i met a man and we have been dating for 2 months. we are so compatable, both share the same religous belifs, likes and dislikes. we have seen each other on a daily basis. somehow we embarked on our future together and discussed wedding plans. we are a mature couple. he has two small kids, and mine are grown. he has custody of his kids who presently live with his mom in jamaica. the love is there, seen by many. him moreso than me. has anyone ever encountered a relationship where you have felt as if their was no time barriers or cap on how long someone should know someone before tying the knot? he contributes more then his share of responsibilities at my home. he is well off and has the means of provision. family members say its too soon, but im no spring chicken
2007-01-11 03:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by gypsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its all up to you if you love him and he loves you then fallow your heart the rest will fall into place.... Everything happens for a reason!!!!!! keep your Head up and good luck!!!
2007-01-11 03:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe That you can . My mother met her husband and within 3 weeks they were married , they are just about to celebrate there 14th wedding anniversary . I think that what is in your heart will tell you what you need to do , If you have butterflies in your stomach, when you see him or hear his voice then that will say that you are totally in love with him . Making plans to get married, a couple can get engaged, but make plans for the wedding 6 month's later could be a good idea . These days no one takes marriage seriously like people did in the 50s so make sure that this will be the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with and grow old with . And just remember sickness and in health and all of the above
Good luck to you
may god be with you through the decision that you make
2007-01-11 11:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a two sided answer. I've been through already what you are going through now. My time was last year. If you feel you guys are ready then I'd say go for it, but if you still want to wait, that's fine too. There's nothing worse than rushing into something you may regret later. I was engaged last year and thought he and our situation was perfect, until I came to realize he was in it for a nanny,housekeeper and a paycheck. He just presented it on a silver platter. We dated a total of five months..we met and three months later engaged. I'm glad I stopped things when I did.
2007-01-11 12:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first i may not be that old but i know what love is , and i think you can fall in love the moment you meet someone , now about tieing the knot i think you and he should do what your heart wants no matter how long you have been together , don't listen to family members because they don't always know what is best ,, you see i met this guy once we met and i secretly fell in love with him the moment i saw him , well we started dating and it was a conection .. at first but we grew apart because he listened to his family .. a little to much . and i made me real mad so i kinda grew apart from him well he ended our relationship 1 year 1 month and 20 days after we were together . it broke my heart to watch him leave but i am a stronger person because of him .. his family told him i was not right for him and that we were not meant to be together and he was told this so much he belived it , so he left me ............. all i am trying to say is please please don't listen to family when they say they know what's best for you or him because on al reality that don't only your heart and his know's what you guys should do ......... so in closing i say go for it and good luck with what you deside because i was always told your heart wants what the heart wants
2007-01-11 11:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by shannon l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have felt that way before. Usually it ended up a disaster. There is absolutely no way you can know someone in 2 months and getting married is a huge decision. If I was you I would wait.
2007-01-11 11:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes is posible...I know some couples that got marry after 16 days and they ahappy after 38 years of marriage...and some another ones too are been marry very soon and they are happy...after 5 years of marriage...
2007-01-11 11:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married cpl here
we'd like to reply to ur question
and yes its possible to love someone in such a short period we did we started talking in august 2006 started dating in september 2006 and married december 2006
2007-01-11 11:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard about love at the first sight?
It happens
2007-01-11 11:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by r0msk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-11 11:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by pari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible, but dangerous - to commit legally.
2007-01-11 11:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋