Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

im 21, ive known my boyfriend for 7 yrs, i dated him for a year those 7 years ago, im pregnant with his kid, hes abusive and says that im not responsible or considerate, any i try not to do anything to step on his toes. before you say that you should just leave him, i live 4 hours away from anyone i can go to, i work full time and have a management position at my job. my money is direct deposit into the bank (we have a joint account) and i have no car (i drive his) i have friends that can go to, but id have to give up so much...what to i do?!

2007-01-09 18:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2

I have been left in the darkness,
No one can see.
See the pain devouring me.

Then I hope that one day,
One day soon,
I will be strong enough to pull through.

You look at me,
But all you see,
All you see is what I can't be.

There is more,
More to me than you see,
I am dieing inside.

My soul darkens,
My heart weeps.
I have no hope.

I have been disowned.
Misled.
Hurt and broken.

No one has discovered me,
No one looks at me.

I am alone in this world,
Becasue these people choose not to see,
See the real me.

2007-01-09 18:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i fell for a guy that is married but getting a divorce he is twice my age and we work together.right now i dont want a relationship with him i just want to have fun because i am too young to settle down now.but i am scared if his divorce comes thru he might want a relationship.

2007-01-09 18:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by laylee 1

When I started seeing my now girlfriend in July2006, I was already in a relationship that had been going on for 15 years on and off. I lied to her because I thought that if I told the truth I would not get a chance to know her. One day my girlfriend of 15 years called my new girlfriend and told her everything about us, even the fact that we live together. Needless to say, I was put out of my house that day. I really didn't care because I was unhappy in that relationship anyway. My now girlfriend forgave me and allowed me to move in with her. Now she is telling me that I am too lazy since I won't water the grass every single day, or make the bed in the morning, or basically jump when she says jump. I never had to do those things with my first girlfriend and I am not going to start now. Now since I refuse to do things her way, she wants me to move out. I don't think that she ever forgave me for what I did like she said she did. She even refuses to continue washing my clothes.

2007-01-09 18:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by david t 1

if a guy that you've seen before but never talked to you askes you out?

2007-01-09 18:06:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've seen some guys try to play it off like they are talking with somebody else, when everyone knows who it is they are talking too. Then there are the whiperers, who try to talk the mushy stuff low, they think noones else is listening everyone hears everything though. What about those guys who check in every 10 minutes, jesus christ bro break the chains! Then there's the dreaded end of the conversation.

Guy: "ok hon I'm gonna let you go now the guys are waiting"
Girl: "I love you"
Guy: "uh-huh, I"ll see you later"
Girl: "what kind of a response is that, I"m not hanging up until you say it"
Guy:"c'mon hon, I'm with the guys"
Girl: "YOU BETTER NOT HANG UP WITHOUT SAYING IT!"
Guy's friends: "Dude tell her you lover her already and get back over here, don't forget to pick up your balls from the floor"
Guy (whispering)" I love you snuggles"
Girl: "awwww"
Guy (back with his friends): "yeah that was steve I was talking too"
friends: "yeah ok snuggles"

lol

2007-01-09 18:05:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is dating a 19 year-old girl (my friend is 33). About 6 months ago they moved from Wyoming back to our home town and they were living with his mom at first. Turns out the girlfriend is a lazy bum. She wouldn't get a job and even snubbed a job my friend's mom hooked her up with. My friend's mom wound up kicking them out because the girlfriend was just a lazy slob. Last I heard they were living out of a motel. Every time I've tried to contact him in the last few months I just get his voice mail and never hear back.

My question is how far do I let it go before telling him to get his head together and realize the girl is dragging him down. Or do I just wait until he figures it out on his own and be there while he mopes in his beer.

I'm always the one who says "stay out of it" when it comes to getting between a friend and his girl, but there has to be a point where it's gone too far.

2007-01-09 18:04:39 · 1 answers · asked by Justin H 7

My g/f is pregenant and the baby isnt mine but we've been dating since she found out?
long story short, i just got out of engagement, and she wanted to be with me, but i told her i wasnt ready. she got with this guy then when i realized that i was ready to have a relationship again she dumped him for me, but not even dating for 2 weeks and she finds out shes preganent. the baby's father doesnt really come around, ive been supportive since day one, and want to help her raise her babygirl. even though she's not mine, i feel like she is cause ive been here since day one. besides her i was the first one to feel the baby kick, ive been picking out names, ive been doing the shopping, and planning with her, not the baby's father. she is now 8 months. but i dont know if she wants me to be "involved" as much as i would like to be, and its an uncomfortable topic to talk about, i want to know, what i should do. we've only been together for 7 months. i want to raise her like she is my own, but im afraid to ask. what should i do?

2007-01-09 18:04:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to dress "regular" - short sleeve tee, jeans etc, also grubby, ya know, big baggy hoody and "fat pants" and i also keep stuff in the closet for nice occasions, like nice semi-formal dinner dates, (mock neck zip up sweater over a blood-red front button long sleeve) and very formal events (downtown office meetings, etc. in a business suit). NOW.......can a guy do this without his girl being like "ok.....metro to cas. to slub"

I mean, i like a girl that can dress up nice and grub down, but does the same go for girls thinking about guys? do girls prefer a guy to be "just preppy" or "just casual"?

2007-01-09 18:00:59 · 6 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4

I have been left in the darkness,
No one can see.
See the pain devouring me.

Then I hope that one day,
One day soon,
I will be strong enough to pull through.

You look at me,
But all you see,
All you see is what I can't be.

There is more,
More to me than you see,
I am dieing inside.

My soul darkens,
My heart weeps.
I have no hope.

I have been disowned.
Misled.
Hurt and broken.

No one has discovered me,
No one looks at me.

I am alone in this world,
Becasue these people choose not to see,
See the real me.

2007-01-09 17:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf and i have been going out for 2 years, we always fight she swears at me, tells me to get f***, and F*** off if i dont agree what she is saying?? i aint perfect, but she is always saying how i dont treat her right but i treat her really good honest, i never swear at her, would never cheat, i love her to bits..... why does she yell and swear at me?? is it right for a gf to do that? or is it my fault she yells and swears at me?? help me

2007-01-09 17:59:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband hardley ever wants to sleep with me (this has been an issue since we first got together and i asked if i was just bad at it and he said no. hes a very honest person and i know he would tell me) he always wants to play his game or be on the computer. when he does spend time with me he wants me to give him a massage or pluck his eyebrows, pop his zits. Pamper him basically...he always tells me how much he loves me and he always tells me im so beautiful so i dont think its an attraction issue...what the hell? We;ve talked about it all and he doesnt know why he does it...I dunno...im frustrated

2007-01-09 17:59:12 · 3 answers · asked by imakulaff2 2

He knows I am a mature, modest, and conservative girl....and a Christian so I am not going to sleep with him....he know that but he likes me and he smokes pot and is very liberal about sex and all of that.....so why does he still like me and want to have a relationship when he knows I wont put out?

2007-01-09 17:57:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here is the deal---there is a guy that likes me and asked me out a while ago and I said no be we are still good friends, he has a friend who has a huge crush on me (he carries my books to class, asks who I am, and cute stuff like that) but he does not jump on it (ask me out or anything) but I dont like him. And both of the guys have a good friend that I like, it seems like he likes me back but does not do anything about it.

So is there like a rule that you can not ask a girl out that you best friend likes and asked out?
Is it ok if I make the first move telling this guy I like him?

2007-01-09 17:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

really who cares ? i hit my girlfriend all the time and she never left me so why does it matter to anyone else ? sometimes i even think she might like it, but i doubt it cause she seems to cry alot after. But whatever i get off on it!!

2007-01-09 17:54:22 · 30 answers · asked by Benjie 1

i've been going out with this man for 8 yrs and we've been staying together for 5 yrs,when i meet him he was nothing and know he have everything even a house i made him to buy a house.and we have a 3 year old girl together.he is bad mouthing me to his family that his not gonna marry me until i change my attitude he says that i have a bad attitude i'm abusing him emotional and if he marys me his life will be mirisable.

2007-01-09 17:53:52 · 3 answers · asked by zoleka k 2

My boyfriend has his playstation online, last night this chick on the game he was playing asked him to talk, and apparently he has been talking to her for a while, as friend. So why is he calling her hun etc, when he does not even say that to me? I asked him about it and he got all worked up, and go rel mad at me. Should I be worried?

2007-01-09 17:51:31 · 28 answers · asked by mizz0wl 2

I have no problem meeting girls, They like me and I do well but I dont want a relationship sometimes I just want sex with no strings attached. Girls what can I say that will get you to my loft without the fuss of phone calls, dinner, movies etc?

2007-01-09 17:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with this guy for 7 yrs. His mom didn't like me and was always lying on me like I was calling her phone and texting her phone. His aunt was lying like i was following her around town and stalking her. We ended up separated because of these things and he strongly feels like i did these things. And now he claims he doesn't trust me because he thinks I'm slick. How do I get him to believe me again and trust me and understand his family is lying cause they don't want him with me. And he says blood is thicker than water and I have done so much for him. How do I get him back.

2007-01-09 17:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful_necey 1

does any one think it is wrong for a 19 year to be going out with a 25 year old ??????????

2007-01-09 17:46:54 · 48 answers · asked by stacey a 1

2007-01-09 17:45:05 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

will they just do it??

2007-01-09 17:43:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Besides gettign one of your friends to pull some moves...none of my friends will do that for me ahah???

2007-01-09 17:43:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and lied about the details. He says he's sorry and that he's realized that I'm the one he wants to be with and will never do it again, etc., etc., blah blah blah. I have two choices, give him a second chance or dump him. If I stay with him, what are some specific things that should be done to earn my trust again? We've all heard the saying, "Trust takes time." Yes, that's true, but there's so much more to it than time. I can just sit there day after day and pretend it never happened, and with time, trust him. What are specific things he should do to get that trust back? He sincerely wants it but says he doesn't know how to prove he's trustworthy. And trust is so hard to prove anyway. I can just assume he's being honorable when really I can't be 100% sure right? Can you even get trust back, even after your partner has hurt you tremendously? I want us to work, and I think he does too. Thanks for any advice you can give me.

2007-01-09 17:41:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

sounds crazy BUT...
I made a fake hotmail account....I got pictures of hot girls off the internet to go with it.
I emailed my boyfriend sayign I was a girl from town and I was browsign through people's from my town's profiles. I told him that I thought he was really hot...and sent him a bunch of hot pictures.
I was with him when he opened the email and he was just like "that girls retarded" and I said "dont email her back" and he said "Obviously Im not going to".....
Later on I checked the email and apparently when I left for work he had emailed her back...just kinda introducign himself.
I kept it going....
He emailed her on daily basis and told me he emailed her once back just introducign himself.
basically it ended up i askred him if he wanted to ahve some fun..he said he liked to ahev fun and I asked him if he wanted to have sex with me and he said "hell yeah"...than i freaked out and went to his house and he told me he knew it was me...not quite at the start..@ the end he did

2007-01-09 17:41:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends(all girls)are jerks so i decided to hang with the boys today at school and play football(iam mvp!)and we were playing and this gossip was happening earlier so i left them for the boys and we were messing around having fun and i looked over and i saw my two(really good friends) gossiping about me...lokking SOOO... JEALIOUS. i just have to say they were being real jerk-offs so i left and now there all jealious.!lol sometimes dont u think somethings should last forever!ha

2007-01-09 17:41:12 · 10 answers · asked by hannah1 2

Is this ethical?

2007-01-09 17:41:06 · 4 answers · asked by ZV 1

“Why does nonverbal communication speak louder than words in intimate relationships?”

2007-01-09 17:40:06 · 14 answers · asked by nizam_cl 1

2007-01-09 17:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by meetgopi 1

This guy and I were in love when teen's. We moved on and it's been ten years. I've seen him at parties and we talked but had other commitments during these years. Just last month I learned he had opened a night club. I've been going there every wkend since. We've talked and played around and he took me home one night and we had sex for the first time. Now, he acts distant but gets upset if I reject him now and he doesn't like other men talking to me. I stopped the affection b/c I was drunk when we did it and I wanted us to get to know each other again b/c I think I may want to be with him for a very long time. What do I do?

2007-01-09 17:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by precious girl 1