i need help. i have 2 guy friends who are basically my brothers and for several years we have hated a kid at our school but now i have had the chance to get to know him and we both like each other and he asked me out a week ago and i said yes ,but my two friends hate him. and last night i slept with him ...how do i tell my two friends that im going out with him?? and have slept with him???( daniel and matt are my two friends)
2007-02-18 15:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That Is quite a problem you got yourself into, your going to have a hard time explaining to them why you changed your opinion of this kid that you all used to pick on, but unless you are going to break up with this guy soon, I suggest you tell them the truth, they are going to find out eventually. If they are good friends they will understand, they might not like it but they will get over it if you seriously like this guy.
2007-02-18 15:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by imre_14_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest about going out with him (you don't have to mention sleeping with him) and tell them you think they should give him another chance. You had the same view they did of him and then you saw him in a different light. It might help if you tell them the positive things you see in him.
If you don't tell them, when they do eventually find out (which I am sure they will), they will be very hurt that you did not trust them and will be much less likely to ever give this guy a shot.
Good luck.
2007-02-18 23:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by David H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you put out if you were dating for a week? How stupid. Tell Daniel and Matt or they'll find out on their own and hate you.
2007-02-18 23:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are good friends, then they will be happy for you that you found someone you like. You don't have to tell them all the details of your relationship, some things are better kept between you and your boyfriend.
2007-02-18 23:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Panda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
word of advice from well from me...Don't do drama in your life. Tell your friends your dating him and you want to see where it goes. Let them make their choices. And you slept with him after a week?
2007-02-18 23:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by girl_in_vernon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most People spend there whole time on this earth and never know who they are ar anyone else to thy own self be true if all else fails lie.
2007-02-18 23:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by matthew m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break it to them easy. They might be hurt that you like the boy, but they should understand how you feel about the other guy.
2007-02-18 23:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by lilbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spit it out. Just say "I slept with (fill in the blank) and we're going out" let them react however they will
2007-02-18 23:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's right we did.
2007-02-18 23:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward.. its your life...
2007-02-18 23:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by life!?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋