Singles & Dating - 8 February 2007

How many of you men would leave a long term girlfriend (no kids) that you lived with if you genuinely fell in love with someone else? Say this new girl was everything you ever dreamed of and felt the same way. You thought she was your soulmate? Would your feelings win out or what?

2007-02-08 04:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by Michele 3

I met this girl...I know we love eachother, but I was too worried to go and meet her because we met on the net and I was worried about peoples opinions. She said today that she's fed up and that it's done now, forget about it. I know what we have is special, this isn't some flash in the pan, no one effects me like she does...and she's told me the same. She's too amazing to let go...should I bite the bullet...travel to see her and just ask if she wants to meet? I just can't handle all the problems I've created anymore, this is too good a thing to let go.....

2007-02-08 04:02:03 · 13 answers · asked by CJ 1

to go on vacation with me....I broke up with him a month or two ago just things werent there anymore. We didnt break up in bad terms. Do you think i should ask him to go and oh ya he has a new gf now...

2007-02-08 04:02:01 · 12 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3

iv bin with my partner for only 2 months, we get on brilliantly n with us it was love at first site!! hes everything iv ever dreamed of n he says the same, he says that he has never bin with anyone remotely like me n loves me with everything hes got. im in a bit of a perdicamont, i wouldnt want to move in with anyone untill wev bin together at least 1yr, but iv recently bin evicted and dont have a permenant place to live, should i ask him if i could move in with him? im confused n need help! wat do i do n wat do i say??

2007-02-08 04:01:27 · 30 answers · asked by katluvsu4eva2004 2

what do u do when a girl needs a friend? because she needs some one to love on. that girl is me help.

2007-02-08 04:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by Baby girl 101 2

I have been with together with boyfriend for more than a year now. (1 year, 3 mos to be exact) On the 1st date, we did the deed -- in a motel. I asked him what it was all about (it was my first time to do it with someone i am not together with.. 2nd person i ever slept with), he told that it is a relationship. After a week, 2nd date again ended up in a motel. (Note that he does not live alone during this time) He sent me text messages within the week before our 2nd date. He told me he loves me a month after.
At present, he has met my family (I only met his dad). He has spent 2 new years eve with my family. We have gone through a lot. He tells me he loves everyday. (sex is part of our relationship --mostly everytime we see each other)

Is he for real? Is it really possible to find love even if you had sex on the first date? Are there any exceptions? I need your opinion on this.
(the guy is 10 yrs older)
(we've been friends for 4 years before we started dating)

2007-02-08 04:01:18 · 10 answers · asked by mikie c 1

example: he's hungry and little bit stressed. We meet up for a dinner in a pub and he says his flatmate is coming. I object in a cute way that i wanted him for myself for couple of hours. He snaps at me that what's a big deal and Tom needs to eat too.

I end up playing a peacemaker and he says let's forget about it . yet I am really bothered by him dealing with problems like that ... It is like he wants to scare me so he doesn't have to deal with it.

what would you do to make a statement that this behaviour bother me.- constructively so gets the point... he just says he found it annoying .....and that he doesn't do so often...

2007-02-08 04:00:54 · 13 answers · asked by petr 1

I'm friends with a guy, though we're not that cloase and I fancy him. His best friends know but I've sworn them to secrecy. Apparently he's really inexperienced at relationships and according to them- if I tell him I like him, I'll scare him off. But in my opinion if I wait too long he might find someone else.
Everyone Iv'e told says we'd be great together but it's not their opinion that counts, it's his.
Any ideas on what I could do? Perhaps a way to catch his eye? I dn't know, thats why I'm asking! Thanks for your help!

2007-02-08 04:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by Moi? 3

2007-02-08 03:59:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and i have been together for 2 years now and September of this year will make 3. We spend a lot of time together and never seem to get tired of each others company. But lately i've noticed him looking at other girls out of the corner of his eye. He has naturally sneaky eyes since they are so little and i've always thought that he looks at everyone like that but i find it weird that im just now seeing this. Is it just that since im pregnant im craving more attention and making wrongful accusations out of my own selfishness? Or could there be something going on? I know that he loves me probably more than i love him but you never know... please help.

2007-02-08 03:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Poison berry 1

2007-02-08 03:58:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

now or after she takes me away for the weekend on her boat?
She has reserved it from her father and it has a crew of 8 that will cater to our every need...so should I just gut it out and let her pamper me?

2007-02-08 03:55:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do we live our lives ?

I think we were born to be happy , to enjoy the mystery of being.

No scientific theory can explain why we are happy at certain moment .

The core of happiness I think its mystery.

Somebody says I dont know why I am happy and when I am happy I feel sad, interesting!

I want really to know what was your happiest unforgettable moment in your life? true honest answers I WANT TO HEAR.

2007-02-08 03:54:46 · 5 answers · asked by earthlove 2

I just realized this, 30 minutes ago, when I got too nervous to go up to a women in the streets of LA, before I got to work. She was so beautiful, but I was so nervous to approach her because I'm a stranger, and I didn't know what to say. I realized the key...and here it is:
Step 1: Glance at her with a smile on your face, and then look away.
Step 2: Ask a VERY RELEVANT question to the SETTING you are in. Example: see a HOT woman at a book store? Ask her "so, whatcha reading?". In the busy sidewalks of LA? So, what kind of work are you in?
Step 3: Ask her for her name. This is a personal thing, but not TOO personal. Now that you know her name, she can't just walk away.
Step 4: NUMB your mind to any type of rejection embarassment, etc. Use the 3 second rule (don't over think for more than 3 seconds), and then
Step 5: Ask her for lunch. Say: I have to get going pretty soon, but, I was wondering...you seem like a really sweet woman...wanna grab lunch sometime?

COMMENTS???

2007-02-08 03:54:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

does ne1 know wat i can do to "finish" quicker? my boyfriend does everything he can...we've done everything you can think of and i still can't finish...ive only finished one time since we've ever done stuff...ne1 know anything?

2007-02-08 03:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by ƪ♥ᴀᴀᴙᴓɳ 3

Ladies, I believe the "friend zone" is a womans excuse to not hurt a mans feelings. I think that if a woman is friends with a man and finds him attractive she would go out with him foresure. But woman say "i just want to be friends" or "I dont want to ruin the friendship" because they don't find the male friend sexually attractive. I have had 2 girlfriends that where my friends first. Is this true ladies, is the friend zone just an easy excuse to not hurt a man's pride?? Cause why wouldn't you want to be with a man that you are good friends with?? Thanks!

2007-02-08 03:53:06 · 17 answers · asked by johnnynumbers 1

So what do i do im really going to try to get over my ex even thou i really like him still. Butg his friend is also one of my good friends that ive known forever and he tells me that he likes me but he will give me space to get over my ex. I really appreciate that he will give me room but he says that he would wait as long as it took, so do i give this guy a chance even tou im not over my ex and i dont know if it would work??????

2007-02-08 03:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this guy for about a month. We've gone on dates dates and we've spent the night together a few times. When we are together things are good and I feel like we have a connection but then we go days sometimes almost a week w/o any communication. Last night I sent him an email jokingly asking if he was dead since I hadn't heard from him in about 3 days. He sent me a message back telling me all the things that were keeping him so busy and now I feel kinda bad. We aren't officially a couple so maybe I'm asking for too much. We both have busy schedules but I feel like its not too much for him to send me a quick text message or an email when we can't see each other. What should I do?

2007-02-08 03:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this woman that works as a bar manager in my local pub... she seems to try and talk to me alot, she has even gave me a lift home the other night, and thats odd because she hasnt done that for any1 else.... im probably imagining things,but i think she may be attracted to me... how do i impress a woman!

2007-02-08 03:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Dan W 2

2007-02-08 03:51:14 · 10 answers · asked by imacutie2 2

i've been seeing this guy for a while now i know he likes me but on what level i'm not too certain he hasn't had a girlfriend in a while, but he was "dating" women. i obviously like him, i would like us to be together but i'm not sure of how to aproach him. what the best way???

2007-02-08 03:50:48 · 6 answers · asked by foxxylove20 1

Very funny, this morning. Anyways...Do you really think that its okay for the person that you sleep with, to have no feelings? If you LIE and tell them things to get them to sleep with you thats wrong...practice what you preach.
Then when you knock me up and I'm carrying our baby, I should for sure then have no feelings, thats just sad. Goodbye, Im done.

2007-02-08 03:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by Ashy B 1

What should I do?? Too much pressure..? Can I say no, and he'l change his mind??

also: everyone thinks he's weird, but my friends think he's cute.

2007-02-08 03:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by ursoolastsumer 2

I see this Guy twice a Week on Mondays and Wednesdays and we Just reciently started Chatting and Exchanged phone #'s a week or 2 ago, Anyways we were Chatting yesturday and I was flirting with Him and I Know he was flirting back because he Kept Grinning and He "Claims" he's a Shy guy and He is also Muslim, he's White...Anyway I called him last night before he went in to Work cause I said I call him, and He was like "I Love the attention, but I don't want you to think Im Leading you on" So I was like okay, and He also implied that What he wants to Do Will Good, But he knows that It won't be Good, and I Guess he said that because of His religion becuz Muslim's Can't date, eat meat, etc of Strict Rules. So anyway, he asked me if I cooked, etc making small talk and The conversation threw me Off a little Because ever since he Said that, Im probably going to Play myself again and Waste my Time, So what's the Deal with this Guy??? Advice, anybody?

2007-02-08 03:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2

i have been pestering by this girl .I hope i can tell her straight to the point i don't like her not that kinda of love relationship. However i can't say that .please help ? She is my colleague and i don't want other people saying i hurt her feeling.
please help /

2007-02-08 03:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2

Ok to start with I have decided not to seriously date anyone for a while because of the traveling my job requiers me to do. Well this worked fine for the first 6 months, i could flirt, date, and pretty much have the time of my life with no strings attached. Well I met this guy and everything was going good for a while neither of us wanted a relationship so we were both just having fun. Now I am begining to feel more and more attached and I even feel jelouse when i know he's out with other women. He has dropped hints that he wants to be more than just friends too, but now he is blowing hot and cold, one day he cant stand to be away from me and then I dont hear from him for 3 days. What should i do?

2007-02-08 03:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Pirate 3

Really what is this about? I mean I have going through this dilemma with a 28 year old guy for about 7 months! We clicked RIGHT from the start on both parts, had a great laugh and were both stimulating mentally and pysically. We started off as friends and then realised how much we liked each other. But this guy kept saying he really really liked me but wasn't in the frame of mind any kind of commitment right now! I mean he liked me this much that even when I was on holiday he was calling me etc as he missed me.. Numerous times I decided to move on, and he obviously was connected to me to keep coming back and to tell me how much he misses my company and someone to liaise with. So why is it that they would risk loosing you, all because they don't want to settle down right now?? He said to me "if I was looking for something, you would be the one, but i'm not in the frame of mind for anything serious it's my loss"". why do they let go of a good thing just to keep thier options OPEN?

2007-02-08 03:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night i called my b/f (we've been 2gether 4 7 yrs) he didn't answer so i checked his voice mail (he didn't know i had the password) there was a girl saying she was looking forward to see him next week(he's been working out of town) and that she loved him and that she'll send him some pictures. I called the girl, she swore they were just friends and that she tells all her friends she loves them. She claims they had not been intimate and she'll stop speaking 2 him. When i confronted him he was upset at me for checking his voice mail. What do you guys think? Is there something going on? please help... thanks!

2007-02-08 03:44:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all ....... I really like a girl I have been working with recently. She's great fun, beautiful, funny, just about everything I could want in a girl.

Anyway, I've let her know how much I like her and she knows I do ....... the problem is, everytime I mention it she goes off thesubject ..... I've heard her tell someone she doesn't want to spoil 'what we've got' ..... is that just a polite brush off?

Have you ever been in a situation like this and if so, what was the outcome?

I'm not the 'shy' type and have never had any problem approaching women but this time I really don't know what to do!

Can someone please help? What should I do / say?

Thank you in advance!

2007-02-08 03:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by JCA P 1

its valentines day next week and my boyfriend is going on holiday tomorrow and wont be home till after valentines day, i want to send him with something that'l make him smile on valentines day but is easy to pack. any ideas?

2007-02-08 03:44:39 · 8 answers · asked by laurer 2