Singles & Dating - 18 February 2007

I have a crush on this guy BUT he likes my best friend AND me. He likes my best friend more than me. And my best friend likes him too. He and I still talk/flirt. But, he says that he doesn't want to screw things up with her. He has given her a lot of chances and each time she ended up screwing up their relationship. He and me had a thing for about ONE week and then she stole him away from me. He told me that he is going to try & FORCE himself not to like me but it's not working out for him. What should I do? He says that he wants to take it to the next level....as in holding hands & stuff like that. Can someone please help me! Please! I'm sooo lost right now. Should I stop liking him and let them be happy or should I fight for him?

2007-02-18 15:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

why hes in love with me? or should i just leave it alone?

2007-02-18 15:15:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

u might want 2 check my profile 4 this 1...the guy i like and i r e-mailing each other and we've had at least 50 e-mails back and forth since last wednesday...there's this dance coming up and i've talked 2 him about it but haven't actually asked him about going 2 it...how do i ask him and it not seem strange...by the way the question in my profile u might want to see is there's this guy i like but there are problems, and, yes, it's the same guy

2007-02-18 15:15:01 · 4 answers · asked by pisces14 2

My girlfriend broke up with me because she liked another guy and didn't want to risk cheating on me, and she never did cheat on me, but now whenever we're together, she tells me she loves me. she's never cheated on me but she cheats on her new boyfriend with me all the time. She tells me she really likes him and doesn't want to break up with him, but she doesn't understand why she couldn't cheat on me but has no problem cheating on him. She says she can't help herself when she's around me. basically, i just don't know what to think... its confusing. lol

2007-02-18 15:14:08 · 16 answers · asked by guyguitarplayer 1

I have really improved in my singing and I want to show my crush. But I don't think he is going to listen because of the last time I saw him. I had a CD player with me at the time. Then I started singing. He told me to stop. But I think if I don't put on headphones he will LOVE my singing. It is a lot better now.

But I'm not sure if he would like it.
What makes your voice good?
Anything but water please!!!!!

2007-02-18 15:13:35 · 8 answers · asked by roxy<3 2

he's not keen on romantic gestures which i'm silently craving. my boyfriend doesn't give me flowers unless it's my birthday. he doesn't say "i love you" often, and sometimes appear to be a little insensitive to my "romantic" needs. but i do know he loves me.

2007-02-18 15:12:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it bad to have alot of guy friends if you are a girl i get told that i'm a slut because i hang out with guys should i hang out with more girls or what???? HELP!!

2007-02-18 15:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by soccersam522 3

okay so this guy is always hinting to me that he likes me and i like him alot too and he always is calling me and wantting to talk to me and i extremly and he is always saying stuff like "i really like you, we should go out" but i dont know how to respond to that

how do i hint that i want him to ask me out?

please help me

2007-02-18 15:11:13 · 15 answers · asked by dfgsdsg 1

2007-02-18 15:10:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

that love and sex should not be seen as one,i think sex is just sex, it does not mean that if you do it , that you are in love,i think love is something deeper, greater
sex is just sex,so i dont really find the deeper connection with married couples whether they do it or not
i mean ,are you still in love if you are no longer having sex

2007-02-18 15:09:30 · 27 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

he has done this before. but when he calls he sounds really enthusiastic and like wants to see me. he just doesnt call me. is it ok for me to call him? i've heard that the girl shouldnt call the guy. is he just not interested and being totally fake?

2007-02-18 15:09:11 · 4 answers · asked by anon8876 1

i need help. i have 2 guy friends who are basically my brothers and for several years we have hated a kid at our school but now i have had the chance to get to know him and we both like each other and he asked me out a week ago and i said yes ,but my two friends hate him. and last night i slept with him ...how do i tell my two friends that im going out with him?? and have slept with him???( daniel and matt are my two friends)

2007-02-18 15:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my roommate likes me. He cant look me in the eye, and seems nervous when talking to me. He's very helpful around the house. He bought me flowers out of nowhere a month ago and he baked my favorite cake for me. Are these signs that he likes me?

2007-02-18 15:07:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

does weight matter

2007-02-18 15:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by charles w 1

ok.long story but...i think im in true love. I am only 17 so u might think i am an immature infatuated tenn, but plz listen to how i feel. ................so. i was at my friends house the other night and met this amazing girl. everything about her is perfect to me. she has the greatest heart and the most beautiful body. i met her for the first time and talked with her for like an hour straight. we have so much in comon. i dont think she feels the same way about me as i feel for her though. besides that she was on vacation.( she lives in chile). i live in los angeles california. ill never see her again>>> everytime i think about her i get an adrenaline rush and i feel so depressed i cant be with her. out of all my crushes and so on , i have never loved a girl so much...WHAT CAN I DO AND WHAT DO U THINK OF MY SITUATION>

2007-02-18 15:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by ItalianStallion 1

I am 16 and I am pretty sure I am pregnant, and I am sure the father is my ex boyfriend. He is in the military and leaving in a few months. He is a jerk, and I don't really care if he is in the childs life or not. Would it be wrong for me not to tell him, and let my child grow up not knowing it's father?

2007-02-18 15:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it okay for me to start liking her again? before i was a really shy guy but now i am more outgoing. She knows i like her before but know she, probably doesnt think i sitll like her. What should i do i am confused and clueless. Should i flirt with her?

2007-02-18 15:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by clueless 2

im 16
i really want a bf. but im not desperate
i just want to kno how to get guy to notice me?
thanks

2007-02-18 15:04:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-18 15:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by dee d 3

2007-02-18 15:03:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I know this is long and I am saying sry ahead of time.(got a lot on mind) Ok me n my best guy friend r super close. Lately I have begun to develop feelings for him. We r pretty much already goin out, but we haven't made it "official". We do everything 2gether. Well 1st off, we have 5 out of 8 classes 2gether n school. (We r both sophomores, n case any1 wanted 2 know) We hangout all the time after school and on the weekends. We go 2 da movies, mall, lunch, dinner, Putt Putt, sometimes we just hangout @ his house, we go 2 da lake 2gether with my family, I have gone bowling with him n his family...Pretty much we do EVERYTHING 2gether. I want 2 tell him dat I want 2 b more than just friends, but..1) I don't want it 2 b akward. 2) I don't want it 2 ruin our friendship if he doesn't want 2 b anything more. And 3) I don't want 2 get my heart broken. I have tried 2 bring it ^ b4 but I guess I wasn't clear enough about wut I was tryin 2 say. How can I tell him? Any suggestions will b helpful

2007-02-18 15:02:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, there is this guy i like and he likes me too.On friday i asked him if he wanted to hang out, and he said sure. we tried figuring out where to go, but never did. he had my number, so i thought he would phone me, sometime during the weekend, but he never did.

I was talking to him, and he said that he was sorry and said that he had other plans with his friends. Then he said that he wouldn't be able to hang out for the next 3 weeks becuase of hockey. he said that he has it 5 times a week and then on the weekends he has to go to other towns. then he said that we would still want to hang out at school...

do u think he is just making excuses not to see me or do u think he is telling the truth??? i dunno what to do, i really like himmmm ( he has been known for lying sumtimes..and is a cocky kinda of guy lol )

2007-02-18 15:01:59 · 18 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2

:-(

2007-02-18 15:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so theres this boy i've only met twice in person but i always talk to him online and we're always playfully flirting like "saying love you and <333" things like that. the problem is that i don't think hes cute but i love his personality. personality is a big thing but i think looks matter too. i don't know if he likes me yet but i think hes does. should his looks really matter? have i fallen?

2007-02-18 14:59:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am smart, funny and nice but they see past that. They all want to you know what with me. That's all. I don't present myself that way at all. I dress very professinally and modestly. What is the deal seriously?

2007-02-18 14:58:22 · 10 answers · asked by Mara D 1

I had a guy get me introuble for stalking him but i wasnt! So now i cant talk to guys and i really like this guy but im scared of getting in trouble please help. Hes popular and im not too popular. Hes a sweet guy but compared to him im like dirt! Please help me i want to talk to him! I want to be his friend! But im too scared

2007-02-18 14:57:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

this question was fromy my friend
he is a guy in high school
and he wants to ask this girl out
how should he do it

2007-02-18 14:57:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-18 14:56:31 · 3 answers · asked by Watsonboy 1

I met this really nice guy, he was very interested and would call me 2 or 3 times a day. We kissed on the 1st date, & fooled around a little on the 3rd. I usually don't go that far that fast, but there was a very strong connection.
We would've gone all the way, but had no protection. Of course he was willing to without any protection. He didn't want to go buy any & used the excuse it was too cold to go out, but when I left for the night went out to buy cigarettes. What's up with that? It made me feel like I wasn't important enough.
He called me on V-Day to wish me a happy one, talked for a few minutes & had to go. Reassured me that he would call me later that night. No call. I waited a few days, and sent an email asking him what was up. No response for a few days. Then, finally, a quick email to tell me he was behind with work and school, and would call or write back that day. Nothing again. Here it is like 5 days later and still nothing ~

2007-02-18 14:55:21 · 21 answers · asked by stylishhurthunny 1

not just that they like you, but that they like you and are too afraid to admit it. Are their signs? Body actions? Etc?

2007-02-18 14:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by . 5