Now that I am with a new guy, he wants to move forward phisically.I want to as well, but I feel like I can't. It's so frustrating. I really like this new guy and he is special to me, but I feel like it is still hard to move on. Is there something wrong with me? What should I do?
2007-02-18 15:27:52 · 2 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I made a mistake once of not moving forward physically with a new guy after recently breaking up with a long term boyfriend and I deeply regretted it. It all depends on how long you have been dating this new person, but trust me. You should definitely become intimate with them, especially if you are saying they are special to you. Don't jump in the sack if it's been a very short while, but after some time I feel you should. Hopefully this new guy is understanding of what you are going through, but definitely don't wait too too long cuz it may get to be too late and then you may feel extremely hurt or angry that you missed out. Allow yourself to experience someone new that you care for. Good luck!
2007-02-18 15:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't don't force yourself. Let it come naturally and tell him what is happening. It's easy to have sex with men we don't like but when you feel that connection, you want it to be special, and it should be. Tell him this and if he truly cares about you as well, he will give you time. Good luck.
2007-02-26 22:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋