I am 24 and have had three partners. The first just liked to do it and nothing else. The second was a one nighter. The third is the man I'm with now. We have been together for four years. He can only do it for like five minutes cuz he has a problem. He is very well trained in other areas though. Anyways since I have had sex on the mind, I've been thinking about how much fun it would be to mess around with some of his very hot friends. I know this is wrong and I probably would never follow through with my evil thoughts, although it would be nice:) So what gives have I reached my sexual peak cuz I wanna do it all the time and it's always on my mind? I can't stop thinking about me and them. What gives what is my problem, what do I do?
2007-01-11 04:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by fluff_ball 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur fantasizing about other men, thats ok..its ur own thoughts. but if u want to do sumthing about those thoughts, then do it with ur man. but if he cant do it for longer than 5mins, tell him he's not satisfying you...and that you want more from ur sex life than a 5-minute play..u have to be open...its ur relationship...
2007-01-11 04:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's unable to perform for longer periods, have you tried any sex toys between you two - there are some very lifelike ones that could keep the pleasure going, and he could still perform his "other areas" as well. I think you are unsatisfied with the level of sexual activity and are dreaming about another man (or men) to satisfy you. I would try some sex play, toys together...who knows (besides they're fun by yourself, too) *wink*
2007-01-11 12:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Heather Cook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur problem is ur not getting enough from ur man! simple as that! u better tell ur man to step up his game, or go to a doctor and get it fixed, or buy urself some toys, cuz if u dont then im pretty sure ur gonna come through with those "evil" thoughts u have.
2007-01-11 12:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what you call sexual FANTASY!Maybe you are not yet satisfied with your partners before and now that's why you want much more than normal.Stop looking and thinking about his very hot friends and consider the consequences of fulfilling your fantasy.
2007-01-11 12:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hormones. If you can find a man who will keep his mouth shut outside the bedroom, go ahead and explore your sexuality with him.
2007-01-11 12:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an orgy going and try it. Your only young once!!!
2007-01-11 12:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cheechy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pig
2007-01-11 12:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by V P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋