Singles & Dating - 11 January 2007

okay theres a girl i like but my friend likes her too. the girl is about to break up wit her bf and i want to ask her out so badly but so does my friend. he said he'll be mad if i ask her out but i've liked her for like forever. what should i do?

2007-01-11 05:03:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really want to start dating girls and thinking about marriage but the problem is that I'm not a good looking guy,I have no self-esteem and afraid of making eye contact(especially with girls).
Honestly,I don't think that I can love myself maybe until I become a doctor,rich and have a great plastic surgery.

2007-01-11 04:59:00 · 11 answers · asked by James 2

we talked alot and he is caring and gentle, but he seems enjoy to get me cry alot. and since i have feeling for him then he start to give the cold shoulder.
this is what in his text massege: yeah, we are going to have a wonderful time, we are going to laugh and we are going to cry.
then when i was with him, he did nothing and i just don't get it.

2007-01-11 04:57:34 · 20 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3

2007-01-11 04:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl a.k.a hoe, that has been stalking my boyfriend and im tring to be nice but she is pushing me to the limit.she pops up at his home,job,church,every where! she even followed him to my house one day! she wont get a life.should i just beat sum sense in her or what????

2007-01-11 04:56:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was talking to a lady all night at a club, and she asked to come home with me, i slept with her and after we'd finished she asked for money.. what would u have done/?

2007-01-11 04:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

would they, Now Im asking the guys. If you could go naked

with out getting arrested would you? At the beach and pool yes. any place else no, maybe

2007-01-11 04:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by lets talk 1

Never kissed, not one girlfriend, 1 bad date, 3 stood up dates, socially inadequate, not fat, skinny, nor muscular, don't smoke, employed, average male height between 5' to 6', good hygine, dislike rap, pop, opera music, attracted to women under 140 lbs that don't smoke or do drugs, non-religious, employed, non-greedy, non-racist, non-neak freak, good hygine, not afraid what others think about her when with me, open minded, not bossy, speaks English well, and not involved in sex trade, so much more....

2007-01-11 04:52:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 04:52:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think, or in your case, that if a man was in love with the women he got pregnant, that he would want her to have an abortion? Keep in mind that the person I speak of (my boyfriend) has 2 children already. (of course so do I) not his. He knows how I feel about abortion, we discussed it a few months ago before I eneded up pregnant. He knows I would not be able to live with myself and probably be totally crazy after. And he also knows that I lost a baby boy @ 15 weeks of pregnancy 5 years ago. And this time I was on the pill and due to some female conditions I was told I may not even be able to get pregnant, yet I did. Almost like "someone" made that decision for us, ya know? I sometimes feel like he just doesnt love me and never had any intentions of loving me.

2007-01-11 04:51:33 · 16 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4

My mother lives with me and has been for a couple of months now. I am planning on moving near my BF soon, we are in a long distance relationship and want to be closer. My mom is going to come with me and stay with me. When I was speaking to my BF the other day about the move he said he would like if we move in together but he does not know about living with myself, my child and my mother. My mom is able to work (which she does)am not , but I kinda understand that he would like to have our own space. What should I do. I dont want to kick my mom out, but I do eventually want to live with my BF and start our life.

2007-01-11 04:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by ny_girl11229 1

Is it really possible to get over shyness? Has anyone done anything that works? I'm over 40yrs old not bad looking most of my girlfriends have been 10-15 years younger but they've always been the one's that aproch me , how can I get the nerve to approch a women that I find attractive.

2007-01-11 04:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anthony R 1

She will go along with answers from this site. Your opinions?

2007-01-11 04:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by bigjohn B 7

ok I need some help. Me and my boyfriend was sitting down talking last night watching a movie, We started asking eachother questions about personal lives so we can know more about eachother, Then finally I poped the Question if " He has ever cheated before in the past " well he came straight out and said that, in the past he has cheated for another girl. but around 2 years ago, his pay-back finally came for him. He stated that he whish'es he never did it, and that he learned his lesson from it ( Which he got cheated on). He said that he didn't realize that it hurt so bad, and he would never hurt me or anyone in the future. I got upset about it because you know how girls are when they hear that stuff. But I mean i guess i have to get over it. I have to have some trust in him. I just want to know what you guys think that me beeing upset and getting over it, and him comming out and telling the truth was the right thing. I know its good he didn't lie, so just let me know what you guys thin

2007-01-11 04:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by SHORTY38 2

I meet girls and date them and then all the suden I completely lost interest.
I have never had any squishy feelings for anyone.
Sometimes I feel like I need a GF, at other times I don't really feel like I need one.
I dont' have the need to have someone constantly be around me,
but I would like to have a GF. Its like I want a GF just to know that I have someone there when I need personal female company. And I'm not talking about bedroom company here.

Is this normal or is there something wrong with me

2007-01-11 04:45:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 5 months and he went out into our local town to meet another girl rather than spending time with me! his reason is that she needed to talk to him about things...

Is this just me being insecure??

2007-01-11 04:45:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

While talking to my ex's sister today, I found myself telling her that we should get together. To which she tenatively agreed. Is this proper? I feel my frame of reference may be a little skewed in this area because my own father dated my aunt before marrying my mom. Any thoughts?

2007-01-11 04:44:57 · 17 answers · asked by brokedick13 2

A serious sex question...?
My gf weighs like 160 some. we have sex but i have to admit she's a bit heavy and its kinda hard to make her orgasme cause i cant move much and i feel she is deep!Can her being a little overweight cause her to not "feel" me much inside of her? I mean, might her having a fat "PSY" make it harder for me to penetrate?or am i just small?? Serious answers please.

2007-01-11 04:44:53 · 14 answers · asked by Esteban S 1

I tired to have sex the other day but it hurt so bad i couldnt do it could i get pregnant if my partner had a condom on entered my vagina but didnt get to the point where i would bleed since it would be my first time trying ??

2007-01-11 04:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by JoJo 1

Okay so me and this guy have a 7 year history together...we have dated, but we were also best friends. We would break up, date other people, get back together....but we always stayed friends through everything. What we had was so special...we loved each other, we could read each others minds...there was just that feeling between us you know? Like everything was perfect when we were together. We always sais that we would always be there for each other, no matter what. The last time we hung out, we had sex....and then we got into a really big fight, I tried to work things out that day, but he was drinking and being unreasonable. Well he ended up pushing me into the counter and I had a huge bruise on my stomach. Nothing like this has ever happened before...so I know he wasnt really tryin to hurt me. So I left, and I was so mad and hurt that he let me leave instead of working **** out that I sent him a letter saying to never call me or talk to me ever again. Now I miss him, what do I do???

2007-01-11 04:44:07 · 23 answers · asked by spoiledrottenchica1987 3

I visited him and i have to say i fond of him for a long time, but he just offered a cup of tea. but he seems disapointed with why i don't stay , thing was he didn't invite me stay before hand.

2007-01-11 04:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3

I'm in love with my boyfriend...but I don't wanna have sex till I'm married. He hasn't pressured me to have sex, he only does what I'm comfortable with. But how far is too far? Any advice would be helpful....

2007-01-11 04:41:29 · 42 answers · asked by XxForever&EverxX 3

So i was in class and this morning i spilled superglue on my hands and it was like in a fist ( my hand) and then the teacher called my dad she thought i did it on purpose and she thought i was trying to self harm wtf? Whats her problem? its only super glue

2007-01-11 04:41:17 · 12 answers · asked by lifereject 1

2007-01-11 04:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by Lil lady 4

My boyfriend likes this girl a lot. He used to have relations with her. They have only meet 3 times.Last time she came to stay he acted as if I wasnt there. She even sleeped in our bed! What do I do? If I say no I look like a *****. If I say Yes I have to go through it again.

2007-01-11 04:40:13 · 31 answers · asked by mandy 1

I am 24 and have had three partners. The first just liked to do it and nothing else. The second was a one nighter. The third is the man I'm with now. We have been together for four years. He can only do it for like five minutes cuz he has a problem. He is very well trained in other areas though. Anyways since I have had sex on the mind, I've been thinking about how much fun it would be to mess around with some of his very hot friends. I know this is wrong and I probably would never follow through with my evil thoughts, although it would be nice:) So what gives have I reached my sexual peak cuz I wanna do it all the time and it's always on my mind? I can't stop thinking about me and them. What gives what is my problem, what do I do?

2007-01-11 04:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by fluff_ball 2

I am a sophmore in College. My senior year of high school I liked this guy and he liked me back, but he lived a couple of hours away and I was leaving for college in a month or two. Things just never took off. My friend told me she talked to him since then and he seemed really happy when she told him I liked him and he said he thought I was beautiful and wished something had happened between us. Well I am back for a little while and saw him one night and instantly he stuck to me the whole night and kissed me and told me how sexy I was blah blah blah...I didn't hook up with him that night b/c I didn't want him to get the wrong idea about me. He asked my friend about me the next morning but I didn't hear from him until I texted him a couple days later. He suggested we get together again but hasn't kept in touch with me very well. The other night I saw him and he ended up coming back with me and we had a great night and again he kissed me..we didn't sleep together but did other stuff.

2007-01-11 04:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I met this young lady in class and I tried to go out with her and she told me she was dating some one at the time. So I stop calling her, although I still sat next to her in class. We'd talk about different things. On the last day of class I told her that I thought she was beautiful, intelligent, and laid back. Well over the christmas break I got a few text messages from her. I talked to her last week, and we just talked about everything it was great. She said she'd call back but I didn't hear anything until the other day. She texted me and said she was busy with work, family, and friends and she wasn't trying to blow me off. SO okay she knows I find her attractive, and yet she still contacts me. So does she want to keep me around has a friend? Or what? Should I try to date her again or just wait and see what happens? What should I do?

2007-01-11 04:38:48 · 3 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3

It can be about anything with anyone.....

2007-01-11 04:38:07 · 10 answers · asked by rebecca d 2

ok while me n my g/f were together she decided to send for her ex who lives in ohio to come and spend time with her..when i asked her why, she said she wanted to "put some sense in the *itches head" Also she said there was this girl who i believe was messin round with her ex and she told me that she was goin to smack the chick for introducin her ex to the wild life, like drinking and stuff..they even slept in the same bed while her ex was at her house! she said they did nothing? Then, one mornin while her ex was still at her house, i called her and she answered me in a rude manner..i got mad and told her to never call me again...was i wrong? or was i just jealous and insecure?? someone help! i still feel she cheated on me but i still cant tell for sure..im confused! she still calls me wanting to get back together..what should i do..im so confused? oh imma lesbian so u all know...

2007-01-11 04:37:25 · 15 answers · asked by bandi 2