2007-01-11 04:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make it slow and painful, that is bad for everyone. Not to sound insensitive- just use the Band Aid approach. It doesn't hurt as bad it you take it off fast. Also, for a little while you cannot remain friends. You can become friends later- just works out better, they don't feel like their being strung along.
2007-01-11 05:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by live75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break up with a girl is to have an in person conversation with her. Start by telling her all the things that attracted you to her in the first place and then all the things you discovered about her that you really liked then gently tell her that you can't see her anymore and the reasons behind your decision.
It's called letting her down easy. By building her up and making her feel good about herself it eases the pain of rejection. Just don't be tortorous about why your breaking up with her and totally contradict everything good you just said about her or you'll shoot yourself in the foot. Good Luck
2007-01-11 13:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's been wonderful, but you aren't attracted to her in that way anymore. You really appreciate her as a person, and you'd like to remain 'friends' with her...isn't that the line they pull on us?
And return her pink hair dye before you go...
2007-01-11 13:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as me being a woman, my advixe is just keep it real with her, explain to her why you are breaking up with her even if it hurts her feelings, and answer all her questions, it hurts worse when we have answers that need to be resloved remeber how it felt when your heart was broken??? good luck
2007-01-11 13:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, tell her it just is not working out. You both deserve someone who is totally delighted to be with you.
2007-01-11 13:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by bahahababe816 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By email or voicemail, drunk. the moment you do, go out and pick up someone else at a bar and get them in the sack.
2007-01-11 13:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Neo Tarantula 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In person
2007-01-11 13:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you are not wanting to continue the relationship and it is best for this to end.
2007-01-11 13:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.DaSilva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Welkom to dumpville: population: you."
"So, now you're single again, what are you going to do now ?"
2007-01-11 13:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her....but not thru phone plz....
2007-01-11 13:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋