I'm seventeen and I met this guy at work. But he's almost 21. He knows how old I am and he understands that I can't just tell my mom I'm going to his house.
I don't have much freedom at all. And sure, there are other guys out there. Maybe even one my parents would like. But I really don't want to let this go.
I've never dated before and this is the first guy that has really persisted and wants to persue something. I don't have trouble meeting guys. I have trouble meeting guys that I actually like!
If something did start between us, I want the relationship to be as normal as possible. I know we can't just go out anywhere we want. So I wanted to know if any of you had any advice at all.
My Mom is kind of mean. I have to come home right after school and she wouldn't even let me join the christian bible study group. I could work out the weekends and tell her I'm going to dinner or to the movies with people from work. I don't know what else I could do.
2007-03-09 11:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it..
If your parents are really against it, they can get him
thrown into jail....Serious trouble....
2007-03-09 11:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. This guy is almost 21. I promise you, he just wants to get in your pants. You will only get yourself in trouble. Besides, you can't even come close to having a normal relationship if you have to sneak around. Some 21 year old is not worth all that trouble. Listen to your parents. They only want the best for you.
2007-03-09 11:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by dil7827 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell this to my sister
if he is not willing to meet you dad and mom or grandparent he isn't donig whats right he may be married etc or tring to scamm on you i know you are intleigente mama but you have to let it be know that respecting you is a must and he isn't if you have to hide it nothing worth having should bekept in the dark honey and when you are a little older you will under stand that mostly with a guy that age it is about sex and not about love and if he does love you in anyway he should not want to disrespect you parents by having you withhould any information especially his age and if you don't want o let it go wait a year and you will be legal to do anything with out your parent permission honey i know it may sound crazy but we all want a bad guy the guy our parents wouldn't like but in the end the adventure isn't always what it seemi hope everything works out
p.s. even if you mom is mean as hell and doesn't let you do anything you want its not noraml to share things with your mom talk to her and make a plan or talk to someone you trust who is older than you
2007-03-09 11:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by shears200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your parents are stupid they'll find out. also you have to think why someone who's almost 21 can't find someone else their own age. I hate to say it but there's a leap in maturity and experience between 17 and 21. and don't blame your mom for being protective. it's a scary world out there
2007-03-09 11:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you ask mum if the guy can come to your house? if he really like's you he will be happy for your parent's to get to know him before letting you date.A relationship won't be normail if you have to lie to your parent's everytime you want to see him.
2007-03-09 11:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by tuppenybitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever want to get your parents trust distroyed on you , then do what your doing
and honey once its lost it is not easily restored.
DONT LIE TO MOM...
2007-03-09 11:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋