been just over a month since she ended it though i find myself still thinking of her and missing her.
She told me she didnt love me no more and was going off me for ages ( which is bull ) think her mates had influence alot.
anyhow we met up few times after she ended it,I told her i wanted her back. she started messing with me and stringing me along, my family were saying forget her yet I couldnt. found out she started seeing this bloke 5 days after we broke. i think its her rebound.
problem Im finding is we were together 2 years- and the last 3 months ( where she said she going off me) i started being really ditance towards her, not wanting to see her etc. I had alot on my plate and at one point found myself not even wanting sex with her as the thought disgusted me.
So why the hell am i missing her so much? There were alot of factors that made me unhappy- yet all i can think about are the good memorys (yes there was alot) Ive been trying to get on with my life yet i miss her.
2007-03-09 11:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive stopped talking to her and havent seen/spoke in 2 weeks. She left it that she didnt want me to speak contact her ever again.
how after 2 years can she not want anything to do with me?
2007-03-09 11:14:04 · update #1
buttons i think you have hit the nail on the head- my fmaily have told me i jsut miss the routine and the someone being there all the time- like the txting and phoneing.
2007-03-09 11:31:21 · update #2
Time to move on my friend, it's tough when relatioships break down but you gotta move on!
It's only natural that you miss her, you spent 2 years of your life with her, but if she's called time on the relationship you gotta let it go.
If she has allowed her friends to influence her then she is a very shallow weak person and maybe the new partner is a rebound reaction, but some people can walk away from one relationship straight into another.
I would be inclined not to contact her at all, if she's giving you false hope that you'll get back together again when she clearly know's you wont, thats nasty and you dont deserve that.
The past is the past and the present is a gift, give yourself time and it will get better, and you will find yourself thinking of her less and less and she wont be on your mind all the time and you can move forward and not look back in anger!
Good luck
2007-03-09 11:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you missing her is normal, I mean two years is not an eternity but it is quite a long time. While your probably hurting realize that some good has come out of this, she is leaving you so that you can make room in your life for someone who will be worth it, and even more special. Who knows this person may come into your life and show you things that you have never felt before! (i.e. emotionally) Let you ex find her way and you find yours, some people only come into our lives for a short period of time to either help us grow, let us realize that they are not the one? and etc.
Explore other possible (better) options!! Your Princess will soon come! and her feelings for you will be mutual and genuine!!
2007-03-09 11:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember things happen for a reason pick yourself up dust ya self off and start again it may not be easy but do you really wanna screw yourself up with what ifs? take it day by day you miss her as she was big part of your life for 2 years dont let it mess with your head you have to get on with life! life is one big pool of **** you just have to pull on your wellys and wade through it good luck hunny xx
2007-03-09 11:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by theoriginalbitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude move on it will be easy not to think of her when your with someone else besides remeber this----she was seeing a guy after five days you guys broke she does not care about you
2007-03-09 11:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Da truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you're feeling miserable. It will get better - honest. We all have to go through this sort of heartache, it's part of life. I think you have to accept it's over, and move on, as she has. Good luck!
2007-03-09 11:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to do nut I think it is time for you to move on. There is someone out there for you but whilst you are fixated on this relationship you won't find new love.
2007-03-09 11:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by barneysmommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to feel like that its not been long but dont dwell on what you had remember that ok the good times were good but the bad times were also bad give yourself time
dont cry because its over smile because it happened
2007-03-09 11:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AFTER THAT AMOUNT OF TIME ALL YOU ARE MISSING IS YOUR ROUTINE PLEASE PLEASE LISTEN AS SHE OBVIOUSLY DOES NOT CARE FOR YOU
2007-03-09 11:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by buttons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋