Ok to start with I have decided not to seriously date anyone for a while because of the traveling my job requiers me to do. Well this worked fine for the first 6 months, i could flirt, date, and pretty much have the time of my life with no strings attached. Well I met this guy and everything was going good for a while neither of us wanted a relationship so we were both just having fun. Now I am begining to feel more and more attached and I even feel jelouse when i know he's out with other women. He has dropped hints that he wants to be more than just friends too, but now he is blowing hot and cold, one day he cant stand to be away from me and then I dont hear from him for 3 days. What should i do?
2007-02-08 03:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Pirate 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him about it. see if he does want to be more than friends. and if he doesnt...enjoy the no strings attached scenario.
or maybe he is talking to or going out with these other women to drive you crazy, so you ask him to be exclusive.
either way...you are going to have to talk about it.
2007-02-08 03:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, when my job was 100% travel, I got so tired of self-inflicted heartbreak, that I stopped dating... for 7 years! Then I got myself into a position that didn't require traveling.
Then I met somebody, and boy was I rusty, and managed a different kind of self-inflicted hurt by not kicking that one to the curb sooner.
Ahhh.. life can be full of twists and turns and unexpected challenges. But... if you go with it, it's all enriching.
2007-02-08 11:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should sit down and talk to him. Since you started out both knowing that it was nothing serious you need to let him know you are considering changing your mind. He might want it to be mutually exclusive and welcome the idea. You'll never know until you talk to him rather than strangers on the net.
2007-02-08 11:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u really feel **** your job if u want to be with him a job shouldnt stop you but the question is are you looking for love?
2007-02-08 11:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by native_pride_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u shd try and draw him closer to u but do it carefully .... cuz it may be he goes away for a time so u'll miss him and yr hunger for him increases
2007-02-08 11:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by curious89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him--U both need to be honest about where you want this relationship to go.....good luck
2007-02-08 11:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both trying to defy the laws of being HUMAN because of your schedule..
2007-02-08 11:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is giving you space to think about it,I have done the same thing..
2007-02-08 11:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the only thing you can do....talk to him and tell him how you feel. there is no other advice hun. good luck!
2007-02-08 11:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it out
2007-02-08 12:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋