I go there regularly but am worried it might make things awkward if she says no. I can't tell if she's interested or not. What to do!? :P
2007-03-09 11:09:03 · 18 answers · asked by Darp_L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you try having a conversation with her, then casually ask her if she'd like to go out some time. If she says no, oh well, there are plenty more girls out there. If she says yes, then it looks like you got yourself a date =)
Good luck!
2007-03-09 11:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awkward? Life is awkward. If she does say no it could be awkward for awhile but really only as long as you let it be. Take a chance. Just think where Donald Trump would be if he never took a chance. She can't say more than no. Don't make more of that than it is. If she isn't attracted to you that doesn't mean that the next girl won't be. No one can please all the people all the time. Get some guts and go for it. And no matter what, be proud that you had the guts to try.
2007-03-09 19:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming she's not wearing a ring... just talk to her about daily stuff. At first she will be polite and interested because you are a customer. after talking to her for a little on visits, she will assume that you like her and she will either start to avoid you and feel uncomfortable when you talk to her or she will try to be there to help you and look you in the eye and smile when you talk and not break eye contact. Then ask her if she would like to get a cup of coffee and talk sometime. If she says no, it's not the end of the world. Dealing with no's is a hell of a lot better than going thru life not asking for what you want. It's like living life on the roller coaster, or the merry-go-round. I like roller coasters, thank you.
2007-03-09 19:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you can be more creative than that. And, yes, go for it. Next time you see her just put a rose up on the counter. When you leave, leave the rose there. Women respond to romance. If nothing is said the next time you see her say "I think I left a rose here last week." Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself. The world won't come to an end. Your heart may start beating out of your chest, but hey, that's natural. The older you get ( I'm 37 ) the easier it gets. And rejection is not such a big deal. Well, she did not like you. Move on. As they say...many fish in the sea. Start fishing.
2007-03-09 19:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah. I've met some of the greatest girls on buses and other totally random places. Just be nice, use a little sense of humor if you have one, and just see if she'd like to meet up for lunch sometime. If she says yes, you're much better off than you were before...and if she says no, you're still a little better off b/c now you know and you can look elsewhere. As the wise sage Wayne Gretzky once said, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Good luck!
2007-03-09 19:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by single_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by saying hi how are you today. Get yourself in the position where she gets more comfortable with you. See hoe she reacts, how friendly she is with you and if she asks you anything to keep the conversation flowing, that will be the best indication if she is interested.
2007-03-09 19:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every girl that says no, there were probably 10 asked. Buck up young man and ask the lady out before someone else does.
2007-03-09 19:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make sure she doesnt have on a wedding ring and then go for it. Ask her to meet you for lunch or coffee. Lunch is a less threatening first date.
If she says NO...........NO worries....there are plenty of post offices and I am sure there are many bank branches you can go to.
2007-03-09 19:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. Ask her. She could be thinking the same thing. If it doesn't work out, then it just doesn't. The situation will only be awkward if you let it be.
2007-03-09 19:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by kristikclark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could wait until she asks YOU out, but, she's not allowed to do that at work.
On the one hand, you could end up spending the rest of your life with the girl of your dreams; on the other hand, you could spend your life wondering what would happen.
Hmm... I'd say go for it!
2007-03-09 19:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by gabluesmanxlt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋