-03-09 11:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, i know what he wants.... He wants to be a man that he is, where he can talk to other girls... While you are like his collection of girls that he wants to keep and when he needs to make a booty call, he calls you... So, leave this guy he's just a playa..... don't be with him other wise its gonna be heart breaking for you... Love hurts... run away from him
2007-03-09 11:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, guys. They're so confusing sometimes.
Just ask him what the hell he wants. If he can't give you a straight answer, then I'd go look for a new guy and leave this one out in the dust.
Good luck.
2007-03-09 11:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants a relationship when he wants it..he's being macho. He wants it his way....and if he's like that this early he'll be much worse later into the relationship....get rid of him and save yourself alot of major drama. Seriously!! Good Luck, G.
2007-03-09 11:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, tell him its not a one way street... Sounds like he is into the attention other girls give him but doesn't want you to get any action... I would just drop the fool... - Unless you want a boyfriend like that then o.k.
2007-03-09 11:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by Platinum Status 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is confused. Sit down and have a talk with him and tell him everything. It may be awkward but its better than guessing what he wants. Only he knows what he wants.
2007-03-09 11:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you. You can't tell? He wasn't serious. He just gets off on how you feel about him. I'm guilty of this occasionally. Ignore his games.
2007-03-09 11:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by South Beach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋