i was datin this guy for 4 months but we didnt talk for 2 months (he had good reasons) and every night i would cry myself to sleep cuz i missed him i even thought bout stabbing my heart so i had no more feelings for him so one day i got mad and dumped him i didnt want to but it was that or me dead then a week later his best friend asked me out and i said yes then 2 days later my x calls and said he was mad at me and i started cryin sayin that i loved him and i missed him and almost killed myself for him and he was mad at me i said im not gonna break up wit your friend cuz u reappear in my life thats not how it works should i apologize to him or what please help me
2007-01-11 05:40:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Woah that was a lot of drama built up in that paragraph. Well, you have to live with your decisions, not somebody else. Sure, they have to accept your no or yes and move on, but the heart of the matter lies in your hands. Your love is yours to give, and no one can take it from you. Do what you think is best.
2007-01-11 05:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've know this guy for 4 mths and don't talk 4 two of those months that's not love. I don't know what 2 call it but you need counseling if u thought of killing urself 4 this guy. "Love" shouldn't make u want 2 hurt urself. Maybe ther's something else going on.
Why apologize u guys are broken up. But ther is some kind of dating rule where you don't date ur x's friends. Isn't there?
2007-01-11 13:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off if you were dating him for four months and two of them months he never talked to you i would just laugh at it because obviously he didn't take the time to call to say anything it only takes 5 minutes out of someones day to call and say hello.and now you are dating his Friend and he just pops back in you're life move on because in the end it will be you who will be hurt more than him he obviously has problems he dint want to let you go but yet dint want you to be with ant one else do what you must do but the end choice is the one you must live with
2007-01-11 13:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by mejoint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to see a counselor about that killing yourself thing, but you were wrong you just up and broke up with him, you never explained the situation to him and you never tried to make it work and on top of that you started going out with his bestfriend after hurting his feelings how low can you get, i say break up with his friend and beg him to take you back. if you love him like you say you do you owe him that much and you know in your heart that you want to be with him.
2007-01-11 13:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill yourself. For lack of education, on that long *** sentence that never ended. Kill yourself for crying over a man that you don't know. Kill yourself for breaking rule number one, when your having problems with your man. (Don't sleep or date you current or ex boyfriend friend or family memeber.) And kill yourself for trying to stab your heart out. My advise Kill your mother ******* self. The best answer ever.
2007-01-11 13:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by divalicious_ kill_ yourself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should cuz he has good reasons right? You should not jump to conclusions, be patient and don't do rash things... Don't these kinds of things if you don't wanna lose somebody in your life...
2007-01-11 13:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you are saying. This is the longest sentence I have ever seen. You need therapy.
2007-01-11 13:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date me instead
2007-01-11 14:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by The Heartbreaker. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but that question just got too long to finish.
2007-01-11 13:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person you should be talking to is a therapist. Soon.
2007-01-11 13:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋