We just started hanging out again, and some of the things she is saying is leading me to believe she wants to get back together with me. The second she got in my car her first words were "damn you still look good". She mentioned that she almost gave me a booty call about a week ago. Said a few times how much she missed hanging out with me, and has called me once a day for a week now. Any second opinions?
2007-01-11 05:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
C'mon, dude! Do you need to be hit on the head with a brick?
She needs you to service her big time. Stop thinking, and start doing!
2007-01-11 05:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily so. You have had a romantic relationship. The fact that you ar now hanging out could have been an easier platform for her to tell you straight that she wants you to rekindle the romance, and unless she says it you should not read to much in her words. You must also remind yourself how you broke up. If you initiated the break up, she might still be bitter and uses the latest charm to punish you or those might be words of a decent lady who wants to assure you that you are not a bad person (but not to have romance with her) to be with as a friend.
All in all, take it easy. If you are meant to be together again, it will happen. Just hang in there. Don't rush it as that might upset good love in the making.
2007-01-11 13:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants to get back together with you. The question is - do YOU want to get back with her? If so - then just point out exactly what you pointed out here - and tell her it's leading you to believe that maybe she'd like to try again - and ask her if that's the case. Be brave. Rejection is no fun - but it's part of life. If she says "no" - oh well. You're no worse off than you were before you started hanging out again. If she says yes - then you've stopped wasting your time wondering about it and you can move on together.
Good luck!!
2007-01-11 13:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you want. Her or not, but you have to remember there is a reason you're calling her your ex. Sometimes it's that way for a reason, and the time apart can make a person lonely, which can cloud your vision. I would take a long hard look at things, before making any sort of decision. When I say hit the road Jack, I never go back.
2007-01-11 13:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sw33tT4rt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be missing the closeness but not sure about restarting a whole relationship with you. Sometimes it's hard when you start getting close not to miss it. Remember the reasons why you broke up and if they are good reasons, just stick to your guns and explain your boundaries if you're uncomfy. If not, go along for the ride. But be clear to not hurt feelings
2007-01-11 13:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by ChiQuiBaby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely.
2007-01-11 13:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by dodgers5585 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely after you again. All the writing is on the wall with the way she is acting and talking to you. The question is do you want her back?
2007-01-11 13:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your proabably right. Go with your instinct. Why else would she be coming around ALL OF THE SUDDEN? She wants you back. If you wanna be with her dont take her back too quickly give her a challenge. Its just gonna make her want you even more. Good luck
2007-01-11 13:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ambersgettingmarried 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would definetly say so!! she is trying to be subtle a little but i think that she is really starting to like u again.... if u dont like her then i suggest to you that u say something to her and tell her that u want to remain friends.
2007-01-11 13:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by nickelbacksmyhero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably misses you and wants to get back with you.
2007-01-11 13:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋