If u love him but he didn,t feel the same-any ideas how can u win him over?
2007-03-09 11:11:59 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that there can be a relationship if it is not mutual. He has to come to terms on his own and make the decision to love you back. I think you can just be yourself at the peak and show him why he should pursue you. If he doesn't come around then maybe it's not meant to be. It would be his loss.
2007-03-09 11:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those hard hard life lessons that almost everyone learns at some point in time or another. Have you ever been friends with a guy yet there was no way on God's green earth that you would have thought of him in that "special" way? There would have been nothing he could have done to make you love him, right? Well the same thing applies here..........either you love him or you don't. Either he loves you or he doesn't . Unfortunately, you can't "make " it happen.
The right one will come along at the right time. This is not the guy so move on and your broken heart will indeed mend.
2007-03-09 19:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by carnivale4ever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. So find someone who is attracted to you and there's chemistry. You may like him but he doesn't feel the same way, and you would want some to naturally to fall in love with you.
2007-03-09 19:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by rma2ks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO HONEY! One of the most important things you will need to know in a relationship. You cant MAKE anyone do anything! Fall in love with, change their habits, etc. He either loves you or he doesnt.
2007-03-09 19:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you, if the feelings isn't mutual there isn't anything you can do. Tricking them or pushing them into something natural is just going to end up hurting you in the end
2007-03-09 19:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea22306 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi wild cat,
love is not one way traffic. response should be from both ends. increase contacts with him. let he know what u feel about him. give him a letter. if he responds well, then he too is in love with u.enjoy the life!
2007-03-09 19:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your efforts and energy. You never want to make a man love you, it's unnatural. You can show him what he's missing, but you surely can't make him.
2007-03-09 19:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a man love you. Haven't you heard the song, "You can't make a heart love you if it doesn't"? You should just move on.
2007-03-09 19:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by MI 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Theres two ways:
1) Be attractive physically. If you're not already... consider having a surgery. lol
OR
2) Bust his chops constantly...I mean tease him on everything he does wrong. Play hard to get. Have the mentality that he's trying to impress you and not the other way around.
Now if you can combine both....you'll have guys chasing after you...gurantee!!
2007-03-09 19:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by tubester 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't make a man do anything. Terrible mistake to try. He either has feelings for you, or he doesn't.
2007-03-09 19:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋