so theres this boy i've only met twice in person but i always talk to him online and we're always playfully flirting like "saying love you and <333" things like that. the problem is that i don't think hes cute but i love his personality. personality is a big thing but i think looks matter too. i don't know if he likes me yet but i think hes does. should his looks really matter? have i fallen?
2007-02-18 14:59:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it girl!!! at least let give it a try .... gl tc ciao =]]
2007-02-18 15:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks Shouldnt matter if You Love HIs Personality Go Girl! Good Luck Your Sweet!
2007-02-18 15:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by fdffhhjyuj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question then you are not really in-love yet. Looks fade over time and a really beautiful person on the outside can turn ugly if they are not a good person. Looks are superficial and when you really love someone (for who they are on the inside) they should become very attractive to you. That is why they say "love is blind".
Good luck!!!
2007-02-18 15:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course looks matter. And no you haven't fallen. I say this b/c when you truly love someone you accept and embrace everything about them. If you loved him, his appearance would have never been an issue. It's okay to just be friends w/him, but be sure to not make him think think there is something there.
2007-02-18 15:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl it's whatever you think not what other people think if you think he is cute go ahead and ask him out because look never matter to some people they like other thing's about the person instead of their looks didn't you say you love is personality so that's the only thing that matter to me i think looks matter he has to be cute see that's only my option that may not be your so really no one can really tell you a answer you have to follow you heart because you are the one who is going to be dating him no one Else so it's up to you listen to your heart find out if he like you and if he does go for it ask him out it's worth a shot good luck i hope i could help you out i hope you make the right decision.
2007-02-18 15:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by little-cutiepie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks should not matter....but realistically they do. I'm not saying he has to be attractive to "everybody else" but you have to find him attractive for anything romantic to come of it. There has to be SOME chemistry there. My advice would be to continue to talk to him. Sometimes when you love a persons personality they can become more attractive to you over time. Just like if someone is really hot but they don't have a good personality you can find them less attractive over time. Good luck, sound like he might be a keeper...
2007-02-18 15:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by v000d02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I will not answer ur question directly instead I want to tell u bout the love of my life.
I started talking to him on myspace and he wanted to meet but i was not interested in an online relationship. Then I realized we had a mutual friend and I met the guy from myspace. I wasn't to sure cuz he was heavy set. To make a long story short.............. We will be getting married next year.
2007-02-18 15:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Selena H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have been hit with cupids arrows. I don't think looks matter because like in beauty and the geek maybe its just the way he dresses or maybe to much facial hair or stuff like that. i think its good that you like his personality. Maybe you can put him on it *lol. jk* so just to makie it seem ok personality is better than looks. in my opinion. say if u marry a guy cuz he looks cute, den wen u find out u huv nothing in common den u'll seem stupid and will probably get a divorce or just stop being interested in him. so looks aren't everything = ) Good Luck = )
2007-02-18 15:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really not sure if this helps, but before dismissing him on account of his not so hot looks. Take another look, I find, at least for me, that guys become much more attractive when I start to fall for his little quirks and idiosyncracies. He might not be as ugly as you got in your mind he is. You might start to love his goofy ears and playful eyes. If you think its possible for you to fall for him, he will grow attractive. I'm pretty sure of it. Trust your heart, I wouldn't let the guy go just yet. Heres a short story that might sort of apply.
2007-02-18 15:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get to know the guy enough, the personality will show through. Its kinda a known saying, but its about personality not looks. The looks will come as you love his personality more and more.
2007-02-18 15:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by mychal1216km 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His looks shouldn't matter at all...just think if you go for looks and don't care about the personality, when he grows old he won't look good or have a good personality. At least you know this guy's personality is great. I don't know if its love..but your heading their and he may be too.
2007-02-18 15:04:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋