I Want To Tell Him, But Don't Know How...?

Question

Ok I know this is long and I am saying sry ahead of time.(got a lot on mind) Ok me n my best guy friend r super close. Lately I have begun to develop feelings for him. We r pretty much already goin out, but we haven't made it "official". We do everything 2gether. Well 1st off, we have 5 out of 8 classes 2gether n school. (We r both sophomores, n case any1 wanted 2 know) We hangout all the time after school and on the weekends. We go 2 da movies, mall, lunch, dinner, Putt Putt, sometimes we just hangout @ his house, we go 2 da lake 2gether with my family, I have gone bowling with him n his family...Pretty much we do EVERYTHING 2gether. I want 2 tell him dat I want 2 b more than just friends, but..1) I don't want it 2 b akward. 2) I don't want it 2 ruin our friendship if he doesn't want 2 b anything more. And 3) I don't want 2 get my heart broken. I have tried 2 bring it ^ b4 but I guess I wasn't clear enough about wut I was tryin 2 say. How can I tell him? Any suggestions will b helpful

We make eye contact all the time. It just feels right. Its like when those quiet moments feel right. They are not akward...there just..idk how to explain it. They just feel normal. There the type of moments when you dont have to say anything to fill in the gaps. Does that make sense?...

Answer 1

ya know I have someone I want to tell too and I am just waiting for the right time thats the key right there the timing plus I am also freaked out if he dosnt think the same about me but ya know

Answer 2

I'm in the same EXACT situation you are. Except I'm a freshman, haha. What I think maybe you should do.. and maybe I should too.. is just like start talking about dating and look him straight in the eyes and try to figure out what he's thinking. Yeah sounds wierd but sometimes it works. Maybe you could just be like "I'm going to ask you a ? and I want you to be 100% honest.. and let's not let this change us unless it's for the better." and then ask him if he likes you. It's gonna take a LOT of courage.. but I think we can both do it. Someone's gotta make the first move, right?




I see what you mean about the making eye contact thing.. I've had the same thing happen. Maybe that's just the right time.. wait until you two are alone and then just say it. :)

Answer 3

Sounds to me like you've done everything a couple does already, without the commitment and sex. Just take your time, ride the wave, and let it happen on it's own. Then when you build up the courage to actually tell him, just let him know how you feel, and tell him what you've noticed what's going on between you 2.

Answer 4

When you are alone, make eye contact with him. Don't look away until he does. You could end up kissing, smiling, etc....OR he could say, "What are you looking at?" and you can say, "I thought you had an eyelash in your eye, but I guess it was a shadow." Guys will believe anything.

Answer 5

It sounds like you are all ready on your way to being more than jus friends. Try telling how you feel, if nothing else you'll be able to get that off your chest.

Answer 6

Well don't do it by writing a note because you spell like Corky from Life Goes On. Maybe you should spend more time in school retard.

Answer 7

take time to build up your confidence then tell him when your alone and you know that you won't be interrupted. say that you don't want things to be awkward but that you really want him to know how you feel.

Answer 8

just be honst and tell him how you feel he might just be thinking the same thing but to scared to say anything