Everytime we have sex, he starts to bite really hard. I don't mind but he goes overboard and it is really painful. After that I am not in the mood to do anything. I get pissed at him & want to punch him right in the face. I have told him how I felt and he continues to do it.
2007-01-11 06:05:47 · 61 answers · asked by LIL BIT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, I can't imagine continuing that if my lover specifically said she didn't like it. Try doggie or something similar, it would be much harder to bite anything if your on all fours. That really doesn't address it though does it?
Ask him why he must do this, while we all do things during sex we don't normally do, I think most still have control. Since he continues to do it, I fear he does not respect you, if he doesn't why are you with him. Since you've told him, I guess it's time to draw the line... do it again and were finished.
2007-01-11 06:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rough with hi. bite him hard. scratch him. when he complains, tell him it goes both ways for now on.....you will treat him as he treats you. this is a matter of respect, and he is giving you none. another option, alittle more extreme, but is guaranteed to work, is to tell him that the next time he bites you or otherwise gets too rough, that you will take the marks he has left on you and show the police, who in turn will arrest him for simple assault. he will spend a night or two in jail, and have to take anger management classes. do not back down from this....as i have said, its about respect, and it will get worse if you do not change his behavior asap.
2007-01-11 06:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by beechjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! You told him how you felt, and yet he continues to do it. That would mean he doesn't care how it makes you feel, he's selfish and violent. Sex shouldn't just be about pleasing yourself. A healthy, caring person enjoys pleasing their partner as well. Run! Run away, now!
Seriously, decide how much more time you are willing to invest with someone who wants to use you like a piece of meat. If he doesn't shape up in that timeframe, cut him loose. For your physical safety, if nothing else!!
2007-01-11 06:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by yellowbugchickoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop having sex. I don't believe in playing games, but if he's doing something that hurts you or you do not enjoy at all, and he knows it, then he is showing complete disrespect for you and your desires. Until he can respect you, don't have sex with him. If he refuses to change his ways or be more gentle, then move on.
Sex is supposed to be pleasureable for all involved...if you aren't having fun, what's the point?
2007-01-11 06:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got this one. next time he does it. and your kissing him down there, bite him right on the peak of his....member. just enough to cause a moderate amount of pain but not enough to john bobbit him. when he screams, jumps, and asks why u did it, tell him you thought he likes rough sex. he will never go overboard again.
-james
us army soldier
2007-01-11 06:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by jimmyjames83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it is hard to have sex when you bite like that. If he does it again, you'll find someone else. I am sure he will stop after that.
2007-01-11 06:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by White Shooting Star of HK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already told him, and he's not honouring your wishes, it's time for you to walk away. If he can't even respect you during sex, what's to say he will respect you out of the bedroom. It's never an easy decision, but you have to do what's good for you, and you deserve better.
2007-01-11 06:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by gizzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with him when he starts biting.
2007-01-11 06:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it's either time to get a new BF or stop complaining, if you'r not happy and you allow it to continue then it's your fault.
Try telling him to have dinner before sex.
2007-01-11 06:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by la la 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a self centered a****le if he doesn't respect your wishes or feelings. I'd tell him to straighten up or no more "fun" at the very least or "hit the road buddy" at the very worst. Guys like that make my skin crawl.
2007-01-11 06:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋