Singles & Dating - 18 February 2007

I really like him but we don't talk. I am kind of shy around guy who i think r cute or i like. I don't know how to approch him. I don't know if he has a girlfiend. i do not want to put my self out there then get hurt. what should i do?

2007-02-18 15:32:02 · 5 answers · asked by jasmine b 1

i spent the night at my boyfriends one night, we slept in the same bad...and in the morning when i woke up i woke up with the song called: "Everytime" By: Britney Spears, was this song in my head that i woke up to trying to give me a message or tell me something?

2007-02-18 15:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by US 2 1

I loved him for so long. But he never loved me in the same way. He spent all the time trying to make me hate him because he didnt want to hurt me anymore. He liked me...and loved me. But not as much. He got high. And yelled at me. And all I ever did was love him and all he ever did was yell at me treat me like crap and hurt me. Now theres a part of me that still loves him a little bit but I want to hate him so bad. He promised he would never hurt me again...and I told him I wont believe it until he proves me its true. Im trying to be strong...and I never thought I would say "I dont love you anymore" and "I hate you" to him. Both very strong statements...but Im too afraid of being hurt anymore. He tells me he loves me but not as much. He tells me he likes me, but if we dated it would only hurt me more. How do I stick to this until he proves to me he can change and wont hurt me anymore?

2007-02-18 15:31:26 · 3 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2

In tenth grade I went out with this one guy. We talked on the phone for 2 months and than he asked me out. We broke up in 2 weeks a day after his birthday. Now, I am a senior in high school, I just turned 18. He became the captain of the football team and has had a girlfriend since than. I do not like him however, he is always staring and checking me out even telling his boys that I am his "ex-girlfriend" when I pass by them.. My point is that since we broke up two years ago, I have not had anyone else ask me out. I've a couple of older guys (who used to be seniors) like me..they obviously graduated. And now that I am a senior I have NO ONE. I am so alone. What is the deal? What do you think? Thanksmuch!

2007-02-18 15:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Mara D 1

My girlfriend and I are talking about having sex for the first time, but she's worried about how much pain its going to cause. What are some things I or she can do to reduce the pain as much as possible?

2007-02-18 15:29:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i was volunteering for and event with a girl that i know, and a boy pops up to the counter that was so cute. he came to get tickets and talk to the other girl. It turns out that they were friends. How should i go about getting to him. Should i get more friendly to the girl and slowly ask questions about him. What should i do?

2007-02-18 15:28:58 · 16 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1

Okay so there is this guy that I was dating all through last summer and into the fall/winter. It started off exclusive and then it kinda faded away to a once in awhile dating thing and then just friends. But all through that, we became VERY close friends. Pretty much best friends in a sense. We talk everyday, whether it's just a quick hello or a 4 hour conversation. Like I said, we are close. The other night we went out with some of our mutual friends and we wound up coming home at the end & sleeping together. It was amazing. But he said he wasn't sure he wanted to jump in a relationship again and would I mind being friends with benefits. Of course I said yes but now I am wondering if that is the best idea. See here is the thing, I am completely in love with this guy. I think he may love me too but he is scared to really tell me. He did tell me once that he loved me and my friendship but never the love me romantically way...yet. I don't know what to do. I love being w/ him intimately.

2007-02-18 15:28:52 · 16 answers · asked by L 3

2007-02-18 15:28:49 · 13 answers · asked by josie 2

Now that I am with a new guy, he wants to move forward phisically.I want to as well, but I feel like I can't. It's so frustrating. I really like this new guy and he is special to me, but I feel like it is still hard to move on. Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?

2007-02-18 15:27:52 · 2 answers · asked by Christina 1

This guy knew I liked him and he said he likes me too but wants to keep it "casual." I agreed thinking I can handle it but I think part of me thought he would change his mind. So we've been having s e x for 3 months and it's been great, I thought we were going somewhere. But he still says he just wants to keep it casual. His excuse is we live too far away to be able to get together enough for a r/ship, but he says he does like me. But now he tells me about another girl he really likes a lot. He says nothing will ever happen between them though because she's not interested. Girls, what would you do if this happened to you? Would you go crazy and slash his tires? I feel so used and betrayed. I also feel strangely numb about it all. What do you think?????

2007-02-18 15:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were together 4 years, he's cheated on me,loves to have internet women on the side,emotionally absent, passive aggressive, plays mind games,would rather live in a homeless shelter than at home because he doesn't want to work,likes to find women he can live off of, he charms them[and me too] by saying 'you're my soulmate',we got a marriage license, and that same night he was on the internet asking three strangers he had never even met to marry him and have sex with him. Also sending a woman pics of his privates.While we were engaged! WHAT WOULD YOU DO????

2007-02-18 15:27:35 · 5 answers · asked by blunga_dunga 1

2007-02-18 15:27:20 · 7 answers · asked by josie 2

OK so I am 29 and my girlfriend is 25. We have been together 5 years and she is pressuring me big time to get engaged. We have done long distance this whole time and she has lied to me several times about big things, the last of which was about 2 months ago. I told her that we need stability and to rebuild trust before engagement. Now...she says if I don't propose by end of march she will leave me. Given that my family is concerned about this woman bc she has hurt me I simply said that I wanted her to go to my parents and tell them how much she loves me and that she will give me a good life. She refused to and says its horrible for me to ask her to do it. Is it that bad? Shouldn't a woman who loves me want to do something so simple to make me happy? PLease help me out....feel like I am crazy here.

2007-02-18 15:26:57 · 11 answers · asked by micg70 1

so i decided to move on, after a few days she began to call me again and to go to the same nightclub i go... she always joins me in the dancefloor but if i try to get closer she rejects me,on the other side if she founds me chatting with another girl she gets jealous and starts her public displays of affection. I thought that she was playing with me so i decided to move on again and tried another club, she found me again...

i'm not in love with her anymore, but since this was the second time that something similar has happened to me, does anybody has an idea of what's happening?? thx

2007-02-18 15:26:27 · 3 answers · asked by vec p 1

Why was it so great? How long were you together and what qualities did she posess?

2007-02-18 15:25:28 · 5 answers · asked by asiansmile 3

Does this girl like me ????
i starting to like this girl. and im getting mixed signals like she asked me when me and friend are goin 2 chill wit her and her friend. well anyways this all started when 1 day i went to the doctor and ended up seeing her i didn't know that was her but she did look familar she kept looking at me the whole time. then when i told her i saw her she said remembered me and asked me why i didn't say hi. then later on i asked her what was up wit me and her and she said i dont know you tell me. she also told me she wasnt a virgin and kept asking me if i was. i would tell her she is sexy jus 2 see what she would say and she said she was ugly that way i can tell her she's beautiful. she asked me 2 transfer 2 her school. i know her friend likes my friend but why is she picking me to go with my friend to hang out. i asked her if she would be my valentine and if she would give me her number. she told me that she can't give away her phone number but she wanted mine. and then last night she starts telling me that she was mad and that she felt like nobody cared about her and that she didn't want live anymore. honestly i was really worried i wanted her to make her feel better so i would say something to cheer her up and she would laugh. the next day she told me she felt better and i asked if she liked me and she laughed and said ummmm.. idk and through out the conversation she kept on calling me baby and laughing. is that a sign that she likes me ???

PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!

2007-02-18 15:24:55 · 17 answers · asked by Ernesto V 1

when he messages,calls or chat with me i got over excited. i just couldnt stop smiling.. he knows that i like him.. he said i'll always be in his heart, when he's feeling down, he said he's lucky to have me... but he never said that he likes me or 'i love you'. what does it mean?? i dont understand. i cant ask him or i just might lose him.. i'd rather have him as a friend than ask whether he likes me or not and lose him.. im more than 100% sure that im in love with him..

2007-02-18 15:23:11 · 18 answers · asked by me_eressea 2

Here's the basic plot:

I like this girl a lot and we spend quite some time together. She sure knows I like her but may not be so certain about it although I think everything I ever did for or to her had got "I like you" written all over them. In the look of her eyes, touch of her hand and the way she handles herself in my presence suggest that she does have some feelings for me. All my gestures were responded to positively. Along came Valentine's day I asked her out to a theatre. Not wanting to pressure her, I left out the fact that I've already got the tickets. I even refrained from using the word "Valentine's". I only asked her if she wanted to go out on "a Wednesday" evening. She said no giving no reason but that Wednesday isn't good for her. She's been distant ever since.

She seems like she's got something to say about it the last time we talked although she seemed very reluctant.

Any thoughts? I'm willing to settle for being friends with her...if that's even possible now.

2007-02-18 15:23:05 · 11 answers · asked by binga 1

...what do i do?
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2007-02-18 15:22:46 · 3 answers · asked by Veritesirum 3

i need help cuz im kinda talkin to this one dude right now and im not sure of wat he wants right now in our relationship

2007-02-18 15:21:47 · 2 answers · asked by Lil mizz lonee 1

I was waiting for my wife to finish with a manicure and I overheard 2 women talking. One said that she just got engaged to a very nice man who was not good looking. She was troubled.

2007-02-18 15:21:27 · 5 answers · asked by corporatetrade 2

my boyfriend joined the military and did not tell me he started a argue and now is staying with his mom until he leave i love him but should i just forget about him

2007-02-18 15:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by sweet and sour 1

Countless times have I wondered the answer to this question...I have been ridiculed by my friends when I don't reconize that a girl is flirting with me...Somebody help here...

2007-02-18 15:18:59 · 27 answers · asked by mrdatoe 2

i dont kno how to tell him help!!

2007-02-18 15:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by chinkee 1

there is a boy in my grade and really really likes me and we went out a while back but i broke up with him and he still like me. what should i do?!?!?!?!?! and also i dont like him anymore. but i do like him like a friend. we talk and text all the time and he always has to say "im tanking of u" or somehting like that.

2007-02-18 15:18:52 · 8 answers · asked by maranda 2

Say like teenagers who fall in love..Is it doomed?
What do you think?

2007-02-18 15:18:40 · 4 answers · asked by xogingerox 3

37yo

2007-02-18 15:18:31 · 2 answers · asked by smoothopr_2 4

2007-02-18 15:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by jasmine b 1

that all my guy friends inrtoduce me to friends that r lik really nerdy looking and the nerdy guys lik me...but i dont lik them cuz they arent my type...lik the whole time i lik my guy friends...but not the nerds they introduce me to..and i only know 2 guys that arent nerdy that like me...y is it that im only attractive to the nerdy guys is it cause im the nicest to them...?or what i mean i know there could be more than one guy hat liks me...but i mean usually its really nerdy guys but hey i thin kosme nerds r cute so dont bash me cause i think hey arent.....but i just wanna know y only nerdy guys lik me....?

2007-02-18 15:17:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we realy need to find out. someting thats not too expensive

2007-02-18 15:17:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous