Singles & Dating - 11 January 2007

And are you male of female.

I voted beauty, I have a good degree 2:1 and am doing post grad study, but i can honestly say that being good looking has by FAR brought me more social advantages.
im quite girly and blonde lol, so people assume im stupid anyhow, as Aristotle once said beauty is a great letter of introduction.

in short id swop a few iq points for more beauty in a hearbeat.

2007-01-11 06:32:32 · 18 answers · asked by raggyann 3

so i like girls....i was dating this puerto rican chick named melissa for a few weeks..but she decided about a week and half ago that she needs to focus solely on her music and etc..so we are not together now...but the funny thing is is that she is now in a damn relationship with some other girl now! im sooo hurt...but heres the twist i guess...my friend, a guy, who lives in texas wants me to come visit him for a weekend...jan 25th to be exact...i do still like him, but i still have feelings for melissa...i am so confused and hurt..what is your advice?? what should i really do ppl??

2007-01-11 06:32:17 · 1 answers · asked by wolvie 6

...........too many orgasms??? I mean after the third one, is it like "enough already", I'm done???

Mr Happy
:o)

2007-01-11 06:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by hagtagg 5

For about a month now my boyfriend and i are growing a part because we're always arguing, we've been best mates for 2 yrs and in a relationship for 8 months, everyone says we're perfect for each other because we get on so well. We've been through so much in the past 3 months, things most couples will probably never have to deal with and I feel like the pressure has finally got to us. He never wants to talk to me about things, he will only let me see him when he wants and i always have to go to his because he wont come round mine anymore. I love him to pieces and i know he loves me but i'm starting to lose faith in our relationship and our future together. what ways could i work this out? any ideas? any advice would be appreciated

2007-01-11 06:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Emmie 1

we went out last year and we still liked me after the break up b/c my friend broke us up anyways how do i get him back and make sure that this doesnt happen again

2007-01-11 06:26:13 · 1 answers · asked by wuzupschoolsucks 2

ok look i really like this guy n he likes me we have been makin out alot n huggin n bein all lovey dovey but he still hasnt asked me out.... dad says hes just usin me but i dont belive that at all..... do you think hes just scared? or what?

2007-01-11 06:20:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

there was this boy at my old school in russia who i think i upset. that was 4 years ago. a couple of days ago i texted him saying 'u probably dont want to hear from me but i want to apologise' then he said 'What?:)'
yesterday i texted him again, saying why are u ignoring me? (coz he did) and i apologised AGAIN. in return he said 'do u know what time it is? people r sleeping'
so today i was like,'did i wake u? soz, but u still didnt answer my question'(about ignoring) and he texted back saying, 'what do u want from me?'

i dont know what his reaction means (because he used to like me and then i moved to england and couldnt tell him - i think thats why he's pissed off). i just want some understanding in return, but he doesnt seem to understand it.

does his reaction means he wants to ignore me or is it that he's shielding himself????

what do i do?

Additional Details

17 minutes ago
he DOES remember who i am, infact we saw not a while ago

2007-01-11 06:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by no-one listens... 2

I am concerned because when i am done wiht school i am going to have alot of loans to pay back. For certain reasons when i am done with school with a combination of undergrade and graduate tution i will have to pay back about 80,000 in student loans. I am 29 years old and just want to have a decent life. I am pretty simplicitic and frugal but worried about my future. I feel that i wont be able to live halfway comfortable and that nobody will want to marry me because of the amount of loans that i have. I am a good person an consider myself pretty attractive, but just worried nobody will want me. What do you guys think ?

2007-01-11 06:17:19 · 1 answers · asked by Eric W 1

i mean they don't seem like going after every guy..while guys will go for any chick (gotta be hot) that shows tiny teeny interest

2007-01-11 06:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1

2007-01-11 06:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes my age inta rock kinda no's me hw do i get him 2 like me, lads advice plz

2007-01-11 06:09:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

would get over mean that the person really means nothing to you anymore, even you see that person someday ? or in some other case, you talk to that person on a friendship basis without feelings anymore ...?

2007-01-11 06:08:53 · 15 answers · asked by bobby s 1

Hiya people, right where do i start, i met this guy about 2 years ago, when i was 14, and he was into gangs and stuff, but we fell in love ( i no that sound cheesy but its true) and he ended up in jail just before my 15th, and so i vowed my self to wait for him, and i did, up untill october when i got fed up of watching others with their partners and what not, and i got approached by this guy and i took the opportunity to be with him, i sent a txt to my jail bird to let him know what was happening, and a month later me and the new guy split up, i tried to send an email to the one in jail to let him know but it bounced back so i assumed that the account had closed itself because it wasnt in use for so long, and then today i came home from work and got a txt saying that i betrayed him, and that i better watch over my shoulder etc, thing is i really do love this guy,, but dont take the whole gang thing lightly, he was DEEP into it, so he can easly slip back into that way of thinking,

2007-01-11 06:08:52 · 22 answers · asked by ladee_in_luv 2

2007-01-11 06:08:47 · 17 answers · asked by Da~thic~bac blak 1 1

i mean they get wrinkly and don't look that hot right ...

2007-01-11 06:08:36 · 333 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1

We have been together 4mos now and it just seems we have great times then out of no where he acts weird or it seems like he wants us to fight. I have been patient and I set him straight.. he apolgizes then becomes amazing boyfriend... then month later he will do it again.. I am starting to feel warn out and tired of "the scared of relationship thing.. he Used to being alone thing"
I love him and we are great together I just feel scared now because I know he is doubtful... Even though I don't want to if he does it again I am leaving.. is this too extreme?

2007-01-11 06:08:20 · 77 answers · asked by Teresa 2

We are both seniors in college and have been friends for a long time.

2007-01-11 06:08:14 · 59 answers · asked by ubbriggs 2

i know its a stupid question but..ever have one of those feelings when you just want it to work out but no matter how hard you try and how much work you put in there's always something missing??its always not good enough!!??

2007-01-11 06:08:11 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 06:07:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My buddy Cory is having some confidence issues. He is 25, still lives at home, just lost his licence(drinking and driving) and is stuck in pretty much a dead end job. I try to build his confidence, but there are still no ladies! Is he ever gonn pick up a chick?????

2007-01-11 06:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by dwntwnbadboy 2

Wfe had a thing going for 1 night and it was just kissing etc. He was my childhood friend. After this I settled down with another guy but we remained friends on and off. He blows hot and cold with me. one minute is great and the next quite off with me. He changed so much. Before he used to be loving and didn't care if a girl had blonde or brown hair now he only goes for brown hair since I have blonde I never thought about it until someone pointed out I know it sounds silly he talks about looks more and much now. I can go into detail but it seems he has immatured over the years rather than matured. I must have scarred him so i've been told. He is so superficial now before he had a lot of love to give. He told me ages ago when he was tipsy and said he wouldn't love again. I didn't think he meant me because we are just friends. He doesn't talk much and when he does these days I get the feeling he is lying to himself and to me.

Can love hurt so much it changes someone?

2007-01-11 06:06:50 · 19 answers · asked by starburst 2

was it cool, disgusting, fun, or just plain weird?

2007-01-11 06:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl at a sportsbar, i've been there twice now, and we led each other on through eye contact. however both times i didn't leave a number or nothing and the second time after an 18$ meal i only left a 2$ tip. Yeh i'm a jack***

It didn't even cross my mind till a couple days later how much that probably turned her off of me.

So in response i'm going up there this sat. to give her a 5, and to tell her i found it in my pocket later that night and that it was meant for it be on the table ( i never tell lies, but this time its needed )

this upcoming monday i'm having these sent to her at work with an anymous card http://onlineflorist-flowers.com/img/net/g/1101/send_flowers.jpg and then the following saturday i'm going back there with some diamonds i purchased for her and yes finally i'm going to ask her out when she gets off.

I'm doing this to show her i AM interested and that i know how to treat a girl. Thoughts? and how would you feel if a guy did this for you?

2007-01-11 06:05:51 · 7 answers · asked by flawless 1

Everytime we have sex, he starts to bite really hard. I don't mind but he goes overboard and it is really painful. After that I am not in the mood to do anything. I get pissed at him & want to punch him right in the face. I have told him how I felt and he continues to do it.

2007-01-11 06:05:47 · 61 answers · asked by LIL BIT 1

well i have a boyfriend who says im not allowed talking to my ex at all or emailing him or anything...i understannd where my boyfriend comes from on that because if a gurl was mailing him 5 times a day id be mad too....but i promised my boyfriend nothing is going on between me and my ex...and we are just friends and everything...nothing more....but he still says not to talk to him and if i do he'll dump me...should i still try to talk to my ex anyways?? i dont think its fair or right for my boyfriend to tell me who i can and cant talk to...i mean JUST friends....the reason me and my ex broke up was because of the boyfriend i have now...so my boyfriend should be proud shouldnt he?? so should i talk to my ex as a friend or not? i dont want more than friends and neither does my ex but we both dont think its fair to have to stop talking completely...my boyfriend now said he dont trust me and he doubts me...but loves me? so should i still talk to my ex?

2007-01-11 06:05:43 · 11 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2

i know i should move out....but i can't. i don't want to feel this way but it really hurts. and i still can't accept that my three year relationship is probably over. how do you move on? and how can someone not want you anymore when you've shared things together? i can't make myself to pack my stuff!!! i feel so freaking unlovable and unwanted. i feel like i;m the lowest of the low.but i don't want to feel this way.

2007-01-11 06:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lov someone. but he nevers know about my feeling about him. and i meet him everyday at skul.

2007-01-11 06:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by vanity_bluegirl 1

I have been Really interested in sex the last year. I have not done nothing Im a vergin. But i get these erges. I would have done it already if i knew how it would feel. I wish i knew how bad or good it will feel can you help me with this?

2007-01-11 06:04:14 · 36 answers · asked by Little Scared 1

...a girl had sex with you on a first date, after spending pretty much the whole night talking and just laying in silence cuddling...Do you feel like you have already seen all of her and would not date her again; Would you call her again if you liked her? What would this tell you about a girl even after you guys clicked and seemed to have a lot of fun?

2007-01-11 06:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by Jenn 2

I cant seem to figure out this, but guys are way more confussing than girls. I met this guy about 3 months ago and we have been talking all the time. he says that he really likes me but he still has a girlfriend, but in June she had moved to Mexico. He went to Mexico last week with his family for Christmas.. and when he got back he told me that he missed me and that he wanted to see me. I asked him why he missed me and still talks to me when he has a girlfriend but he will just change the subject. I asked him if he was playing games with me and he said that he wasn't, so what am i supossed to believe? What should i do about this? I think that i should just move on with life... and get over him, but then again i think that i want to make him one of my homies and just hang out with him as friends.... Why is doing this to me? does he really like me or just toying with my mind?

2007-01-11 06:03:55 · 5 answers · asked by jenny_b2007 2