Me and my boyfriend are so in love. But i cant see him because im on punishment and i hardly talk to him. I dont want to keep him locked down while i am, because hes faithful, but it's alot of girls that wanna get wit him and its hard not being able to see me. Should I take a break with him unti li get off punishment? He said we would get back together
2007-03-09 11:10:12 · 15 answers · asked by tryn2findloveinallthewrongplaces 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a break?! If he truly cares about you and is faithful in the first place, he would wait for you! He wouldn't want to break up. Perhaps he's just looking for a good excuse to spend time with the other girls. Sorry, dear- common sense rules above all.
2007-03-09 11:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to wait, let him. But let him know that if the waiting gets too hard, he should just tell you and then you can break up and you won't be angry, since he gave it his best shot, and was honest enough to not cheat on you.
While you're "on punishment," put the time to good use so your boyfriend can be proud of what a smart and devoted girlfriend he has. Here's some grammar to memorize:
-Should he and I break up? (not "me and him")
-My boyfriend and I are so in love. (not "me and my")
-There are a lot of girls that want to get with him. (not "it's alot of girls")
Spelling and punctuation aren't just tools of torture designed by your teachers - they are a means of effectively communicating your message. If you want other people to take you seriously and respect your thoughts, YOU have make the effort to communicate your thoughts clearly.
2007-03-09 19:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you 13 or 14? And what do you mean "get wit him"? Have sex? Are you 18, illiterate and in jail? In any of these cases, the only answer is to a)concentrate on school and learn to speak,type,write. b) behave yourself in future, and c) leave the guy alone and see what happens when you're "off punishment", whatever that means..sheeshhhhh
2007-03-09 19:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant hold out while you are being punished then he isnt worth your time. If he is SO IN LOVE with you then he should NOT care about all these other girls that want to "get with him".
My suggestion......dump him and move on when your punishment is done.
If he was being punished........would you be trying to "take a break" to get with other guys??
2007-03-09 19:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it would be a good idea for you to do as you suggest.
And you should also trust the fact that he says you would get back together, especially when you say hes faithful. This to me means that if hes faithful to you, he wont leave you for someone else.
You should try to maintain a form of contact to assert your love for him, allowing him to know you care, giving him reason to remain faithful.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-09 19:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by radish987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think you need to clear your head about whatever your on punishment for and taking a break would be best and in the long run you will be a better girlfriend to him
2007-03-09 19:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by lost in a world with no end 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound real young. Maybe you should be concentrating more on the books than on the boys, but I'm sure your parents have told you that already. Maybe that's why you are locked down..
2007-03-09 19:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if he loves you, hell understand having a break is giving him a chance to be with the other girls that like him.....No don't break up it would be the worst mistake of you life.
2007-03-09 19:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if you realy love each other there is no need because it could ruin something special for the both of ya'll hopes this helps
2007-03-09 19:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on punishment for the rest of this year?? He should learn to wait!!
2007-03-09 19:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by ut303 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋