last night i called my b/f (we've been 2gether 4 7 yrs) he didn't answer so i checked his voice mail (he didn't know i had the password) there was a girl saying she was looking forward to see him next week(he's been working out of town) and that she loved him and that she'll send him some pictures. I called the girl, she swore they were just friends and that she tells all her friends she loves them. She claims they had not been intimate and she'll stop speaking 2 him. When i confronted him he was upset at me for checking his voice mail. What do you guys think? Is there something going on? please help... thanks!
2007-02-08 03:44:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously there is. I would get rid of him. If he is so freaked out by you ckn the voicemail there is something wrong. He wouldnt freak unless there was nothing to hide. Get rid of him
2007-02-08 03:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already have been down this road with him before. Or you would not be checking his s**t! He's a player. PERIOD. And if ultimately you are not going to leave him why bring it up. Stop being nosy and let him do what he wants to do because he's just going to become more slick trying to keep you out of his business. Changing his code every 2 days and stuff like that. So just lay low and be cool...and let him hang himself with all the rope you're going to give him. Ok?
2007-02-08 12:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by louloutee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-08 11:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to cover for each other. I think there might be some hanky panky going on here,.
No one leaves that kind of message to a friend or a stranger....take off your blinders....
He is messin behind your back and now you know.
Decide what you need to do for you to make you happy, never mind him.
If it is leaving then do it.
remember once a cheater always a cheater....
You won't forgive him or believe him... kind of at a turning point in your life.
Do not wait for him to make the decision, it should be yours.
it is your conscience that you have to live with.
Ask yourself do you want to be with someone who wants someone else????
A one sided relationship... don't you deserve better???????
2007-02-08 11:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you two have been together for that long, than you should be able to trust him without a doubt that anything is going on behind your back. Yeah, I myself say Love ya to my friends, but not my guy friends, just my boyfriend. So I think that something is definitely going on here. You should dump him before it turns into something worse than it already is.
2007-02-08 11:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is cheating...and as for advice the only thing i can say is leave him. But if i had been with my man for that long and he was cheating it would be much easier to hear that advice than to actually DO it. All i can say is just ask him calmly if hes cheating and say he'll only make it worse if he lies about it.
2007-02-08 11:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by michakitty87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but he's running around on you.
Put HIM on the spot and then dump his ****...
I know, I've cheated myself.
By the way, nice guts in calling the tramp too!
That's impressive!
2007-02-08 11:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your just to worried he is allowed to have friends?
you should trust him ask him if you can meet her so you two can be friends then you will for sure find out the truth one way or the other .if he says no then you have your answer.
2007-02-08 11:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by katana b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd have to be dumber than a bucket of rocks to believe what that girl said. OF COURSE SOMETHING IS GOING ON! Don't be stupid. And he's upset, because he got busted! He who has nothing to hide, hides nothing.
2007-02-08 11:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm duh! i mean come on - what does he have to do cheat in the same room as you - to figure it out ? it sounds pretty obvious hes doing SOMETHING wrong! after 7 years - im sorry to say but hes probally bored. What you should have done - is right after hearing the message - go up to him and say " I KNOW EVERYTHING" ( trick him ) " I HEARD THE MESSAGES " bla bla and see if he spill! ... i did this - and it worked!
be smart girl!
2007-02-08 11:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋