ok, i was volunteering for and event with a girl that i know, and a boy pops up to the counter that was so cute. he came to get tickets and talk to the other girl. It turns out that they were friends. How should i go about getting to him. Should i get more friendly to the girl and slowly ask questions about him. What should i do?
2007-02-18 15:28:58 · 16 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Manipulation is for those with no other attributes......
2007-02-18 15:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont manipulate. ask others about him find out if there is anything besides looks that will attract you to him. get to know him through your friend, have her invite him to a gather of friends. make things happen to get closer even if you are the one having the party. always be yourself or he will think you are a liar and lose interest.
2007-02-18 15:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by R. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would get closer to her? Get closer to him like introducing you self, there's nothing bad about it, mostly of the guys like when girls do that kind of approach. During the friendship get knowing what he likes and surprise him. Good luck.
2007-02-18 15:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to manipulate ?? Just ask the girl straight up what his story is, and tell her that you think he's real nice...
2007-02-18 15:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a female with self-esteem won't go around chasing "cute" guys. Instead, just wait & see if he's interested in you, if he is, show your interest. How would you know if he really likes you or he's just taking advantage when you give him a chance? what guy wouldn't grab an opportunity?
2007-02-18 15:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to find out if this other girl likes this guy and if they have something going on before you just jump on this dude...just ask if he has a girl...that is all you have to do....
2007-02-18 15:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't use manipulation. it always backfires. Try sincere friendship with the girl..but if the guy likes you he would of found out about you from that girl.
2007-02-18 15:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lil SW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be manipulative. and dont use the girl. would you want someone using you? Just be straight forward with the guy. strike up a convo.
2007-02-18 15:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Manipulation would probably freak him out in the longrun.
2007-02-18 15:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try being yourself if you play manipulation games like you want he will find out and hate you , no one likes a game player
2007-02-18 15:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) tell the girl you're a lesbian
2) she'll go tell the guy
3) he'll get really excited
4) and then you can make out
2007-02-18 15:31:45 · answer #11 · answered by shugashayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋