How do I know its the right time for sex?

Question

I have been Really interested in sex the last year. I have not done nothing Im a vergin. But i get these erges. I would have done it already if i knew how it would feel. I wish i knew how bad or good it will feel can you help me with this?

Answer 1

You'll know when you're wearing a ring on your left hand.

It's perfectly fine to be curious and have different feelings and all. What you do (or not do) with them is all that really matters.

If sex was just an exploritory event to delve into new experiences and feelings, - then fine, -go for it.

But since it's a respectable act that cuts right to the core of who you are, and how you 'respect' your future spouse, - then you have to retain your integrity.

Answer 2

How old are you?

It doesnt seem like your old enough. But I think you'll know when you are ready (you should be at least 18 years old) because if you are not you might really really regret it later. ALWAYS ALWAYS carry protection with you because you never know when the time is right, the mood is better, and the urges happen. BUT if you carry a condom in your wallet replace it often since it can wear out and then you have a busted condom and you can ssay good-bye to any fun you may have had as a single- no strings attached person-

If you want to have sex for sex sakes then you run the risk of being a one-night stand but if you want to have sex because of true love then wait till your married.

Sex is pleasing --the first time may not be soo much because you dont really know what you are doing unless you have someone who does and then that's just weird. --

Some people can even say that masturbation is actually better as you dont run any risks (unless you hurt yourself!) and you have CONTROL and know what you like... so maybe you should just wait and masturbate!

Answer 3

As a teenager I had those feelings with my husband that I was dating at the time. We decided to wait till we where married. So I was a virgin when I got married. On my wedding day all those questions about sex, how it would feel and all that was answered. Let me tell you first it hurt. It was not the romantic sexual experience I expected. It was not all it was hyped up to be. However; the next few days when my husband and I got to know each other and experienced what we enjoyed and our Love for each other then sex became everything I expected and more. So you must really put thought into when you think it is right for you. Do not believe what everyone says. Most women's first times hurt and are not pleasurable. Hope more truthfully answer your question to help you make a informative decision.

Answer 4

Are you wondering how it will feel physically, or how it will feel emotionally? It's very easy to simulate how sex will feel physically through self-experimentation. Don't be afraid to try things by yourself. It's not dirty.

Nobody can answer how sex will feel emotionally, since that's different for every person. Even for the same person, it can feel differently in different situations. In order to have the most pleasant experience, I would reccommend waiting until you find a guy you love or are at least very comfortable with. Try making smaller steps with someone first--cuddling, making out, etc. and you may be more comfortable moving on to sex from there.

Answer 5

No offense, but you seem either young or uneducated by the way you worded/spelled your question. This makes me think you're probably too young to have sex, or not educated enough to make a decision regarding the matter. Besides that- if you have any doubt in your mind, you're probably not ready. If you're not sure, then it's probably a no. It hurts, the first time, maybe even the second time or after that. It's pretty painful that first time, and you'll probably see a little blood after. Make sure you use protection.

Answer 6

ill tell u what would fell good and u may not understand it now but when u find the 1 guy who u know is the 1 that u want to be with is that he was the only 1 . now that will feel better than 30 min. of plusher . and for a lot longer than 30 Min's .. like forever..
think about your whole life and not just to day.

Answer 7

There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later.

You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have. Your partner might be worried, too. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!

Having sexual intercourse - when a boy's hard penis goes inside a girl's vagina, or even just touches the outside of her vagina - is what leads to pregnancy. So, before having sexual intercourse you should think about whether you need to use contraception to prevent unwanted pregnancy, and condoms to prevent Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs).

There is no absolute right age to start having sex. What matters is whether it is the right time for you. It also depends on what you mean by 'having sex'. There are many ways in which you can give and receive sexual pleasure without having sexual intercourse.

Giving each other massages, kissing and hugging can be very passionate. It's a way of sharing and showing love. For some people these activities can be more fulfilling than sexual intercourse.

You get pressure from people talking about sex. You think, 'I've got to go and see what it's like'. It's hard, but you've got to resist and do what you want.

It's very important not to feel pressurised into having sex when you don't really want to. Just because your friends say they are 'doing it' doesn't mean they are.

Thinking through all the implications of having sex can be a useful way of helping you arrive at a decision. There are lots of reasons why people don't want to have sex. You may feel that you are not ready emotionally. Being pushed into having sex could mean you regret it later on. Some people have quite strong religious or cultural beliefs. Others just want to wait.

Some people call this decision to wait 'abstinence'. The decision to abstain from having sex can be either a long-term decision or a short-term one. Some people decide that they do not want to start having sex until they are married or in a significant long-term relationship. Other people may decide that having sex isn't the right thing for them at this particular time. Later on they may meet a person who they want and feel ready to have sex with. The decision whether to have sex or not is an important one. You should do what is right for you. It should be an informed decision, and not one based on fear or pressure from others.

But when a boy and girl do decide they want to have sexual intercourse, they should think about using a contraceptive unless they want to become parents. Gay men should also think about using condoms. Condoms can help stop infections like HIV as well as reducing the risk of getting pregnant.

Answer 8

Don't be in a hurry....life is longer then it seems and you wont have anything to look forward to when you are grown up. Plus are you ready for a kid?? Yeah..yeah I know you think you are but you're not....You loose your freedom and having sex will lead to getting pregnant because the guy will say he loves you and not to worry and the girl always says "I want a baby..." blah..blah..blah.. sex feels good but there's a lot of responsability too.

Answer 9

First off, don't do anything until you meet the right person that you love! Then when you love that person and desire to be with them sexually, there are many other things you can do with each other before going all the way that are very enjoyable! SO, make sure the person is right, then don't rush into it enjoy other sexual experiences before you go "all the way"! You only have the first time once make it count.

Answer 10

you will know when the time is right I was 22 when i lost my virginity. Being a virgin does not make you any less of a person .In fact you should be the happiest person in the world knowing that what you have you will give to the person you love the most.
Please do not loose your virginity to anybody. How will you feel if you give in to a person who only wants to use you for there carnal pleasures