This guy knew I liked him and he said he likes me too but wants to keep it "casual." I agreed thinking I can handle it but I think part of me thought he would change his mind. So we've been having s e x for 3 months and it's been great, I thought we were going somewhere. But he still says he just wants to keep it casual. His excuse is we live too far away to be able to get together enough for a r/ship, but he says he does like me. But now he tells me about another girl he really likes a lot. He says nothing will ever happen between them though because she's not interested. Girls, what would you do if this happened to you? Would you go crazy and slash his tires? I feel so used and betrayed. I also feel strangely numb about it all. What do you think?????
2007-02-18 15:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say this but look, you gave him the impression that you "could handle it." Yeah, I'd want to slash his tires for sure, but I think you should excommunicate him from your life... after slashing his tires.
2007-02-18 15:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont slash his tires this guy is not worth jail time!!! You did agree to the casual thing and in guy language that means I just want to sleep with you and have no commitment so if a better offer comes along I can take it. So I think You sould drop the loser its his loss. You seem like a sweet girl with alot to give someone so find someone who wants to give to you also!! You deserve better!! Dont call him or even return his calls this guy needs to grow up!!!
2007-02-18 15:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey that sucks really bad. I think the longer you stay the more you will be hurt. Unfortunately he doesn't seem to feel the same way as you do and you just need to cut your losses. You should get away from him and find a guy that will completely give himself to you and respect you instead of this guy, you deserve it. Write a list of the things about him and that he does that annoy you and every time you think you want to meet up with him just read it and remind yourself why he is no good for you. I hope this helps.
2007-02-18 15:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Em_butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, truth hurts and that's what makes us human. I'm going to be straight forward and tell it like it is. You are simply a booty call for this guy who is a smooth talker. He has true feelings for another but sees you as easy. It is time to MOVE ON! If you move on, he may come around if he can't depend on you as just being there and taking you for granted. If he doesn't, you were definately just a booty call. DO NOT slash his tires, you are the one putting up with it, shame on him the first time but shame on you after that for allowing him to use you like this. I wish the best of luck to you and hope you find the right one.
2007-02-18 15:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tell It Like It Is! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u psycho! i'm so sick of women getting into these "friend with benefits" relationships with the intentions of manipulating a man into a serious relationship. whatever he's doing to u is ur fault because u allow it. why do u continue the relationship? dont u feel pathetic? u need to work on ur self esteem and dignity. if u do slash his tires u deserve to be arrested. he must not be a prize either of the other girl's not interested. doesnt it make u feel like isht that the only reason he's not with her is because she doesnt want to be with him?
2007-02-18 15:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by bella212 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i kinda had the same problem but we was together but he was cheating and i wanted to slash his tires to and get revenge on him but that not going to help well actionly yea slash em and break a window but don't let him think it's u or u will be in trouble.
2007-02-18 15:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by jans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh oh oh cut his tires cause he straight played you he used the fact you liked him to get in those jeans and now that he has gotten tired of getting the same milk from the same cow for free he is ready to move on so make him pay for playing with you emotions
2007-02-18 15:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by just right 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this situation. Don't be eager to give up the booty just to keep a guy around. Just dump him and move on.
2007-02-18 15:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally walked into that one, sorry. What he did is wrong, but when he said he wanted to keep it casual, it was clear what he did and didn't want.
2007-02-18 15:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by the LKP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't slash his tires, it's illegal
2007-02-18 15:30:44 · answer #10 · answered by shugashayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋