there is a boy in my grade and really really likes me and we went out a while back but i broke up with him and he still like me. what should i do?!?!?!?!?! and also i dont like him anymore. but i do like him like a friend. we talk and text all the time and he always has to say "im tanking of u" or somehting like that.
2007-02-18 15:18:52 · 8 answers · asked by maranda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey girl its me! what i would say is you should tell hem how you feel its really important if he doesn't stop get on hem about it hes just being an *** and if you do get on hem about it just try to be nice say like I'm sorry but Ive got to end this uve gone over board with this friendship after all i now a lot of girls who still like him but most of them r ugly! no ufence
2007-02-18 15:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing, except i never went out with the boy, but he defenetly liked me and was obsessed. I told him i wanted to be friends and he got mad and stopped talking to me. You should also stress the "friends" part, because anything you do or say they might take it as a sign or flirting! And if you feel like he is crossing the friendship line, tell him and let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he doesn't stop than you might have to let him go as a friend too. If he really likes you he is going to stop, because he would rather have you as a friend than be nothing!!!
2007-02-18 23:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Yezmin Fernandez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not obsessive. He just still likes you, and thinks there's a possibility you like him back since you text/talk to him back. If you don't like him like that don't lead him on, leading him on like that only makes him say those things. He's looking for a reaction.
2007-02-18 23:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either have to tell him you only want to be friends or let him go completely if he isn't OK with being just friends as i suspect he won't. not at all an easy thing to do as i am sure you don't want to hurt his feelings, but, if you are not clear on the issue he will most likely feel like you still want a relationship with him. good luck
2007-02-18 23:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by 1dayatatime 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break the relationship off completely. He might fill like you are leading him on.
2007-02-18 23:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to start the whole relationship all over again. He still likes you and wants to share his love with you. Nothing wrong with that.
MJ
2007-02-18 23:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my grandpa always said men and women cant be just friends something is always there even if its just one of them
2007-02-18 23:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he is
2007-02-18 23:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋