boyfriend troubles, can anyone help?

Question

For about a month now my boyfriend and i are growing a part because we're always arguing, we've been best mates for 2 yrs and in a relationship for 8 months, everyone says we're perfect for each other because we get on so well. We've been through so much in the past 3 months, things most couples will probably never have to deal with and I feel like the pressure has finally got to us. He never wants to talk to me about things, he will only let me see him when he wants and i always have to go to his because he wont come round mine anymore. I love him to pieces and i know he loves me but i'm starting to lose faith in our relationship and our future together. what ways could i work this out? any ideas? any advice would be appreciated

Answer 1

im sorry to here your havein trouble what i think you need to is to talk to him openly and honestly tell him the way you feel and if he wants to be with you he should do the same if he dosent leave him

Answer 2

Why not have a short break away from each other and then after, say a month or so, see if you both feel the same way about each other. Absence sometimes makes the heart grow fonder. There again, you may feel you are better off without him and you may find that your social life is on the up.
Plenty more fish.....and all that.

Answer 3

Try sitting down with him and telling him how you feel. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about the relationship. I know how you feel because my mate was at this stage of his relationship but hes now past that stage. I think this is the testing time for a true relationship.

Like I said, they only way is to talk to him.

Answer 4

It`s all to do with Communication, missing a lot these days in many relationships,get together sort out the Wheat from the Chaff if you can at the end maybe you can enjoy your Oats together once more.

Answer 5

i think u r the second best for him. just dump him.