Singles & Dating - 11 January 2007

Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for about 31/2 years...not too long ago him and some buddies of his went to a fully nude strip club. This was my boyfriends first time at a strip club and he got a lap dance, he told me that he felt like a total pervert and he doesnt plan to go back anytime soon.. is it silly of me to feel insecure when we are being physical together? After he paid some stranger $25 dollars to dance on him, It makes me feel inadequet. Im not overweight and I get compliments from guys a lot, but for some reason I can't get over this...any advice??

2007-01-11 03:46:17 · 23 answers · asked by steffie ♥ 2

Does anyone maybe have any tips to help it work?

2007-01-11 03:45:41 · 6 answers · asked by ana_is_a_cat 4

2007-01-11 03:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend and she has a boyfriend and 4 kids we are bestfriends and spend alot of our time together. i have mixed feelings about her. i have always looked at having feelings for the same sex as weird but she has been with a girl before. it kinda makes me feel weird because i have never had mixed feelings about another girl before. She has told me that if she was not with her boyfriend of 3 years she would want to be with me? what do i do? should we stop hanging out? Am i weird? should i be having these feelings? i know she has been having these feelings because she has told me. Is it harmless for us to kiss and cuddle with each other and to hold hands? is it being dishonest to our boyfriends or unfair? I am just confused!

2007-01-11 03:42:54 · 18 answers · asked by alicia_mcguire16 1

do guys like a girl to play hard to get? i heard that girls should not answer when a guy calls. instead they should say their busy....so does playing ahrd to get really work?

2007-01-11 03:41:16 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley 1

My boyfriend just ended, or I should say, said he needed a break from our relationship, of 6 months. It was pretty serious, but he has a lot of things going on right now, in his personal life, including an impending nasty custody fight with an ex wife. He has said that he wants to become a better person, and that I and my kids do not deserve to have to deal with his problems. He insists that I have done nothing wrong, and that if he can get his life straightened out, he wants to come back. The problem is, this has happened very suddenly, and now I really don't know what to do, or how to handle it. I still love him, so I am giving his space, letting him call or text if he wants, but not initiating anything, and I told him that I am doing this, not because I don't want to call him, or see him, but so he isn't feeling pressured. It has turned out to be very difficult for me. It hurts, I miss him, and so do my kids...
I have to decide whether to stay and wait, or just move on...?

2007-01-11 03:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by jen ERNY 1

im a 36 h and im very concicous about them

2007-01-11 03:39:00 · 20 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4

There is this guy who I've been dating and hanging out with alot since the beginning of December. We have gotten fairly intimate but not too far. We have actually known eachother for a long time (Several years), and only recently have we been taking the relationship further. So here we are, little over a month of dating. Would this be considedred a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship? So far the relationship has been monogamous on both sides. Neither one of us has said "I love you." It almost feels too soon to say that. I feel nothing but love for him, but it seems like if I said it now it might scare him away. Do you think it's too soon to use the "L" word? Boyfriend or no?

2007-01-11 03:38:36 · 15 answers · asked by S L 3

So, I pass a lot of gas (both farts and burps), even at work. I never had a girlfriend, so they say it's no wonder i never had anyone. One of my workmates says that having a relationship and being with your girl equals no more gas. Are women truly appalled by farts ? I always say if they want me they have to take everything...

2007-01-11 03:38:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive had it with my gf! we cant have a normal sexual experience! in the middle of us doin the horizontal polka she passes gas! sometimes she even sneezes! one time i went down on her with the lights on and she had a little tiny turd nugget cuz she didnt wipe good enough!!!! how do you not notice something like that!!!! should i dump her? or get revenge?

2007-01-11 03:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by borgadoogawee 1

i met a man and we have been dating for 2 months. we are so compatable, both share the same religous belifs, likes and dislikes. we have seen each other on a daily basis. somehow we embarked on our future together and discussed wedding plans. we are a mature couple. he has two small kids, and mine are grown. he has custody of his kids who presently live with his mom in jamaica. the love is there, seen by many. him moreso than me. has anyone ever encountered a relationship where you have felt as if their was no time barriers or cap on how long someone should know someone before tying the knot? he contributes more then his share of responsibilities at my home. he is well off and has the means of provision. family members say its too soon, but im no spring chicken

2007-01-11 03:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by gypsy 1

Listen guys and girls I am gona ask this girl I like on a second date this weekend. I want it to be amazing!!! So she feels as special as she is. Any ideas? I live in Ireland just in case u doesn’t know its not great weather here at the moment. I took her to the cinema last time and it was good but a bit ordinary for me! What do I do? I don’t want to ask her cause I think its cool when a guy looks like he put in a bit of an effort.

2007-01-11 03:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by blondestring 1

I know there are alot of teens and young adults in this section and i want to get ur opinion. what do you think of this cell phone? It's the LG VX8300 for Verizon. You can google it or go to cnet.com and search it to find out more about it and to see a picture. I really want ur opinions and please take the time to look at it first. Thanks a bunch!

2007-01-11 03:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by packerswes4 5

and their 40's more adventerous sexually than women in their 20's?

2007-01-11 03:34:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is money more important than good values? A nice personality? I am stunned by so many of the younger (20's) girls I meet and how they only care about how much a guy earns!

2007-01-11 03:33:44 · 10 answers · asked by Alexandriagal 6

I have known this girl for about 2 weeks. We went out on one date and we both had a great time. The morning after I sent her a text message saying that I had a wonderful time and she really appreciated it. Since then when she calls me, she talks for atleast 1 or 2 hours , sometimes 3 on the phone. What does this mean?

2007-01-11 03:32:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a Big dude 6"00" 290 lbs and I have no problem meeting women and getting to first base second or home if disired. But if I was a woman I would date small guys. What do you prefer and why? I hear that I get away with it cause of my swager and sexy voice , plus im handsome. So they over look the extra weight. and my women are really fit or toned, sexy I do well when im dating. but What do you prefer? Guys tell me what type of woman you like. and Woman answer my question.

Thank you.

2007-01-11 03:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you're attracted to someone, what matters more?

Brains, personality or looks? With me, it's brains. I find intelligence very sexy. However, most of the guys I meet seem to value looks above all else. So, what matters to you?

2007-01-11 03:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by sister steph 6

two people in relationship seems not to agree on one thing or the other.

2007-01-11 03:30:46 · 8 answers · asked by spankybee 2

I sneaked up behind her back and I told her she was beautiful.
I showed her a piece of paper, that was written
"I'm sorry! :(( I am a pig!"

All her colleagues beside her burst out laughing
They were like "Wow!"

She acted cool, didn't want to smile but yet wanted to smile. Damn! she looked even cuter! She was blushing a little. I just left and she didn't care. But I think I got her! Naa naa naa
What do you think?

Hey! I gotcha!

2007-01-11 03:30:39 · 7 answers · asked by Breakdancer 1

I am hooking up with this guy and he finally told me he has feelings for me. He doenst want a girl friend and I dont want a boy friend so thats good. The other night we were hanging out and he told me this story that involved him going out to lunch with this girl who he works with. I guess she is engaged and he didn't know that and her boy friend say them leaving work together to get lunch and freaking out. Anyway my question is if he is telling me this is he asking this girl out on a date? He said its nothing and he just wanted someone to go to lunch with...Do i have reason to worry?

2007-01-11 03:29:59 · 19 answers · asked by Sam s 2

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2007-01-11 03:29:42 · 22 answers · asked by BUNNY! 2

ok...

i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and we are completely ourselves around each other and love being together. we have a great sex life EXCEPT i don't think i've ever orgasmed - i don't think it's his technique and it's definatlely not the size.

any idea why i can't?

any ideas how i can?

2007-01-11 03:29:25 · 25 answers · asked by rach 1

I think that I like my dance's teacher..... I mean more than just like a friend.. but it's really not love.. yet..... he's really awesome.. I really like his sence of humor... but he's older than me about 5.. or 6 years.. . what do u guys think about this stuff??

2007-01-11 03:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by Justina 4

2007-01-11 03:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by bhungane 1

Ok, here it is. I am friend with this girl. We work together in a restaurant. At 1st we only worked 1 day a week together but she started to show interest in me like a a couple weeks after we first together. She would talk about her bf issues without me asking. Then she started to ask about me a little. Anyway, one night she called me (Got my # from a co-worker). We have never hungout toghther before this. It was her b-day and she wonderin if I wanted to stop at the restaurant and have some drinks. So I did. We talked all night and it was awesome. As time went on we started to hang out more oftent. Suddenly, I started to develop feelings (I did not want to). Well, I end up telling her how that I have developed feelings (Since this time she and her bf had broken up). Well, she tells me she felt a vibe and is attracted to me but we never once hooked up. At the sametime she seems to put me on a high level - meaning really cares about what I think of her, has me in a high regard.

2007-01-11 03:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Chef 2

How can you make a woman that you have fell in love with realize that her ex cheating boyfriend hasen't changed and there is no way she should take him back?

2007-01-11 03:27:57 · 8 answers · asked by david c 1

2007-01-11 03:27:15 · 19 answers · asked by I'm Loving Life 3

what looks better on girls......pigtails? long hair? short hair ? curly? or a combo?....what do you like about a woman's hair?......the last answer was going to be me but i figured..there are too many uptight people in here to take a joke.

2007-01-11 03:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

so many people have said to me it doesn't happen. well then why marry someone if you haven't fallen inlove with them.....surely 8/10 people get married...

2007-01-11 03:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 1