ok while me n my g/f were together she decided to send for her ex who lives in ohio to come and spend time with her..when i asked her why, she said she wanted to "put some sense in the *itches head" Also she said there was this girl who i believe was messin round with her ex and she told me that she was goin to smack the chick for introducin her ex to the wild life, like drinking and stuff..they even slept in the same bed while her ex was at her house! she said they did nothing? Then, one mornin while her ex was still at her house, i called her and she answered me in a rude manner..i got mad and told her to never call me again...was i wrong? or was i just jealous and insecure?? someone help! i still feel she cheated on me but i still cant tell for sure..im confused! she still calls me wanting to get back together..what should i do..im so confused? oh imma lesbian so u all know...
2007-01-11 04:37:25 · 15 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we can't tell you if she cheated or not because we were not there at the time. but, i feel that she did this intentionally to try and make you jealous. she knew she was wrong for what she did and that is why she keeps callin you back trying to get back together with you.
2007-01-11 04:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your girlfriend and you guys are together then why would she even try you and have an EX stay over and even sleep in the same bed. Dude you are WAY to infatuated and you are being blinded by this infatuation.
I think you need to seriously think about letting this girl go. Think about it like this. What if the shoe was on the other foot. Would she be cool with your ex girl coming and staying with you let alone sleeping in the same bed as you. Think she would be cool with that? Heck no and why should you. This is not love so i hope your not trying to even take it there. This girl knows that she has you sprung and she is using this to her advantage.
You need to think about letting her go. Because she has already disrespected you for even allowing all of this to happen. So you already know what you have to do. Just be strong and do it.
2007-01-11 12:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definately cheated and also showed no respect for your relationship to have an ex sleeping over in her bed! Don't worry about this you did the right thing, just take some time alone. There is someone better out there for you, you may not think its true right now but it is.
2007-01-11 12:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Danica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you were feeling jealous and insecure then, but let me assure you that it is not wrong to feel that way. a sudden fit of emotiom might have made you yell at her. nowthat u repent ur action, i understand that u love her deeply. Dont you, friend? at the same time i dont what it is that made her bring back her ex. Go and see her and before you two patch it up, confess to her your fear of losing her. make her understand the doubts in ur mind, but never accuse her of cheating you. because you are not sure whether she has really cheated on oyu. who knows, it may have been just another msunderstanding. All the best to u, friend
2007-01-11 12:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably did cheat. Why would she answer your call rudely, and why would she sleep in the same bed as her ex. I think you did the right thing. It sucks, but you need to find someone who doesn't want to visit with their ex, in the same-bed type sitch. Get a new g/f
2007-01-11 12:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have a talk with here and let her know that you don think that it was a good idea for here to have her ex over and that you don’t want to be with here to me it sound like she cheated on you
2007-01-11 12:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Just ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bleave that the truthalways comes out in the end so give it some time you will find out but i also think u should do the same to her so she can see how it feels mack her wonder just like u heve to or tell her you heard she cheetdd on u and see what she says good luck
2007-01-11 12:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by david v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she expects you to be ok with the fact that her ex slept in her bed, she is nuts. I wouldn't put up with someone doing that and you shouldn't either.
2007-01-11 12:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are pretty naive to ask that question. Of course she cheated. Its no wonder she wants to get back together. She can get away with anything with you. Drop her like a bag of dirt.
2007-01-11 12:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP! She cheated. Who shares a bed with their ex?
2007-01-11 12:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋