is this bad?

Question

is it bad to have alot of guy friends if you are a girl i get told that i'm a slut because i hang out with guys should i hang out with more girls or what???? HELP!!

Answer 1

Nope its not bad, they're jealous because you are popular and outgoing and they stuck up little snobs. What should you do? Tell them to go *(&^)!! themselves

Answer 2

you shouldn't stop hanging out with people who are your friends just because other people call you a s!ut. sure, some girls who have a lot of guy friends are that way, but people shouldn't assume so. I used to hear that sometimes because I have a lot of guy friends, but I stopped caring what people think because I know that I'm not like that and that the people who accused me were ignorant or jealous. Just be yourself... don't lose your friends because of a stupid accusation by others.

Answer 3

It is not only right to mix with guy friends, it is important to do so for any girl. Too many girls just pick one guy, assign him the position of boyfriend and then give him exclusive rights. As a woman living in modern times where divorces flourish, you must take great care in choosing your mate. You are not in your mother's generation where you don't get much chance to go out to discover what men are like. In fact it is your responsibility to find out how one guy can be different from another. Or else how would you be able to look beyond his charms to find if a responsible person exists there?

However, when I say mix with other guys I am not encouraging you to do a disservice to your self. There is a difference between mixing and involving yourself with multiple males. If you have casual outing with them is fine. But if you get personal and sexual then you have crossed the line of respecting yourself. So set your boundaries clearly and make as many male friends as you wish, but always remember that no woman enjoys being used. Such a woman is not even respected by the guys who use her. As a woman's reputation is important, you should guard against men who test your boundaries.

If you are being told that you are a flirt simply because you hangout with other guys, then you must examine if you are being told that because when you are with guys, you allow for a questionable degree of physical contact with them. Some women describe this as loose behavior inviting trouble. They may be right.

Mix with as many males as you want but always remember that you are a female and that you should be respected and not taken for granted. Then you are on the right track and men will always respect and even admire you. If this is what you are doing and your female friends start calling you names, then it could be that they actually envy you for being able to draw males to you more easily than they can. So you may need to question the quality of friendship you have with your female friends.

So in short, enjoy yourself without disrespecting yourself or your gender, and you will not only find a suitable mate, but you will also win the respect of your girlfriends too. So go have good fun for now and don't worry about what others are saying. You are a young modern woman, but more importantly -THIS IS YOUR LIFE..

Answer 4

no its not bad to have a lot of guys friends. That is just like me, i just can't stand having friends that are girls because all they do is cause drama. Its okay to have a good time with the guys. They are fun anyway.

Answer 5

People assume i am a slut or whore or whatever you wanna call it too because i have tons of guy friends i just tell my friends the guy and i are just friends and tell them to stop

Answer 6

i have alot of guy friends i don't click with alot of chics well i had a best friend tha was a girl who did me wrong. well are they JUST friends? if so then tell those haters to just mind da business and stay out of yours. your friends should be who you want them to be weather they are girls or boys not what other people think you should hang out with.

Answer 7

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