How many of you men would leave a long term girlfriend (no kids) that you lived with if you genuinely fell in love with someone else? Say this new girl was everything you ever dreamed of and felt the same way. You thought she was your soulmate? Would your feelings win out or what?
2007-02-08 04:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will keep the relationship, but try out the new one before I make decision
2007-02-08 04:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by kol long 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did for my lady, who's now my ex, careers!!!
I was madly in love with a girl, were together for four years then this girl came into my life, who is my soulmate, totally my opposite number in life an it was no contest, even though I was in love with my partner I couldn't escape the level of understanding and connection that I have with this girl.
Its absolutely crazy, I was so committed to the girl I was with, it hurt like hell giving that up, but when you know you know.
2007-02-08 12:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very difficult. It all depends on how your feeling are about your present partner. You can't help how your feelings go but if I was in a very strong relationship then it would take someone very very special to prize me away from them. And cheating and seeing both at the same time is never an option with me. No way.
2007-02-08 12:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave because i would only end up hating my long term girlfriend and if you had falling in love with another girl then the relationship between LTG and myself would be over anyway.
2007-02-08 12:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by michael c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If I felt so little for my current girlfriend then there wouldn't be much point in continuing and making myself and her unhappy. If I was married or had children then I would start counselling rather than destroy my marriage with an affair.
2007-02-08 12:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were unhappy with the long term girlfriend and think that this other girl is the one.I would say go for it.If it didn't work out with the other girl.Then you know you were meant to be with the long term girlfriend.Good luck.
2007-02-08 12:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me....I've been there. It seems awesome at fisrt but then you realize what you have and don;t want to throw it all away....but hey thats just me....good luck with your situation
2007-02-08 12:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like to take that risk you know (lol). Cheers!
2007-02-08 12:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - It'd be to much of a risk
2007-02-08 12:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words..............see ya
2007-02-08 12:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋