my boyfriend joined the military and did not tell me he started a argue and now is staying with his mom until he leave i love him but should i just forget about him
2007-02-18 15:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by sweet and sour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him and forget him. He didnt feel that you were close enough (or that you mattered enough) to help him with this desicion. He obviously doesnt see yourleratioship going anywhere.
2007-02-18 15:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Naru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls do this? They always want to dump their man because he's being a man and joining his home countries military! WE ALL should be proud of them, not forgetting them.
Let him know how sorry you are and love him up before he has to leave.
2007-02-18 23:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, support him with his new advancement, because it is possible for the relationship to go on even if he is in the army. Maybe the reason he didn't tell you is because he knew you'd be upset, or encourage him not to join. What you need to do is go and talk with him to see if he has given up on you and to show him that you have not given up on him.
2007-02-18 23:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by orinD.A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was his decision to join the military. If you are not married, you couldn't control him. If you do not love him enough to support his decision, then forget him.
2007-02-18 23:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he didn't tell you than he didn't care much about and if he did and is leaving know there is a chance he might not come back and wants to stay with his mom than let him go and just move on with your life.... he is.
2007-02-18 23:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by just right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he not tell you? Was he trying to breakup with his argument? Have you had problems you are not admitting to yourself lately? He moved out, he is probably done and not worth your time. I suggest going to see him and wishing him well in his new career. Say good bye and end it nicely with closure for you.
Good luck!
2007-02-18 23:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him...Ask him why he didn't tell you. Communication is a huge factor in a true relationship. If he doesn't give you a great answer....Tell him to kick rocks.
2007-02-18 23:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Constance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r concidering forgetting him u dont luv him and yes u should leave but it seems to me that if u luved him u wouldn't even have to ask this question you would luv him to much to even think of that.
2007-02-18 23:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by mybizyagottaknowthat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really wants to serve his country, its his dream I don't see why you should leave him.
I think you should stay with him. Good luck
2007-02-18 23:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Matt21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, if he truly loved you, he would have told you. if would have cared more about your feelings and wanted to know what you would have thought before he made his decision. you may love him, but i feel that you should part ways if he doesn't care about your feelings before joining
2007-02-18 23:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by adam b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋