ok well me and my ex just had our 100yr aniversery like a month ago but he told me he didnt feel the same about me anymore and we have always split up but would always work it out and i told him the next time he broke it off we were threw so he did it and then he told me he didnt get that vibe anymore so we havent talked for about 3weeks then about a week ago me and a old friend that i used to have feelings for got together and i love him alot but last night my ex called and told me he missed me and couldnt stop thinking about me i still have feelings for him but im hapy with who i am with now so what should i do??? thanks
2007-01-11 05:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by ec_card_10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the one to make the final decision. But if I were in your shoes, I would keep going with the one you have now. You have moved on, and it sounds like in the right direction. Don't look back, remain friends with your ex, don't go 1 step forward, and 2 steps back. You will be much happier in the near future..................Tell your ex, to go find another future ex.
2007-01-11 05:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's never a good idea to be someone else after separating because many times people just need space. So, you kinda jumped the gun being with someone else and now you have a problem.
It's your problem and you will have to make a decision now. Not only make a decision, but if you go back to your husband, you will have to deal with his issues of you being with someone else. If you don't go back, you have to deal with your feelings for your husband.
That is why, you never move on until there are chances of reconciliation.
2007-01-11 13:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, what makes you happy. Do you enjoy the old boyfriend's 'drama' too much to leave him and make a clean break and start over with someone else? OR...do you want the old boyfriend back? Seems you guys have a revolving door on the relationship that is stressful. Maybe, it's time to move on OR maybe not.
Only you know the answer, what's the rush? Take your time, put them both on friendship status until you make up your mind. To thine self be true...(yadda, yadda, yadda)
2007-01-11 13:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by TygerLily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if he really likes u thats why he came back . who do u like more ex or present . choose quickly
2007-01-11 13:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by soni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one you love more and you feel better with.
2007-01-11 13:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by TimTim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him too bad. If you take him back he will just do it again
2007-01-11 13:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by mattdrew2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh stay with the new guy start something new we need change everyone does you will be ok if you do that but dont lead anyone on and stay true to your words
2007-01-11 13:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~It's Me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋