Singles & Dating - 11 January 2007

I have been Really interested in sex the last year. I have not done nothing Im a vergin. But i get these erges. I would have done it already if i knew how it would feel. I wish i knew how bad or good it will feel can you help me with this?

2007-01-11 06:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Little Scared 1

A girl (25 yrs. old) and I (25 yrs. old) met through jdate.com. We had two very good dates. She called me back to his response for a third date. We talked, set things up and she mentions how she really would like to see me again but feel they still have a lot to learn about each other. She emphasizes alot...is this bad?
By a third date, should some semblance of a romantic relationship be developing? I did give her a short kiss on the lips just before we left last time.
Does it sound like she's not really interested in a relationship at all and yet she's using words that sound like she is? For instance, she said, "See, I have to be honest. I think we still have a lot to learn about each other. But, I'd really like to see you again." Could this mean as friends?

2007-01-11 06:03:10 · 8 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1

I wanted to wait until we get married but she keeps pressuring me.I Love this woman. A few time, things got so hot, I almost gave in but when I said I was going to get the condoms It completely turned her off. She doesn't want to use one and I don't want to get her pregnant. She is a couple of years from turning 40 and thinks she is getting to the point where she wont be able to have a baby (We both want to have kids). But its to early in our relationship to get married. What can I do to convince her that I don't want us to get pregnant and to use some time of contraceptive?

2007-01-11 06:02:24 · 15 answers · asked by Curiously 5

2007-01-11 06:01:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lost a lot of faith in the whole concept of relationship's and love. How real (love inparticular) and important are they. In this day and age with the divorce rate, the meaningless flings and forgettable hook up's. Relationship's seem very dispoable and easy to replace these days. I did at one point believe in the concept of marriage but now, I don't know. You hear about the happy one's and the one's who are in hell. How do you know which one your gonna be? I don't want my wife to turn around one day and tell she doesn't love me anymore or vice versa. And then there's the option of no string attached. Just sex no nothing else. "Keep your options open." But that's sure as hell far from my value system! So what's left? I've been considering living a life of celibacy and singlehood. Invest my time and energy into my work. Being a better writer and artist. At least I know what I'm investing in there. Any thought?

2007-01-11 06:01:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok there is this guy and well I'm still in high school and everytime that I see him, well first of all he told me that he liked me and now he is like totally ignoring me,... before we were like really good friends and we got along just great... now he is totally weird because one day me and my friend went to his house and there was this other guy friend of his with him, and we were playing basketball and we had a blast and then he invited me and my friend to his room and then we played spin the bottle and we kissed and stuff, but now when I see him in school he just passes right by me and doesn;t even say hi, and he is like telling people that I took everything seriously after he told his best friend that he likes me! everything is just plain weird, do you think that I should play basketvall with him this weekend or what should I do?

2007-01-11 06:00:31 · 7 answers · asked by Vanesa G 2

Will I be in a lond relationship with my new boyfriend? And will I get me a new place for 2007? Should I get married for 2007

2007-01-11 05:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by Hattie Brown 1

im 42, i met a woman ,44. we are both married. three months we have known each other, either of us hacve had comfortable marriages. we fell in love, madly. we mde each other feel like nobody ever has before, i caould tell it in hey voice, in her eyes, as she could mine. her hubby found out two months ago, said it had to stop. within days, she called, said she couldnt live without me. we continued. last week, she even bought mer a ticket to go to a conference with her where we were together for the first time. tears were plentiful. secind day, her hubby called, said he knew i wa there. she said she couldnt handle it for now, asked me to leave . got back, she has said she can never leave her hubby, even if it means she wont be as hapopy as she would be with me. should i hold on or should i go

2007-01-11 05:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 5'4 and very thin, naturally though. I dont look sick. I cant gain weight. I have small boobs and a little butt. Can tiny girls be considered attractive or no because I'm not very curvy.

2007-01-11 05:59:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf has an ex who is her brother friend so he is at her house alot, she sees him way more than she sees me. her brother has alot of friends who come to their house and im not tryna sound gay but a couple of them look alright, my gf is HOT and has a great personality, but i wonder sometimes if i should be concerned. her ex tries to hook up with her sometimes but she tells me she wouldnt go with him again so why did she get so upset when she found out he had a girlfriend? also she has a "bestfriend" that she talks to alot and i was looking on her phone and saw she had a picture of his body on there. she said he sent it and she didn't know why and i asked well why did you save it you could've deleted it. one more thing she used to talk to a boy but she said they don't talk anymore but his cousin was trying to find out why they stopped talking and if she wanted to talk to him again. she said to me she wouldnt but she's always bringing him up and he lives around the corner. should i worry

2007-01-11 05:58:39 · 23 answers · asked by IisIam 3

does anybody have tips on how to meet a girl? what do girls look for in a guy? I have had no luck with this.

2007-01-11 05:58:23 · 1 answers · asked by Chris C 1

Just asked if she sounds like she wants to get back together with me, and forgot to mention I want to get back together as well. I broke up with almost a full year ago because I was going through a life crisis involving drugs and a nervous breakdown. But we recently started hanging out again, and I'm pretty sure she wants to get back together at this point. We've both dated a lot of different people since we broke up, but have both been let down in those relationships. Any advice on how to go about this?

2007-01-11 05:57:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work with this guy and we hanged out a couple of times and he used to call me all the time. This week he has been sick and he has not called or talk to me that much at work. does that mean he is not into me anymore or he is just like this because he is sick.? It's been 5 days.

2007-01-11 05:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Dianab 1

Most of guys are just interested in sex, or "casual dating". I'm not looking for someone to get married right away...but I like to be respected and if it works, loved. As a Christian, I would like to wait until marriage to have sex...
So, with this in mind, how can I let my date be aware of that...without making it sound like I want to get married with him?
I just don't wanna lose my time going out with guys that are only looking for sex.

2007-01-11 05:57:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 05:57:13 · 5 answers · asked by just me 1

there was this boy at my old school in russia who i think i upset. that was 4 years ago. a couple of days ago i texted him saying 'u probably dont want to hear from me but i want to apologise' then he said 'What?:)'
yesterday i texted him again, saying why are u ignoring me? (coz he did) and i apologised AGAIN. in return he said 'do u know what time it is? people r sleeping'
so today i was like,'did i wake u? soz, but u still didnt answer my question'(about ignoring) and he texted back saying, 'what do u want from me?'

i dont know what his reaction means (because he used to like me and then i moved to england and couldnt tell him - i think thats why he's pissed off). i just want some understanding in return, but he doesnt seem to understand it.

does his reaction means he wants to ignore me or is it that he's shielding himself????

what do i do?

2007-01-11 05:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by no-one listens... 2

i don't want him to love me anymore than he already does, so i dont know if i should wait, or just do it now

2007-01-11 05:55:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 05:54:22 · 34 answers · asked by dave_e_wood 4

this guy i like, we dont go to the same school anymore for 2 years already...the only way i can see him is to ask him out but really i dont know what to do..................................

2007-01-11 05:53:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The man I love will be going on a "roadshow" begging at the end of January. . . He will be gone for nearly 2 months. . .

I want us to stay togehter through this. . .and I will be faithful to him. . .how do I tell him I will miss him, and I love him and only him nomatter what the distance between us is? How do I leave a lasting impression on him so even if he's tempted he'll turn away from temptation?

GUYS HELP ME OUT HERE ! ! !

What should I do??? This will damn near kill me unless I figure something out ! ! !

Fory

2007-01-11 05:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-01-11 05:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by SELVAN 2

We get a chance to use the school computers, do you use yahoo answers from school too ?

2007-01-11 05:51:37 · 16 answers · asked by Dave S 3

2007-01-11 05:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by MacGyver 1

How do i get over the pain, without leaving her. I don't know what else to do when all i feel is pain even after i thought i was healed enough to deal with things. Guess i was wrong. So any hints or tips on how to deal, all without leaving her, would be a great help.

2007-01-11 05:49:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question Details: My close friend is in love with two guys. One that she has been with for a long time and another she met she feels she has a connection with. She is scared of losing her existing bf, but can not deny feelings for another. She asked me for advice and I only told her that's something she needs to figure it out on her own. I hate to see her like this and her confusion is preventing her from being productive. I want to stay out of it, but I hate seeing a close friend do this herself. She keeps asking me for advice, but I keep telling her that is something I can not be a part of. All I know is that she has been with both intimately and her bf is my friend. I want to tell him to move on so he won't get hurt, b/c he's trying so hard and already bought an engagement ring. Any advice?

2007-01-11 05:49:33 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1

he already nows i dont want to move where he's at because im physically tired of moving......if he really wants it to work wouldnt he cosider moving to my city

2007-01-11 05:48:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took my boyfriend to his recruiting office yesterday, so he could leave for boot camp for the Army. I have been fortunate enough to have him with me almost 24/7 for the past few months because of problems with his family. I have been able to have my best friend with me at all times, and i am missing him like crazy. I dont know how to handle my emotions about his leaving. I wont see him for at least 9 weeks..maybe even 18 weeks. I dont know how to handle not being able to talk to him. He is my hero, and i love him with all my heart. Does anyone have any advice? ANY is helpful.

2007-01-11 05:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by AliceA. 1

I have a boyfriend...and of course..and ex....well my boyfriend says im not allowed talking to my ex...and he has a reason because my ex tried to call me all the time and stuff so my boyfriend doesnt want me talking to my ex because hes afraid of losing me right? well my boyfriend says he dont trust me and he doubts me...and it hurts my feelings...and im not allowed emailing or talking to my ex at all...not friends or anything ...but i want to atleast still talk to him just as friends....sould i mail him anyways?? i just dont think its right that my boyfriend says wat i can and cant do....should i email my ex anyways?

2007-01-11 05:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2

2007-01-11 05:45:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im soo upset! what do i say when i confrount both of them?

2007-01-11 05:45:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous