Singles & Dating - 11 January 2007

my boyfriend is really sweet, but sometimes he has no tact! Some of the things he says are just inappropriate I think.

For example, he calls me "his little stinker" and will comment on how "messy" i get after intercourse. (all in ref. to my lady)

he says other things, like "wow, what did you have for lunch?" right after he kisses me

he said once my butt looked like cottage cheese (I am a size 6 and in EXCELLANT physical shape)

Also, when I tell him that I love him, instead of saying "i love you too" he says "are you sure?" or "no you dont"

I dont get it.

then he complains I dont give him enough love, but HOW am I supposed to when i am starting to have a complex and not feel SEXY after he says sh1t like that???

How can I get him to stop and realize waht he is saying is rude?

2007-01-11 05:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him and I want to meet his needs. I try my best. He hardly meets mine though. He says it is because he is not used to a woman who wants the attention. How patient should I be with him. I want and need attention too. This is not a big enough problem to break up but it does leave me feeling alone a lot.

2007-01-11 05:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by just me 2

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk?
She is never on her own, always with her friend, and I get shy easy! What made me change my mind was at first I though she was rude and saying I was shy, would make fun off me, but now I see she is not like that! Also I think she might be going out with another person now, because there was a note saying "(Her name) & Alan forever and ever", but I think her mates did it as a joke! HELP!

2007-01-11 05:44:26 · 3 answers · asked by matthew 1

O.K. a guy walked in on me in the change room in my bra and panties. Is it ok to sneak in his locker room while he is playing hockey and take a picture of him in the shower????? LOL What should I do he can't stop smiling at me now!!!! ;)

2007-01-11 05:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

We just started hanging out again, and some of the things she is saying is leading me to believe she wants to get back together with me. The second she got in my car her first words were "damn you still look good". She mentioned that she almost gave me a booty call about a week ago. Said a few times how much she missed hanging out with me, and has called me once a day for a week now. Any second opinions?

2007-01-11 05:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was datin this guy for 4 months but we didnt talk for 2 months (he had good reasons) and every night i would cry myself to sleep cuz i missed him i even thought bout stabbing my heart so i had no more feelings for him so one day i got mad and dumped him i didnt want to but it was that or me dead then a week later his best friend asked me out and i said yes then 2 days later my x calls and said he was mad at me and i started cryin sayin that i loved him and i missed him and almost killed myself for him and he was mad at me i said im not gonna break up wit your friend cuz u reappear in my life thats not how it works should i apologize to him or what please help me

2007-01-11 05:40:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i could see how a man would easily shave his junk but a woman cant see all that jazz so how and what is the best way to satisfy him? personally i dnot like it but w/e

2007-01-11 05:40:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl was willing to do anything in bed to please you, would you dance for her in a thong if that is what she wanted you to do for her? And knowing you can't dance and she would probably laugh at you? But still think you were sexy anyway.

2007-01-11 05:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

met a man at crab festival in 2005 july 1 was fairytale story love and it lasted one year but abruptly stopped from his massive heart attack which turned me upsidedown inside out and with no possessions to my name no home no car nothing ive been going downhill since no income dont know how im surviving but managing living on the street but now in hospital but released today been feeling depressed forever got a message from him he said ( its ok...) which tells me to let go so i am trying last night i wished apon a star and today the sun rose nicely and its a beautiful day i feel alright hes been gone since june 5 2006 i know itll take time but i finally see the sunshine last night i saw the most beautiful snow fall ever which made me smile and say thankyou to Alvin whom i lost who is still there for me and always will i have loved and been loved so much and im greatful for him to have shown me this love and now i must start my life over prettygitsan@yahoo.com cheryl please answer....

2007-01-11 05:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by prettygitsan 1

we were watching t.v. and his phone goes off. he picks it up and reads a text and then starts to reply. i can totally see that he is talkin to his ex girlfriend. she is in town for the weekend. they dated for a really long time. im guessing about 2 years. and about 8 months later me and him found each other. we have been together for about 9 months now. do you think it means anything that she is trying to come around? or is this just an old relationship that needs closure? he never tried to hide from me that it was her, and didnt get defensive when i asked about it. what is going on?

2007-01-11 05:38:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd say between 28 and 35, but I'd like other opinions.

2007-01-11 05:37:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 05:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by fabulous 2

Whould you date a person short or the same hight as you? or do you just date guys taller then you?

2007-01-11 05:36:49 · 26 answers · asked by Rai F 1

2007-01-11 05:36:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm excited because it's a new year, which means a new outlook on things. How can I reinvent myself and become a better person? I'm looking to become more confident, more social, and take out more time for myself. I really need some help guys, I'd really like to transform myself this year. Please help.

2007-01-11 05:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Spirit♥ 3

Pretending not to like a guy but you're really like him inside? To all the girls out there have you every done something like this to a guy and you know the guy is single and if so why did you do it. and did you ever get over it and follow you feelings.

2007-01-11 05:34:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im dating this guy that lives in a different state. I havent even met him. But the girl who hooked us up said thats he is really cool. He and i talk on the phone every night but im starting to think he dont like me anymore. We have been together for almost 2 months. I really like him What should I do?

2007-01-11 05:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by Little Scared 1

I've been out of the dating scene for quite a while and was wondering what I should do. We are going on a double date, movies and dinner, so should we go Dutch or he pay for one and I the other or what? I just want to know what I should expect.

2007-01-11 05:32:15 · 24 answers · asked by motleycfan 3

2007-01-11 05:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a crush on him.

2007-01-11 05:31:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

been with him for three years. the relationship i thought had its ups and downs and we've fought and threatened to break up before but we always patched things up and made up. but today he was very adamant about the break up. i feel so depressed that i don't know what to do. and i can't believe that it is actually happening. i'm in so much pain and i don't know what to do because i don't want us to break up.

2007-01-11 05:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

after being with a man or woman???? ;)

Two easy points for you! :)

2007-01-11 05:29:57 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4

i am 17 he is 24. i have known this guy for over 7 mo., he is a family friend i have always had a crush on him, but never thought anything would escalate from there. And now i have found out he has adored me ever since we've met. Could we actually have a relationship?

2007-01-11 05:29:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

she says that he is on drugs and that they haven't talked in about three days but i dont know if i should ask her out. i need help.

2007-01-11 05:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend more than n-e thing and the otherday I cheated on him. He got amad and he was hitting my and dragged me down the stair s am I still stupid for wanting to be with him? Am I stupid still looving him?

2007-01-11 05:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by I love him............ 1

not from a dating sense but just being curious. I truly look like a different guy. was 270 now 220 at 6'3" with 15 more to go. I've done a lot of it through cardio so I am getting fit too. I think she knows I've been on this program and I've been thinking by this time she would have made it a point to check in....but really nothing. I have not done this for her, but for my health. I know it's not all about me so please no comments like that. I know inside is more important blah blah...lol. but still, physically she'd be dating a different guy. isn't that at lest a LITTLE compelling? Why did she dump me? as George Straint croons..."I didn't tell her, each day I loved her. I took her for granted" Too damn busy with work and all that stuff. I used to tell her that before she met me I was an in-shape guy. now I can show her but if she doesn't care....why bother? please no "move on dude" comments. 2 months have passed since the send off, and she hasn't seen me in 4 mos.

2007-01-11 05:27:27 · 6 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2

My girlfriend and I a going on a trip next month to Las Vegas. It will be the first trip we've been on since we've been reunited after a break up. We plan on getting a room together and restarting our sex life again. She mentioned to me last night that the time that we have planned to go to Vegas falls at a time when she will most likely will be on her cycle. I told her that I don't have sex with a woman when she's on her cycle because I think is nasty and messy. I don't see why a person can't wait until that time has passed. She went on to say that she use to date a guy that had no problem with digging right the blood. She thinks I'm too much of a clean, soft guy. What do you people out there think of having sex during a ladies menstrual cycle? Am I to soft by not liking to do it during that time?

2007-01-11 05:27:17 · 63 answers · asked by Northstarr 1

So many of you told me to check out dating sites. well I went to the one most suggested, eharmony.com. I sat there and took this huge test and in the end the damn thing tells me that it can't find a girl for me. That my personality was not a fit for the site. It said I belong to a small group of the Population that matching sites don't work for.WTF. What do i do now girls.?what does this mean? Help me get a date

2007-01-11 05:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by The Brown Bomber 2

ok well me and my ex just had our 100yr aniversery like a month ago but he told me he didnt feel the same about me anymore and we have always split up but would always work it out and i told him the next time he broke it off we were threw so he did it and then he told me he didnt get that vibe anymore so we havent talked for about 3weeks then about a week ago me and a old friend that i used to have feelings for got together and i love him alot but last night my ex called and told me he missed me and couldnt stop thinking about me i still have feelings for him but im hapy with who i am with now so what should i do??? thanks

2007-01-11 05:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by ec_card_10 1

What are you all hoping to find in life. . .in love. . .in another person?

What are you searching for?

HONESTLY.

Fory

2007-01-11 05:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3