I have a crush on this guy BUT he likes my best friend AND me. He likes my best friend more than me. And my best friend likes him too. He and I still talk/flirt. But, he says that he doesn't want to screw things up with her. He has given her a lot of chances and each time she ended up screwing up their relationship. He and me had a thing for about ONE week and then she stole him away from me. He told me that he is going to try & FORCE himself not to like me but it's not working out for him. What should I do? He says that he wants to take it to the next level....as in holding hands & stuff like that. Can someone please help me! Please! I'm sooo lost right now. Should I stop liking him and let them be happy or should I fight for him?
2007-02-18 15:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok girl i know that it is hard but he likes your bf more than you then you need to just forget about it because more than likely he and her wont last long and by then you will like someone else. If your friend knows you like him and that she likes him and she is the first to jump at him then either she has issues and really don't care about your and hers freindship. What I would do if I was you I would talk to my friend and say look I like him and you like him hats more important him or us and if we agree then we would both leave him alone. A freindships are more than guys.
"boys may come and go but friends will always stay" that is what I lived by when I was younger!!!
Good Luck
2007-02-22 10:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to act like you don't want him anymore. He's stringing you along because you are allowing him to do so. You need to act like he's just a friend. He'll come crawling to you to get your attention back. Start talking to other boys and doing stuff with the girls. He'll start to get nervous that you've forgotten him and he'll play right into your hands.
2007-02-18 15:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
There will come a new day and
a new love.
2007-02-18 15:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He s not worth it.
2007-02-18 15:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by SidBridge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes your bestfriend , that find someone that just likes you :]
2007-02-18 15:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by joy b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋